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I’m cheating on boyfriend with a woman?

Boyfriend has no clue but I’m sleeping with another woman behind his back. I asked him if he would let me explore my bisexual nature and he was strictly against it. Threesomes were also not an option so I was left with no other choose. The woman I’m sleeping with satisfies me so much but I don’t want to be with her. I’m not in the wrong because I don’t plan on leaving boyfriend? And it’s temporary sexual fun?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Guys listen up. If you have a girlfriend that asks you any such questions, just ditch her immediately and move on.

    She says she's not in the wrong... but if her boyfriend was screwing a man... he'd be considered in the wrong. What you have here is a dominant ego, possible narcissism, and addiction to dopamine. Not to mention the risk of disease the boyfriend now has been exposed to.

    People. My suggestion to you is to learn self control, understand dopamine, face yourself, stop watching porn, stop masturbating and reach your higher self. When you do so, you are no longer a slave to your dopamine and pleasure centers. This is what society wants you to be. They want you to be blinded by lust, a slave to your urges, and a follower of your desires. This makes you easy to manipulate, easy to control, and removes all of your natural power.

  • "I'm not in the wrong"🤣...
    I haven't heard of a woman this delusional since Amber Heard in the Johnny Depp audio.

    I guess it's true what they say, if u tell a lie long enough you'll actually start to believe it. U don't want any judgments? Please, when ur being this much of a piece of shit of course ur gonna get judged.
    Just do him and yourself a favour and just tell him the truth and break up, it's gonna hurt but it's what's best for everyone.

Most Helpful Girls

  • In what way a woman can satisfy you that a man; your boyfriend is unable to? Like it doesn't make sense.

    Your poor boyfriend..
    You cheated on him.. not even with another man but a woman? Seriously?

    Leave this poor guy. And maybe don't tell him. It'll crush him

  • Have you tried… you know… not being a piece of shit?

    • Some people can't help it

    • @thewiggles Evidently

    • Here come the judgmental folks

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  • How are you not in the wrong? Are you stupid? You're cheating. That's wrong. Do him a favor and leave. He deserves better than you.

  • "I don’t want any judgments"

    Tough shit. You're a whore.

  • Is there a question in there. You explained that you are cheating on your boyfriend. And you don't want any judgement. So why post?

  • It’s just exploring. I think it’s fun. He should’ve welcomed it. He could’ve got two for one.

    • He didn’t want it at all

  • Technically it’s not cheating since it the same sex exploration so don’t tell and don’t ask.

    • Yeah because it’s not with another guy

    • It's still cheating. Hell it's kind of worse I'd feel pretty bad if a girl I was going out with was fucking another girl. At least invite me to join

    • Damn, u 2 r really delusional

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  • It's something you should talk about with your boyfriend. Who knows maybe he gives you approval and be comfortable about it. Just casually ask him.

    • We’ve had that talk and he said no

    • Your mistake was asking him. The sensible and respectful option would have been to tell him: "I'm going to do this anyway, so come to terms with it or break up with me." Now you have created a situation where you have to keep secrets from someone you love, live in fear of being caught, and be all sorts of careful about what you do (which means not doing it nearly as often as you could), then eventually go through an angry breakup where you have humiliated this person you love and he hates you. When with just a little honesty he could have ended it with dignity and probably maintained a casual thing with you indefinitely; or chances are after some soul searching he'd have accepted your terms, and you'd have exactly what you have now but with his blessing and no guilt. Also no pretending you don't feel like a shitty person and are just telling us about it for fun.

  • Cheating is cheating, end of story end of discussion..

    On that same token my wife is bi.. I made one single rule with that. If she wanted a woman i had to be present and involved. otherwise it simply would not happen.

    Yours appears to be dead set against it, if i were him, id leave.. Honest and loyalty is apparently an impossibility with women your age.

  • Yikes

  • Are you bi?

  • Thats bad.

  • You are cheating on him, you are 100% in the wrong.

  • Yes that's cheating

  • I'm confused you don't want judgmental people and you want those to feel bad for you because you're cheating on your boyfriend. I feel bad for your poor boy friend who has a cheating girlfriend

  • How did you meet the women?

    • I knew her

    • From where?

    • From university

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  • Your boyfriend is kind of an asshole to even worry about this kind of thing. My SO is bi, has an on and off again girlfriend, and honestly it doesn't bother me as I am friends with her girlfriend who I actually really like.

    • My SO is a lot happier and more fun when she gets along with her girlfriend, so I try to help her with that relationship. Makes my life

    • more fun too. I hate that you can't edit or delete posts here.

  • All I can say is you're a piece of shit, you deserve nothing in the way of niceness

  • Well I guess you won’t get pregnant

  • Yup you are cheating essentially and should come clean.

    • Lmao. You are going to get judgements

    • Thanks

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