Do you restrain from masturbation before a date?

Do you prefer to be carrying a full load and ready to explode or do you prefer to empty out to avoid cumming to soon?
Do you restrain from masturbation before a date?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Early on in my dating life, yes. LOL It's pretty funny how, even on a first date with a girl, all I could think about was boning her. I asked her out because she was cute, not because I was all that interested in getting to know her. That could come later, after the tension was relieved.
    So, as the time to meet approached, all kinds of sexual fantasies would play though my head, making me more and more nervous. They were all nice girls, but I wondered if they were having the same thoughts. And if they did have similar hopes, I wanted to be fully charged. As a super horny kid, that usually resulted in a bulge in my pants throughout the date. LOL

  • It depends -- if I'm going to be with a girl in a prolonged all night sexual session I definitely don't masturbate beforehand because I will usually cum at least 2 or 3 times (she too !!)

    But if it's not possible to spend such a long time with her it sometimes helps to masturbate to calm the sexual excitement and help ensure I can last long enough with her to bring her to orgasm with me

    Anyway, I tend to reproduce the 'sexual fluid' extremely quickly so there's always plenty in the tank !

    • Thanks @purplepoppy for the MHO 🌹

Most Helpful Girls

  • I masturbate before I go on dates cuz it releases endorphins and my pharemones. Making me more attractive. Plus the light smell of fresh pussy (not stinky) can turn a guy on as well

  • Neither. I just do whatever. If I like the person and they treat me romantically during the date I’ll get horny again.

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  • Absolutely not, first date I gotta rub one our before the date. I can't being on the date sexually tense, I won't think straight.

  • If it is a first date I would jerk off ahead of time so I would not feel the pressure to try to have sex on the first date. If we already were having sex in a relationship I would refrain so I could go for round 2 or 3. Your thoughts?

  • I don't expect to have sex on a date unless we are in a relationship. But masturbating before a date can help keep your mind focused during the date.

  • Yes, at least a week before the date.. but if I want to last longer at sex, I’ll empty my balls few times before the date.

  • I dont understand why it would matter...

  • A morning fap empties the tank. It refills during the day. I will last longer during sex.

  • Nope never I actually always masterbate before I go out on a date

  • I always used to masturbate before to make sure I didn't cum too soon if we have sex

  • na, why disappoint myself, i dont think the date will end in sex,,, dont wanna get my hopes too high lol

  • I usually do it a couple days before because that's enough not to cum too fast but it still makes it long enough that it will be a big load when we have sex.

  • So damn funny! Not being one to rub one out short of what I call the occasional, “function test”, I don’t make it a practice toss off prior to a date. I am not exactly a fast cummer anyway. Further, I am not a one and done guy either, I go again and again and again. I definitely do not suffer from low testosterone.

  • I would, yes
    I'd rather save myself for HER ;)

  • I got pretty good at control, so I save it. 😂

  • I'll tell you once I've got a date ha

  • I’m a full load guy.

  • I usually rub one out before so that I’m not thinking to much about sex

  • I can still go on after I came it only takes two minutes or something and then the second time will last very long...

  • Never thought of that.

  • It's not a thought on my mind. If it's a first date, you don't know whether it will end well so sex is not on my mind. U?

  • I damn near pull the thing off.

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