Caution, possible TMI ahead.
*If your guy will give you oral, now is the time. If he can bring you into orgasm, it will temporarily loosen you and suppress your vagina's puckering reaction to first entry.
*Use lube or lotion. I prefer dollar store aloe vera.
*A position that will enable you to control first-entry is "lean over Cowgirl". Like this.
*It allows you to slide down only as far as you can tolerate and then slide back up to "regroup". It may take several successive tries but if you can go a little farther each time, he'll go in with only manageable discomfort to you. That final try is likely to "pop" through the tight opening (stretch and give). And it will do the same thing on the way out. It may pinch a little when that happens.
*Once he is in, you should slide all the way down and then wait a bit, so your vagina can get used to being full and he can enjoy the warmth and snugness.
*Then you and he can work out slow in and out thrusting, gradually speeding up. When he cums, he will likely thrust deep and hard and then hold still while he ejaculates. Bottoming out makes ejaculation more pleasurable and you may can feel it.
Practice with your fingers. start wit 1 and work up. Use a good quality lube, not some cheap stuff. Did you know Walmart has it's own brand? Don't waist your money! If you have problems you might want to spend the money on a good silicone based lube since they don't dry out as your having sex.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!See a sexologist. It could be that there are some (non-harmfull) procedures that could be done. I know a girl that did that and she did some medical stuff (which I can't recal at this time) but it solved all her physical problems.
Practice with different size dildos and work your way up to a huge one.
But it huuuuuurts so much!
Even a small one hurts? Do you use lube such as astroglide or KY jelly?
It isn’t his size. After all your pussy will poop out an 8 pound baby. He doesn’t have you aroused enough. He’s a piss poor lover
Downsize.
Are you the only girl he's been with?
I'm not
Just relax make sure you are ready...
Stop having sex with horses at the farm
Yes, I think I should. Maybe a dog would suit me better huh?
Dogs have knots on their dicks very big knots
Ewww
Practice and learning to relax. The vagina is a muscle and you can learn to help yourself open up more by working it.
Purchase a dialater set
Three words lady, lube, lube, lube.
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