Sweetheart, I saw your update. I can imagine that you are greatly frightened and not sure where to turn. Again, I cannot pretend, without knowing you or your circumstances, to give you specific advice. However, first I would urge you to get a pregnancy test and confirm your suspicions. Take it from a man who has been through more than at least a dozen false alarms and 5 confirmed pregnancies, this is not sure.Then, if you are pregnant, tell the young man. Allow him the opportunity to step up to the plate. Also, never forget, this will not be easy, but I can promise you, this will be the most beautiful blessing. Yes, I know that it does not seem like it now, but you will have a little life that you will give you the most unconditional love that you have ever known. It will not be easy - especially if the father does not support you - but you can do it and you will be the stronger better person for it.Good luck and from a man who has been there, I sincerely offer your my support and - yes - my prayers for your happiness and that of your little baby always.
You are kidding us right?
No im not :/
Did you take the test yet? Did you use any form of protection?
My mom not like that
Just keep it to yourself than unless you see something to gain by it. Nothing is gained by upsetting her and even causing negative results with a lack of trust in you that she will end up with.
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I am not on bc and we did have safe sex? He pulled out?
Pulling out is not really a birth control method. It’s a hit and miss action that can still get you pregnant.You really should tell your mother then.
Pulling out as 50/50 at best
First off, pulling out has a high failure rate. Secondly safe sex isn't just about avoiding pregnancy. it's also about avoiding STD's. Always, ALWAYS use a condom!
Hopefully it was at least voluntary at 7, and not forced!
Now you have to tell your mom, she should know what to do...Just get one of those pee tests to be sure, yes they are not 100% accurate, but better then guessing...
Do not keep it a secret to long, in case you decide to abort, there is time limit for it.
I don't i have a better relationship with my dad
I think you should wait at least a few monthes but at the same time be responsible tell them if you think you have to but that's really your business. You don't have to tell them either.
I'm closer with my dad
Again if you feel comfortable or if there is a problem. Otherwise it's just natural thing. Just be safe about it.
She can't ground me cause id she do I'll cry and tell my dad. Anger her how? I wouldn't.
Do your parents live together?
Yes but there divorced
Your attitude is a recipe for discord and failure in life. Don't let me delay you.
Cry and tell your daddy? Immature.
@Littlemissbrat When she gets fired from her first job, she will cry to daddy and expect him to fix it.
saw update, get a pregnancy test ASAP. Cheap ones from the pharmacy work just as well as any.
Not to tell her
Was it a good experience for you?
Ya I just didn't like the semen on my face.
It doesn't let me i followed u
Im not super close im close with my father. and I think she be upset
Then I wouldn't tell her unless you need to get tested because you didn't use a condom and can't drive yourself to get tested.
Okay. and i ain't pregannt he pulled out
Just know that nothing is 100% full proof, and pulling out is not nearly as trustworthy as using a birth control method.
@Asker how do you know you are not pregnant? have you done a pregnancy test? You can definitely get pregnant from the pull out method, that is definitely not safe sex
Cause we had sex last night? Doesn't the pregnancy thing start 15 days after?
You have to wait about 2 weeks before anything will show up on a pregnancy test
Right so for right now i ain't pregnant
You could be. But it just won't show up on a test for 2 weeks.
Sorry just thought it through. You lost it at a party any parent would have a problem with that and it could turn out wrong
I can barely spell? U calling me dumb? Tell my mom what? That i fuck her boyfriend son?
Maybe I am lolol. But you do understand that you've misspelled and used grammar that shows you aren't quite there correct? It's a sign I always look at online.
Well I'm 14 and English isn't my first lanague sorry
What does telling her parents have to do with morality?
No probs! Just take good care!
I will thank u
Okay I'll wait.
I don't think I did
Then she doesn't need to know
"don't think"? The real question is "Did you use protection?" and "did you use it properly?" IE, it didn't fail.
it looks like ur tryna rub it in ur mums face that she hasn't had sex for ages... looks like ur tryna make her jelous or be a little be of an asshole
Nah she should tell her
oh brother... drama time... did you at least take a pregnancy test? are you still having periods? did you go see a doctor and have blood work done? did you see an obgyn specialist or gynecologist? if no then how do you know if you're pregnant unless you're just looking for attention and trying to cause unnecessary drama because you're bored at home and have no life
my guess is you're not pregnant and are bored at home so you're trying to cause unnecessary drama for no reason since you don't want to get something called A LIFE or A JOB and WORK and MAKE MONEY
but you being under 18 what should anyone expect other than unnecessary drama
No i haven't yet.My period late by 3 weeks now and i been feelings sick to my stomach. Nope. I said i think.
She did tell me?
Your mom tells you everytime she fucks your dad?
No. My mom and dad are single my mom told me she waa 15 when he had sex with my dad for the first time
@Asker still dont tell her lol. how was it tho? who fucked u?
It was good. a guy friend
wow a lot of girls fuck their guy friends. i need more girls that are friends haha. who initiated it?
She can go to a clinic without her parents present or knowing, assuming she needs to.
@msc545 Dude this is a male account trolling as a female.
Thanks - I had no idea.
Yesus, dont be so fucking dramatic