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So much so that it is the main event. I absolutely love giving Oral and I am very good at it. With rare fingering exceptions (because I'm lazy or have a cold or something) I bring a girl off orally as the end point of making out before penetration, which is usually a quick sprint. That way, she is fulfilled regardless of how the sex goes. I call it "She Comes First". I use this position
Once I am in position and get started, I reach around her thighs like he is doing and massage both breasts/nipples while I lick her. I use a little lotion on them. My massage routine is a soft milking motion followed by a brief "twisting" of both nipples. More than a quick twist can turn into an irritation, so I keep that short. I have no doubt that attention to her breasts/nipples "empowers" my oral. I just love doing this.
I like it, but keep in mind that a man's thoughts are short-circuited to the penetration part (sadly). Make him work for it a bit, build up the tention and reward him for his foreplay... then he will enjoy it as well and he will repeat it more. When he's doing all of that, don't forget to do some stuff yourself, in that way, he'll know you like it and he gets his "mini-rewards" as well.
It's a two-way street :-) But in the end, it's all about the love :-)
Meaning he should give me foreplay first then I will reward him back with foreplay then he can penetrate me
If that's something you want ofc. To be honest, when I give foreplay to my partner, I drive her so wild she eventually says: take me. Havind sex with someone is giving and taking and most of all enjoying each other. So if he shows he loves you, you can do the same.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Yes, foreplay is a lot of fun and definitely helps get her going. The only time I skip it is if she's already ready and begging for it, which definitely happens sometimes.
Absolutely. Foreplay is the love-making part of sex. Her ears, neck, collar bone, breasts, stomach, thighs, vulva and every inch of skin are all erogenous. Expert foreplay makes her ache for the final satisfaction of a stiff, thrusting meat stick.
by the way, a woman should know how to do the same thing for a man. Make him crazy with desire before slipping him on.
OK, after your post explanation, I guess I like PRE-foreplay, like cooking our diner together, and touching, holding, and cuddling, as we cut, sort and cook! Being so close, behind, and holding her, and caressing her, as we make our dinner.
Then just settling on the couch, super close, and sharing our food, watching some movie, maybe sharing. Later, something like some sensual Gellato, for dessert, and maybe dealing with the drips and dribbles!
Casually touching her, and brushing against her breasts, then cuddling close, and loving her soft hips and bottom! A little kiss, here and there and teasing her, with her long hair, maybe whispering something like how I want to touch her, and love her later. . .
I love prolonged sexual foreplay ! Not only is it an integral part of a sexual lovemaking session, it's also an almost guaranteed way to bring a girl to a beautiful orgasm, and if she has a 2nd orgasm during the subsequent penis-vagina sex, so much the better !!
@Rosabelle98 do you usually orgasm during foreplay or during penis-vagina sexual penetration?
Or do you sometimes orgasm during foreplay and again during p-v sex?
I’m single but I had an ex boyfriend he didn’t give me foreplay at all we just rub each other’s g spot through clothing and I also gave him a handjob. Was shocked that his dick is kinda soft to the touch lol
As far as I'm concerned foreplay is at least half the fun of sex and not something to be rushed.
Definitely
That would be a definite yes.
Fuck yes I do
Yes, i like fingering , kissing boobs , nipple sucking , i like to tongue pussy
I enjoy pleasing a woman
Yes, I love all of that and also some less directly sexual things beforehand like massaging her shoulders, back, and feet. It also gives a good reason to slowly take clothes off her to expose her skin in places I'm going to massage her.
I would prefer foreplay to last at least twice as long as actual sex.
Last gal didn't like many of the foreplay ideas mentioned. Was extremely hard to get her going.
yup I do
I love extremely. Always start with foreplay. She also loves so much.
Oh absolutely, foreplay is amazing, it's an integral part of sex.
Absolutely. Foreplay can last as long as you want it to. I've never been a breast squeezer. That never made sense to me. I prefer to use my tongue and lips.
Long foreplay sessions, massaging her body, then kissing and licking her nipples and boobs then down to her pussy for a long tease with my tongue
Yeah
I love foreplay. Pleasuring a woman is a huge turn on for me too. I enjoy trying to give her at least one orgasm during foreplay alone.
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