How do guys like women to initiate sex?

[jgirl99]

I'm shy when it comes to initiating sexual activities (probably cause fear or rejection) so do you guys have any tips on the best way to approach you or ask or invite you for sex (plus I like it when the guy initiates more anyway but I wanna know cause I think it could be hot if I were to surprise a guy somehow with it like out of nowhere)

[pajamasam]

As long as I'm not busy, or in a terrible mood I'm most likely going to be down for sex.

A direct statement like "I wanna fuck you" will be way more effective than you think.

Also breaking "girl rules" and being a little slutty is really noticable and very attractive.

Wait till he's watching tv and bend over right in front of the tv and block his view, when he asks you to move say "why dont you make me"

Tell him you want to exercise. When he asks whether you want to run or go biking or whatever tell him, "I want to exercise in the bed room"

This one is more personal for me so it may not work on every guy but I dated a girl who was really into cooking and she always wanted me to help her out and she would teach me stuff but the whole time she was teaching me stuff she would sprinkle in all kinds of dirty talk like, "kneed that dough. No no no, squeeze it like you wanna fuck it"

That kinda flirting was always really attractive for me.

[John83]

If she started making out with me and then slid her hand down my pants or unzipped them, that would be a good way to initiate. It would turn me on more if instead of asking, she just took what she wanted.

[dthomas89]

Be careful with that. Yes, even women can be called for "rape"

[dthomas89]

by the way qa, you have a big nerve, picking someone else, as MHO, just because you don't like me

[Forestfox]

I think guys are honestly expecting a bit more of a response from our side.

[jgirl99]

Elaborate?

[Forestfox]

From guys I've known, they feel like the whole starting it is on their shoulders. I don't think it should be that way. Who cares who started? If there's mutual attraction and horniness, then why not someone just come out and say it to him/her?

[jgirl99]

Yea I get that, I just meant ways to start it/ say it to be a little more confident about it

[Forestfox]

Well maybe make signals like touching your cleavage, sucking the spoon a little more than usually as he catches your eye... There's something I said once, when experimenting with a guy that worked! Pm me to know what I said hah

[jgirl99]

Lol okay, i will tmrrow😉

[Jaycrowe]

@jgirl99 and @Forestfox. U both got it wrong ladies? U 2 no u guys hold our faith? Meaning both u beautiful ladies really dont need to try. Juss smile nmak eye contract n wave n if he got balls he'll run up n y'all to talk. U females got it e z

[Jaycrowe]

U women have what Evey man wants? Dat cuddy haha

[Jaycrowe]

Daymn I hear u guys or I read it n daymn makes me wana handle both of u so u 2 don't gta try to speak to ah fool... cuz if no1 noticed u 2 then they don't deserve u

[Forestfox]

Thanks for mho!

[integrale77]

One way to initiate is just go cop a feel. In fact all them things you hate men doing like pitching/grabbing your ass feeling you up etc there generally fair game!

[Bad_Man55]

I've never said no to sex. Even if I was sick I still did it

[ecfresh]

I would want her to send me a dirty message or leave me a dirty phone call. Then when I got home make it clear that she was wearing something sexy and ready to go. Start kissing me and here we go.

[ecfresh]

As a practical example one year I drove up to my girlfriend in jax to surprise her as she was going through a lot of challenges that month. Got a hotel room to stay the weekend as she happened to be living with her parents at the time. After we had a nice Friday night I woke up Saturday and got myself breakfast. She messaged me and asked me to go get dressed for the day as she had a surprise for me. When I opened up my hotel room I found her in my bed, naked under the covers. She was the surprise. That’s one example of initiating a love making session.

[Dargil]

Do you mean already in an intimate setting or out in public?

[hussinpunk]

it's by your Feelings it's like Football game one two example
I get so close to you like 70% you continue the 30% I stared kissing you handed over your lips to mine so I stated touching while kissing so you hugging me so much look if we have contact like what's app number or Facebook or instagram I talk to you more about it

[Ripper_E]

I can only speak for myself, but as long as I'm not extremely busy or in a bad mood, whatever she chooses to do is fine. I want to please her so I'm not going to reject her. She should be able to tell when is a good or bad time though.

[somonenice]

its really turning me on when she ask for it , specially with a hot and sexy way...

[ColHathi]

There needs to be a level of trust between me and the girl before I'm comfortable with it, but beyond that, anyway the girl likes it I'm fine with ^^ It coming out of nowhere sounds fun.

[FairyRed]

Drop on to your knees :)

[s2firestar]

Yeah. After 24 hours of duty, I'd much rather sleep. Or after a rough day. My job is extremely demanding.

Anyways, don't fear of rejection. Worst that can happen is that you do it later.

[Dragan]

I don't expect initiation, but I don't mind if the girl initiates. In general, I would like women to always respond to male initiation, for example:
1. We have sex immediately
2. I'm horny honey, can it be a little later?
3. I want sex but only tonight, now I have to do something else
4. I don't want sex today
5. I'm tense, if you relax me then I want to.

[dthomas89]

The same way you'd want to be asked yourself. Guys are essentially just like women, we just try not to show it

[jgirl99]

Lmao so true.

[dthomas89]

Yes, don't send him NSFW pics. He's at work, it's annoying

[jgirl99]

Lmao, no I love doing that and teasing him😆

[dthomas89]

NO, STOP DOING IT

[jgirl99]

Lol why?

[dthomas89]

Because it's not cool And you need to get your hormones in check bro

[jgirl99]

U need to relax

[dthomas89]

just sayin

[Orangeandturquoise]

Yes. It shows maturity and confidence. It doesn't have to be excessive of course but it's always good to get some feedback and some more open expressions of wanting to have sex, instead of incredibly difficult and specific hints that can only be interpreted with a magnifying glass 😂 but I don't mean that you have to stop saying no when you don't want to, I'm just say a clearer yes when you do want to 😂

[Orangeandturquoise]

Yeah definitely. We have our non horny times.

[COMMODOREII]

Kissing and heavy petting. Slipping your hand in for a feel. 😛

[COMMODOREII]

Yeah actually there are other reasons why a guy might not want to have sex especially if that is you think of him as.

[navyP]

There is really no wrong way for a women to initiate sex

[blueguy07]

By kissing me or undressing me

[blueguy07]

You can hold him and start to kiss him softly. I like to initiate it

[Twalli]

Honestly most guys don't care how you initiate sex.

[Proxyz123]

Tell him how you feel about having sex with him and what you want him to do and what feels good. That makes him want to do it and then maybe tease him a bit by helping him remove his shirt or smth and then clearly tell him let's do it!

[Jerre]

Just be yourself. If you are slow dancing with a guy, push your pelvis hard against a guy until you feel him get hard. Once he does, tell him it feels so good! If you are just talking, try to turn the conversation to sex, notice when he gets hard, ask him what he uses that (hard cock) for.

[B2281]

What I'd like is for her to start with kissing me, then slide one of her hands between my legs & tell me how much she wants me right now.