How do I feel comfortable in my body again after contracting Herpes?

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Hello everyone, please don’t be too hard on me. This has been an emotional rollercoaster for me finding out this news. I’ve only ever had 2 sexual partners and I’m 25 years old. One was from years ago who I was planning on marrying and then he became physically and emotionally abusive so I left him. The relationship gave me PTSD so I haven’t dated in a long time. The other is a really sweet guy I’ve been seeing for two months now. 10 days after sleeping together I started getting ulcers on my vulva. (Skin around vagina) I was tested immediately and came out positive. I’m so heartbroken and upset because I’ve always been so responsible and didn’t whore around. How am I ever suppose to feel comfortable in my own skin or even consider having sex again? I feel so dirty and disgusting. I just don’t know what to do... Does anyone have helpful advice to get me through this rough patch in my life? Thank you and please no nasty comments.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

''I’d feel a lot more comfortable if this was something I could cure but it’s not.''

Most of the things people think have no cure, are only the case because only something natural can resolve it, therefore there is no money in it. This is how you are going to feel more comfortable, but you will need an open mind to do so.

Read the book ''The miraculous results of extremely high doses of the sunshine hormone vitamin D3 my experiment with huge doses of D3 from 25,000 to 50,000 to 100,000 IU a day over a 1 year period'' This will give you an understanding of where I'm coming from.

Our bodies are designed to cure all sorts of illness, but due to a lack of understanding, and over reliance on chemicals, they are rarely given the resources and building blocks they need to do so.

Studies already show a close link between recurrent herpes and low vitamin D3 levels.

Also read this https://anh-usa.org/herpes-why-is-conventional-medicine-ignoring-the-obvious-solution/

COMMODOREII · Accepted Answer

I found these.  *big hug*

Secret6620 · Accepted Answer

I couldn't imagine the betrayal you feel and the depression this could cause. You will have to work overtime on self love. 🌸💜🌸

AndyOh · Answer

HI there. Very sorry to hear of your predicament. HSV2 is no picnic and can also really bring one's self esteem down.
Because of the way you feel about yourself right now, i would highly suggest getting in to see a counselor. A good one can do wonders for you.
A lot of people have it, including me. The good thing is it can be controlled and the breakouts lessened to nothing. The bad is that now you have something no one wants and you have to kind of look in new areas for dates.
Good luck with it. Remember you are still a beautiful person (inside and out).
Message me if you want.

reptocarl · Answer

Sue him

blutwolfe · Answer

Just realize Stds are more common than you think, hell I got chlamydia from my ex, then turned around and got back with her again and got HPV, shit happens to us all even if we don't sleep around ourselves. Granted mine were curable/not deadly, but that relationship definitely ended.

All you can do is start seeing a doctor and getting treatment, I'm sure they have plenty of similar stories as well

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

That's got to be really hard diagnosis to get.

Anonymous · Answer

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