
In the poll, please answer:
Would you upvote this? If so, is it because you think small tits are inferior, or for another reason (such as simple amusement)?
& Do you agree the meme is immoral?
Exactly. People keep responding like I'm personally offended. I'm not, because I can just brush it off as those people being assholes. But it is not me in the picture. If someone made ME into a meme basically saying my body was inferior, and 30,000 people upvoted it, I would be really upset. So that is why I am annoyed about this meme.
You're just empathetic enough to realize how humiliating and sad it would be to have a pic like that made of you. I'm pretty sure 90% of the guys on here who are saying that it's "just a joke" wouldn't think it's as funny if someone made a joke like this about their penis size, height, weight...
I think it's just too easy to see memes like this and not realize that these girls are real people who probably didn't want this meme to be made in the first place.
and honestly, if someone made a meme of me like this & it didn't get any upvotes, I would just dismiss it as the creator simply being an asshole.
But if 30,000 people upvoted it, I would feel utterly humiliated. So I think the people upvoting it are almost as bad as the guy who made the meme. (There is also the fact that upvoting these sorts of memes encourages people to make more.)
Except women can change their breast size via surgery. Guys can't change their height and most guys will still date a girl even if she has small breasts. Unlike most women who won't date a guy that is under 6 feet tall. Its crazy women love to mock men for having small dicks or being short. Something we can't change but if a guy jokes about a woman's weight or breast size. Something she has complete total control over he's an asshole.
@baseballnerd24 well mocking either a man or woman for their bodies is wrong. but the claim that most women won't date a guy under 6'0 is just ridiculous. I can think of plenty sex symbols under 6'0
still, women mock men for their dick size and height way more than men ever mock women for their weight and boob size. It's just okay for women to mock us for it.
@baseballnerd24 so just because a woman can go under the knife to get larger breasts it means it's less hurtful to make memes like this? It isn't. Trust me. Getting breast implants also costs thousands of dollars/euros, plus can cause massive health issues (google breast implant illness), so it's not like just anyone can get them, nor do most girls even want them in the first place. Also everyone has a right to their own preferences, whether that's big breasts or someone who's over 6 feet. What's not ok though, is mocking people who don't fit your preferences, and this meme very much falls into that category. I'd also say that the mocking is pretty much equal, because humans in general are quite ruthless. It might be easier for you to only notice the men getting mocked though, since you're a man yourself. Regardless, fighting fire with fire is very immature and just because one type of mocking happens, it doesn't mean it's ok for another type of mocking to happen.
@yourspraytan 100% doubt that.
Who eats bread by itself? I wouldn't touch bread unless I was pairing it with something else. By itself, bread is bland, while garlic bread is tasty by itself. So the meme is saying that the bigger woman's breasts are intrinsically satisfying, while the smaller woman's breasts are bland.
I have eaten bread pieces by themselves lots of times... I don't know maybe where I live bread is tastier. Or maybe by bread I'm understanding something different due to cultural differences. Maybe you are thinking about this industrial bread in loafs while I'm thinking in bread types more similar to baguettes, breadsticks or cibatta, made artisanly in a bakery.
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I did not vote only because you don't have the option I would choose - the best neutral option:
"Doesn't matter to me either way."
@Boppy But it doesn't necessarily. You can make garlic bread that has nearly zero fat just by getting creative with certain oils, food coloring and garlic salt.
@Boppy "Wait, are oils and fats separate?"
Depends on the type of fat. Everything has fat. But how much bad fat?
Which is why, if you actually read my original reply, I said NEARLY zero fat.
Stop justifying being an asshole. It takes literally zero effort to not make a hurtful meme.
Okay, 30,000 people upvoted it. Who are you to invalidate the opinions of 30,000 people?
That's textbook narcissism.
I mean that I laughed but once I thought about it I know I shouldn't have. Because this joke could easily be reversed to make fun of men the same way and it opened my eyes a little bit.
The issue is that the meme is featuring a real woman who has feelings. I can only imagine how upsetting it would be to have a meme, insulting my body, get thousands of upvotes.
If people were ridiculing a real man for his small dick I would also agree that it is wrong.
So if you're not as attracted to your partner's tits, you won't feel anything during intercourse, the same way women physically can't feel much if the penis is too small? interesting.
It is indeed interesting that you read something I didn't write, or even imply.
"... the same way women physically can't feel much if the penis is too small?"
Kindly go back and tell me where I wrote any such thing. I'll wait...
... take your time...
... Done?
That's right. I never wrote or implied ANY SUCH THING. Though you seem to have inferred it.
Let me say it again. How physically attracted we are to our mates does VERY MUCH have an impact on the sex we have with them. Physical attraction does impact the pleasure of the sex, regardless of what feature is turning us on or off (face, boobs, chest, facial hair, lack of facial hair, etc.)
My question was sarcastic. Yes, attraction affects pleasure, but not in the same way penis size affects pleasure. If a penis is too small then a woman can barely feel anything during intercourse. That is not the case for a man if a woman's tit size is not according to his preference.
How much you like looking at her body directly affects the strength of your boner, so YES it absolutely does impact how pleasurable the sex is.
@DonCachondo and how much a woman likes looking at a man's body is related to how wet she gets. Still not the same as the physical sensations during intercourse
Yes, it affects both in similar ways. So in conclusion... boobs have an effect (depending on the guy's tastes).
The definition of "immoral" is "not moral". Moral means "concerned with the principles of right and wrong behavior and the goodness or badness of human character".
Making this meme is certainly wrong to do. It's the sort of reason why so many women go under the knife & risk their health in a dangerous surgery.
You asked for opinions. I'm not interested in engaging in a debate on what constitutes immoral behavior. If you want to say that childish, thoughtless or mean equates to immorality, fine. Seems like a rather fundamentalist approach to me. It's like equating rudeness with rape or something.
And saying it's the sort of reason who so many women go under the knife is like blaming Ozzy Osborne for suicides. People do all kinds of things for their own reasons.
and it is a fact big tits are better... disagree all u want but the majority of men find big tits better... go cry all u want.. its true
Imagine making a fake account just to post this bullshit when I already allow anonymous posters on my questions-
A fat man and a fit man? You mean like Laurel and Hardy or Abbott and Costello? Or The Three Stooges?
that is a celebrity. I have seen memes ridiculing Chloe Moretz's and Emma Roberts' small boobs & I did not post about it because they are celebrities and are far too busy; they will probably never see it.
The reason I am angry about this meme is that it is a regular girl who is being turned into a meme when all she wanted to do was take a picture with a friend.
Facts! Although, again blaming the younger generation is futile. Since I seen almost the same if not worse behavior from the older generation. For example, we complain that the younger generation doesn't know how to handle their money properly. Right? And some acknowledge that they aren't taught, and others say the older generation was taught... so why then did the older generation still grow up so poor? Why even more does congress, which is full of older generation, continue to borrow, put us in more debt and raise the debt ceiling but have no intentions of even thinking of managing America's money properly? It's pointless to heap complete blame on the younger generation when the old heads were/are just as bad, if not worse. But we refuse to recognize that because some of us are starting to get into that old head range... and we are just as bad. Dont want to look in the mirror
@motownplayer2000 Oh, I was just generalizing with the 'worry about the world in 50 years' due to how ridiculous this post is. I am of the younger generation.
Just because more people prefer garlic bread than regular bread doesn't mean everyone prefers it.
Personally I know that more women prefer guys with short hair, but I think long hair is more attractive on guys. Different people have different preferences, even if their preferences are less common.
so if someone posted a meme of YOU standing next to another guy who had a huge bulge, and said you were "bread" and the other guy was "garlic bread", and 30,000 people upvoted it, you would not be offended?
I would not care at all. Literally. There are people with smaller and bigger dicks than me. So what?
Also, I hate garlic bread.
All aside, I can always choose to not take offense and/or ignore things. I have a really thick skin, when it comes to things like this. People laughing at a meme about me will have no impact on my life whatsoever.
The biggest problem here would be the fact that my face would have been made public which I avoid, due to the sensitive nature of my job.
There have been actual cases where real models in adverts got popular because of some silly memes that destroyed their careers for no reason.
@update, I guess it depends on what you mean by "inferior." If I think the girl on the left has a more attractive chest than the girl on the right, would you count that as finding small tits inferior? Or would I have to say something like the girl on the right CAN'T be attractive because she's not so well endowed?
Incidentally, the 3 downvotes here are great examples of why I'd have to say "yes" to this question:
Have you ever been criticized, insulted, or shamed over your breast size preference? ↗
I disagree that you can objectify women and still love them. people don't truly love objects. I "love" my phone until I break it & feel no remorse in disposing it and getting a new one. If thats the way you "love" humans, then you don't truly love them
I think you and I have different definitions of objectification. I think that if you want to fuck a woman, but you still love and respect her, you are not objectifying her. Objectification is when you reduce someone's value SOLELY to their ability to sexually satisfy you (visually or otherwise).
I mean no disrespect. Only if you understood how men are wired, would you then understand why you are incorrect. You are speaking not only from a female perspective but also from a largely unsexualized, inhibited one. When you are eventually fully immersed in and comfortable with sexuality, you may see things differently. Or you may not.
Even in the deepest "soul connected" sexual intimacy, we may employ objectivization too get over the top.
@Jamie05rhs But The Woman was not a third wave Feminist and probably liked her breasts being compared to swans.
@mistixs Then you can't assume that a man doesn't truly love a woman just because he is using objectifying language towards her. He may actually love her with all of his heart.
@Jamie05rhs sexual objectification is reducing a person's value solely to an object of sexual pleasure.
@mistixs Okay. I know that. But isn't the interpretation of what is said going to be subjective?
Yeah it's immoral and I won't give it the time of day , but these memes are immature asf
I ment to click I wouldn't upvote and it's immoral , but I hit the last one thinking it said I wouldn't upvote and I don't think small boobs... So take one point off the last one
Also, if you assume small tits are inferior, you're already assuming that normal bread is inferior. Guess what, in both cases, it's a matter of preferences, of tastes and there is no better alternative. It's all up to your interpretation.
@KrakenAttackin she's gorgeous so obviously not, but still being compared make us feel conscious. It is still hurtful to appear as a joke on the internet.
Well, this is just a tiny bit of the shit men have to endure at the hands of women.
People joke about everything, watch any comedy special and u will see that, that you take offense reflects worse on you than the person who made the meme
People consent to partaking in a comedy special. This girl didn't consent to having her body being turned into a joke
Well if you want to be a bully then that's your business. Personally I avoid ridiculing people's bodies on public platforms because I try to avoid being an asshole. You should try it sometime :)
This meme is ridiculing and bullying someone over their body, and you're justifying it. That's called being a "reinforcer" and studies show that reinforcers have many of the same negative qualities as do bullies themselves.
Not @ all,,,, I'm not trying to say this is right taking into consideration that we all are uniquely different, all I'm saying is that attention shouldn't be given to things like this because it's to me it's so irrelevant
I have had more problems with big breasts womt thaw flat chest. I nearly died when a big tits woman used her M cup breasts to try to sufficate me, lucky there was two smaller breasts women came to my aid
Well it wasn't either of the girls who made the meme. I heard the big-breasted girl was upset about the meme. But I agree that whoever made the meme is an asshole
Some people don't like their bodies being turned into a joke & having it upvoted by 30,000 people
so if someone posted a meme of YOU standing next to another guy who had a huge bulge, and said you were "bread" and the other guy was "garlic bread", and 30,000 people upvoted it, you would not be offended?
Honestly ik it wasn't a question for me, but it would be funny one way or another. Like it's clearly a joke, and it's funny. You're taking it too seriously. And how do you know that both girls in the photo weren't laughing at it too later on? You shouldn't get offended over something on behalf of someone else.
@MaleUser123 They weren't laughing. They were both really upset and had to disable comments on their Instagram necause people were harassing them.
Well obviously they shouldn't be harassed. But the meme itself is whatever. They shouldn't be harassed, but at the same time the photo itself shouldn't be the part of the situation anyone should have a problem with. The problem is with the reaction to it. I'm sorry that they're harassed, but the picture itself isn't the problem, it's just the people who acted in response. It's very unfortunate
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