If your intimacy is lacking in the physical department or he feels like he might bother you, he might masturbate just to get it out of the way. guys sometimes do it so that they don’t make their girlfriends feel like they’re just sexual objects. I have done it because I knew my girl felt unattractive for a time and didn’t want to make her uncomfortable or feel pressured. Sex isn’t fun if the other person isn’t ready or open to it. Don’t consider it a bad thing.. it isn’t.
means he's using porn to drain the worm. If he stops sex will resume-after a while. Its called "porn dick" and sometimes after too much masturbation and porn guys cannot maintain an erection long enough. If that is the case it will clear after a month-2 at the outside. He needs to detox from the porn.
wow two months is a long time if I was in a relationship with somebody and we didn't even have sex for a week at start to get suspicious and wonder what the hell is going on. why haven't you talked to him it's been 2 months that's a long time to go without sex when you're with somebody.
I have. He said it’s cause we live with our in laws and that he just doesn’t want to. But is perfectly happy watching porn and jacking off to it.
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I told him I’m willing to try anything for him
Two months is quite some time... think questions need to start being asked but wouldn't say red flags just probably getting close
Yes it probably is and is also possible that you just don't make an effort for him and he'd rather not be controlled by that
I try all the time. I get denied.
It's a precursor to future problems is what it is.
The porn is obviously interfering with your intimacy, and you two need to fix that or your relationship will never work.
When he tries to seduce you for sex, do you turn him down?
Never.
Only when you seduce him?
Pretty much
Yeah it is
Yes it's definitely a red flag
Yes it is a red flag
Yes, do you live together? Honestly, porn is a problem when he choose porn over you or when he promises to stop and can't. I watch porn, but given the choice I would pick my girlfriend to cum.
We do. We currently also live with his parents to safe money
It's a problem unless you deny him sex with any frequency.
I don’t deny him. He deny’s me. I always have sex with him when he wants to
He is not into you anymore. Do you nag him a lot or make sex a chore?
Not at all
We only have sex when he wants to
Here is the answer, he didn't feel like you like getting fucked by him. So take initiative, do things in sex which please him
It's a redflag because he clearly has a porn addiction.
That's pathetic tbh having a woman and yet getting off to porn. Maybe try to spice things up or see other people because it doesn't sound promising for your future together specially you're still pretty young.
I’m 26, he is 24
Not a red flag but the lack of sex for 2 years would be unless there is a reason for that?
Have you asked him about it?
Yeah, he just says we can’t cause we live with the in laws. There are times when they’re gone for hours but we still won’t. He also said he just doesn’t want to
I would say it is a red flag. It sounds like his addiction and fantasies are taking over his real world perspective of life. Maybe try to talk to him and have him watch less of it or just find a new dude.
If he’s masturbating a lot yeah that could be why
Hey well.. i have that problem too... i can explain what is the problem here😊
And that is?
It isn't a red flag tho... he is simply addicted to porn
Get rid of his habit if you guys want no problems.
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