My husband won't have sex with me?

My husband barely touches me we don't have sex I'm loosing my mind what do I do
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Only two responses said to talk to him.. God the rest of you should be ashamed. That you'd throw a marriage away just like that.. Sickening.. You are why no one values marriage any more.

    I guarantee none of you would say anything like that if the OP was a blue..

    Now @ asker. Have you talked to him? You need to if you have not. It's possible he might be cheating. It's also possible he might be suffering from low T or ED.. I use to have an issue with that... Before I lost the weight.. Bottom line communication needs to happen.. Don't listen to these other jackasses.,

    • I tried talking to him and Everytime he changes the subject

    • There could be something wrong. Has he been hiding anything, being suspicious?

    • Some times but I could just be parinod too

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  • There are a number of reasons why this may be. The usual suspects like another woman (or in this day and age, another man). He’s mad at you for some or many reasons. He has stopped finding you attractive. One that few consider because it is a newer phenomenon is his testosterone levels are low. These days I would guess the latter.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Wake him up tomorrow with a bj, tease him by walking around in some small spandex or simply underwear, go topless, tidy yourself up like shave legs and pubes, you know...

    If still he doesn't wana have sex with you, maybe he is cheating

  • Have you tried talking to him to better understand his disinterest?

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  • Talk to him... Duh?

  • Talk to him about it, ask him why he doesn't have sex with you, and base your decision off of that.

  • Congratulations on winning the Troll of the day award.

  • Divorce. It’s over

  • If HE does not begin... 'begin' yourself.

  • just say

    roses are red, violets are blue
    give me that dick, or im dumping you

  • First you need to discover the cause. Have you talked to him?

  • Go to a night club and hooked up with a man or a women and fulfill your sexual need's with him or her. :)

  • Find another man.

  • Talk to him. Its not going to fix itself

  • DIVORCE!!!

  • I have the reverse issue. My wife hasn't wanted sex for almost three years now. We know it's a medical issue. We also know that there is medication to help the issue, but she doesn't like taking it because of the way it makes her feel. I try to be supportive, but a guy can only stand so much. Let me know if you figure something out.

    • I wish I could find a solution

    • Me too

  • Find out first , why she isn't. There will be something you have done. Try saying sorry and mean it...

  • Communicate with him and ask him why he doesn't want to.

  • Why not?

  • It could be so many things
    Your best option is to just ask him I know it's gonna suck but at least you will know why
    And if he ain't fucking you at all he is getting it from some where

  • Why won't he have sex with you

  • make him horney

  • Well that's an easy one leave his ass an go find someone that will touch u like u want to be an that will give u that dick like u want in ur life an if he hits on u or scare's u to where u don't want to leave him what until its cool to do so like when he go to work.
    God Bless

  • He’s getting it from somewhere. Either mistress, boyfriend or hookers. Dump him.

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