Rough ball play?

Question

I met a guy on tinder and while we were getting busy, he reveals to me that he likes his balls played with a bit rough. I was intrigued because that seems so counter intuitive. I ended up slapping, squeezing, and flicking his balls a bit while we were having sex. He honestly really seemed to enjoy it even though he winced from the pain. I was just wondering if anyone else had an experience like this? Is it safe to play rough with the balls? Why do guys like this? Do any girls like it? I personally thought it was kind of fun but I was worried about his future babies :/

Answer 1

abc3643 | 5.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

We CRAVE attention down there.

For some guys like him, he likes it a bit rougher. As long as you don't abuse them, it can be fun.

Some guys just want them loved and caressed.

But, the bottom line is the same: We want attention down there.

In a way, it is the ultimate act of submission. This is actually very exciting because we are letting ourselves be completely vulnerable and at her mercy. We have no control over what is going to happen to the most important part of who we are.

But also attention to balls is the ultimate way we know she wants us because, while penises may go inside to deliver the package, the real money - the real value of a male - is in our manberries. So, when a woman expresses attention to them, she's interested in the most important part of us from an unconscious reproduction perspective. We become valuable to her. And that increases our self-esteem and excitement; we are doing our job as being a potential mate of interest for a female.

Any questions? Feel free to PM if you wish.

abc3643

11 mo
Yes, you do have to be a little careful. Think of them as like soft boiled eggs.

Answer 2

abc3643

Yes, you do have to be a little careful. Think of them as like soft boiled eggs.

Answer 3

integrale77 | 1.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

It's not a preference of mine seems to me like it'll be a rare kink. As far as his fertility as long as your not to rough on them it shouldn't be a big problem

Answer 4

NickiB1

Xper 7

i don't know why they like it but i had a ex who liked them squeezed.

some guys just like weird things

Asker

11 mo
Just squeezed a little or like you were actually trying to hurt him
NickiB1

11 mo
enough for a little pain but not like a deathgrip
Asker

11 mo
Hahaha yes hopefully not death grip
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NickiB1

11 mo
😂😂😂

Answer 5

Asker

Just squeezed a little or like you were actually trying to hurt him

Answer 6

NickiB1

enough for a little pain but not like a deathgrip

Answer 7

Asker

Hahaha yes hopefully not death grip

Answer 8

NickiB1

😂😂😂

Answer 9

Mister-X_Y | 50 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 1

Ufff I would say while I am reading this my balls hurt😬 I mean I wouldn't like that but some people actually like BDSM an that stuff...

Answer 10

TotallyAlmost | 2.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

I love ball play, but not too rough. Rough is definitely not safe. Very easy to injure them and cause fertility problems.

Answer 11

teaguru90 | 66 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 2

Nope. The only thing I like is when my balls get stroked as I cum. It makes me shoot more haha

Answer 12

colinthenewfie | 117 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 4

I like getting them squeezed but not slapped around LOL

Answer 13

Anonymous

Yes I used to enjoy having hurtful things done to my dick and balls

Answer 14

Anonymous

I like sucking/massaging balls. I never did any rough play or has it been requested.

Asker

11 mo
Yeah I’ve sucked balls plenty. I started sucking this guys balls and that’s when he revealed that he liked them played with rough. So I gave them some flicks and he moaned like crazy. I was really surprised lol
Opinion Owner

11 mo
I would have also been really surprised lol
Asker

11 mo
Yup haha. It was fun though. Especially squeezing them. I’ve never truly had a guy by the balls lol
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Opinion Owner

11 mo
Hahaha it really makes them vulnerable. Whem you have their balls in your mouth/hand you feel powerful 😂

Answer 15

Asker

Yeah I’ve sucked balls plenty. I started sucking this guys balls and that’s when he revealed that he liked them played with rough. So I gave them some flicks and he moaned like crazy. I was really surprised lol

Answer 16

Opinion Owner

I would have also been really surprised lol

Answer 17

Asker

Yup haha. It was fun though. Especially squeezing them. I’ve never truly had a guy by the balls lol

Answer 18

Opinion Owner

Hahaha it really makes them vulnerable. Whem you have their balls in your mouth/hand you feel powerful 😂

Answer 19

poneglyphs | 1.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Guys like the feeling of pain too.

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