Why some men think that prostitutes own them a thing?

Question

A prostitute also can reject you, if you are a disrespectful or a piece of shit or for any reason.

Answer 1

integrale77 | 1.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

Because some men equate paying for a prostitute/escort as to owning them for however long you pay for.

However the correct way to think is your paying a person for there time and they are granting you the pleasure of sharing an intimate time together.

Anyone in a service industry is still a person with there own likes/dislikes and feelings be they working in a call centre like I do or if they are a prostitute/escort and too many people overlook this fact.

Bluemax

11 mo
This brings up an interesting side point. Is the prostitute under any obligation to think that her client is also a person with feelings, likes, and dislikes who is paying her hard earned money to perform a service? Should prostitutes show any respect or courtesy to their clients, provided the clients do the same?

Some prostitutes feel nothing but contempt for virtually ALL their clients.

Answer 2

Bluemax

This brings up an interesting side point. Is the prostitute under any obligation to think that her client is also a person with feelings, likes, and dislikes who is paying her hard earned money to perform a service? Should prostitutes show any respect or courtesy to their clients, provided the clients do the same?

Some prostitutes feel nothing but contempt for virtually ALL their clients.

Answer 3

NorthwestRider | 2.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Some men are just clueless idiots with an IQ of a rock

Answer 4

Bluemax | 1.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

The disrespect and outright abuse they get from the brothels and pimps worries me much more than the disrespect from potential clients. There's quite a bit of psychological damage done to those who become prostitutes. In places where it's illegal, it's very dangerous. In places where it's legal but unregulated, it's less dangerous, but not much so. Only in places where it's legal and regulated is it remotely a viable way to make a living.

As to why *some* men (And why is it so hard to write the word "some?") believe prostitutes owe them (and I believe "owe" is the word you're searching for, not "own") a thing, well in some cases it's because they've paid for a service. If you pay for a service, you have a right to expect to receive that service PROVIDED YOU ARE NOT ABUSIVE OR DISRESPECTFUL TO THE SERVICE PROVIDER. As to those who believe they are owed service when the prostitute rejects them before payment was ever received, or they are owed service when they are abusive and disrespectful to the prostitute, I think the reason they think this is because they're jerks.
If the prostitution industry disappeared from the face of the earth, I wouldn't really weep.
If you don't mind me asking, what's your primary language?

Bluemax

11 mo
I'm also curious what doc you watched. I'm wondering if it is the same one I watched. The conditions for prostitutes in India, where it is illegal but unregulated, are very saddening.
Bluemax

11 mo
Sorry, I meant *legal* but unregulated

Answer 5

Bluemax

I'm also curious what doc you watched. I'm wondering if it is the same one I watched. The conditions for prostitutes in India, where it is illegal but unregulated, are very saddening.

Answer 6

Bluemax

Sorry, I meant *legal* but unregulated

Answer 7

Ellie-V | 1.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Because prostitutes sell their bodies. In our minds, we attach capitalism with objectivity. But because the object in question is apart of the prostitutes humanity, boundaries are often misconstrued. The level of respect for the business itself is low since now they don’t even have respect for you as a person. They think putting a tangible value on your body exempts them from basic empathy and understanding of right and wrong. They’re not going to rob a liquor store not only because of the possible consequences but because they’ve been socialized to view stealing is wrong.
But obviously they aren’t going to think rape, coercion, pressure, or just being deceitful by not paying them the agreed amount is wrong since they assume that both your business and your humanity have no standards outside of money.
The fact that you have a mind and heart with feelings no longer matters. You are an object that most consumers not will genuinely respect. You are free to everyone’s entitlement no matter how high you set the price.

Personally, I find this perspective and way of thinking extremely disgusting toxic.

kim45456

11 mo
I mean you can think it is morally wrong but I dont think it is ethical to harm, hurt disrespect by insulting the sex workers is wrong. Anyway they would reject such customer. I have watched a documentary and a sex worker told that she denied the customer because of his disrespectful behaviour hahah
Ellie-V

11 mo
I was explaining why sex work consumers have an entitled mentality

Answer 8

kim45456

I mean you can think it is morally wrong but I dont think it is ethical to harm, hurt disrespect by insulting the sex workers is wrong. Anyway they would reject such customer. I have watched a documentary and a sex worker told that she denied the customer because of his disrespectful behaviour hahah

Answer 9

Ellie-V

I was explaining why sex work consumers have an entitled mentality

Answer 10

SClassWizzard | 223 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

Who ever said that?

However, there's this notion that some men have that because they pay, the woman/girl in question, must do whatever they say... which frankly, is not how it works lol.

Pay or not, she may still set boundaries and such. But this is something not all seem to understand

Answer 11

Disguise

Xper 7

She is selling her body & emotions by sexual pleasures to random people.
So enough money shld bring her in!
She is no normal to be treated as special.

kim45456

12 mo
No, she can deny your money
kim45456

12 mo
If you act like shit
Disguise

12 mo
But she is the actual shit!
I dont know why they feel soo privileged.

(I never used them)
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kim45456

12 mo
She is doing her job
Disguise

12 mo
So is the customer.
kim45456

11 mo
The customer does not have a right to be disrespectful. That is like going to a restaurant and disturbing the people there which make you to get kicked out
Disguise

11 mo
I clarify you, those kinds of job dont get any better respect.

While restaurant is a pretty good place, they are feeding you food, food is something of very high importance, so it can't be compared here.

And also in a restaurant if the customer is not satisfied he will show disrespect towards waiter or cook. Managers are thats why present to handle.

When one customer is ready to pay, he must get whatever he wants.

And by the way that was not relevant comparison, dusturbing other people in restaurant has nothing to do with a whore.
kim45456

11 mo
"I clarify you, those kinds of job dont get any better respect." - job is job. If you dont like it dont go there. Also dont be suprised if you get kicked out. It is hypocritical to want to use the service which makes you automatically supporting them but also be disrespectful.
kim45456

11 mo
These "whores" paying taxes which you also benefit from it. Stop being a spoilt ungrateful kid
kim45456

11 mo
Men are the one want the prostitution to be legal, so be at least be grateful
Disguise

11 mo
Lol, Men raised by whore are the one who want prostitution to be legal.
Those whore get what they deserve, i wouldn't spent respect on such nasty things, my respect is not that cheap.

And i will not stop being a spoilt ungrateful kid.
All jobs have status, those beaches😂 have such low status, dont blame me for that, they choose it.

I clarify you back, it will exists same, shit will only get shit, not honey😂
If u dont want such respect, leave that job, dont be a whore alright!
If it wasn't for those customers, you would probably be homeless on streets.
Whore pay taxes because of their customers lol, and most dont pay tax!
kim45456

11 mo
You should either blame the both customer and sexworker or none 'because without the customers and sex workers prostitution would not exist. Also i am against prostitution 'cause it is not that voluntarily.
kim45456

11 mo
I am also sorry for generalizing. I should not say all men. The men who go to prostitutes dont always want sex. I heard that they want someone to talk or to cuddle.
Disguise

11 mo
Yea you shld.
But u took. the side of prostitutes so i went on other side (customers).
kim45456

11 mo
So we are in agreement?
Disguise

11 mo
I had fun😂
Disguise

11 mo
And i felt shock when you said "she is doing her job"!

Answer 12

kim45456

No, she can deny your money

Answer 13

kim45456

If you act like shit

Answer 14

Disguise

But she is the actual shit!
I dont know why they feel soo privileged.

(I never used them)

Answer 15

kim45456

She is doing her job

Answer 16

Disguise

So is the customer.

Answer 17

kim45456

The customer does not have a right to be disrespectful. That is like going to a restaurant and disturbing the people there which make you to get kicked out

Answer 18

Disguise

I clarify you, those kinds of job dont get any better respect.

While restaurant is a pretty good place, they are feeding you food, food is something of very high importance, so it can't be compared here.

And also in a restaurant if the customer is not satisfied he will show disrespect towards waiter or cook. Managers are thats why present to handle.

When one customer is ready to pay, he must get whatever he wants.

And by the way that was not relevant comparison, dusturbing other people in restaurant has nothing to do with a whore.

Answer 19

kim45456

"I clarify you, those kinds of job dont get any better respect." - job is job. If you dont like it dont go there. Also dont be suprised if you get kicked out. It is hypocritical to want to use the service which makes you automatically supporting them but also be disrespectful.

Answer 20

kim45456

These "whores" paying taxes which you also benefit from it. Stop being a spoilt ungrateful kid

Answer 21

kim45456

Men are the one want the prostitution to be legal, so be at least be grateful

Answer 22

Disguise

Lol, Men raised by whore are the one who want prostitution to be legal.
Those whore get what they deserve, i wouldn't spent respect on such nasty things, my respect is not that cheap.

And i will not stop being a spoilt ungrateful kid.
All jobs have status, those beaches😂 have such low status, dont blame me for that, they choose it.

I clarify you back, it will exists same, shit will only get shit, not honey😂
If u dont want such respect, leave that job, dont be a whore alright!
If it wasn't for those customers, you would probably be homeless on streets.
Whore pay taxes because of their customers lol, and most dont pay tax!

Answer 23

kim45456

You should either blame the both customer and sexworker or none 'because without the customers and sex workers prostitution would not exist. Also i am against prostitution 'cause it is not that voluntarily.

Answer 24

kim45456

I am also sorry for generalizing. I should not say all men. The men who go to prostitutes dont always want sex. I heard that they want someone to talk or to cuddle.

Answer 25

Disguise

Yea you shld.
But u took. the side of prostitutes so i went on other side (customers).

Answer 26

kim45456

So we are in agreement?

Answer 27

Disguise

I had fun😂

Answer 28

Disguise

And i felt shock when you said "she is doing her job"!

Answer 29

motownplayer2000 | 2.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Well as long as that prostitute gives a full refund back... yeah she doesn't owe him anything. But if she refuses and still refuses to give him back his money. Then yes, she does owe him. Absolutely.

Answer 30

reptocarl

Master

Just like any other business the business owner has the right to refuse service

Answer 31

worldscolide | 3.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

They don't.. The only time something is owed is when money has exchanged hands...

Answer 32

ivbnlknfru | 297 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

Just because they are paying for sex doesn't give them a right to disrespect or abuse them. Its a job that's all..

Answer 33

Anonymous

Could you be a bit more specific please? Give an example of what you're talking about.

kim45456

11 mo
I watched a doc in which the escort said that one customer insult her and get angry for getting kicked out
Opinion Owner

11 mo
What do you mean for getting kicked out? What happened?
kim45456

11 mo
The customer insulted and disrespected her out of nowhere and she then rejected him
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Opinion Owner

11 mo
Insulted and disrespected how?

Answer 34

kim45456

I watched a doc in which the escort said that one customer insult her and get angry for getting kicked out

Answer 35

Opinion Owner

What do you mean for getting kicked out? What happened?

Answer 36

kim45456

The customer insulted and disrespected her out of nowhere and she then rejected him

Answer 37

Opinion Owner

Insulted and disrespected how?

Answer 38

COMMODOREII | 14.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Exactly. They have a right to refuse business. Wouldn't that be more of a business.

Answer 39

chriscdi | 7.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

yep after all, their body their choice

Answer 40

SofLund

Xper 3

Why would they even think that?

Answer 41

scooogy | 4.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

May I ask how this comes to your mind?

Answer 42

Anonymous

sure they can but they never do

Answer 43

Anonymous

They don't owe them anything.

Answer 44

Nice222 | 2.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

This is true.

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