How can anyone possibly consider any older/'mature' women to be 'sexy'?

Question

I don't get it- it just seems so fundamentally unnatural, sick, disgusting and wrong. It's different with men, if you think about it, because the 'spermopause' doesn't exist- we remain virile, sexual beings, pretty much regardless of how elderly we get. But seriously, how does being sexually aroused by someone who's explicitly post-menopausal make any more sense, or have any moral high ground, on being sexually aroused by someone who's explicitly pre-menstrual- i. e, by a little girl who hasn't had her first period yet? Or indeed, by a little boy who hasn't had his first ejaculation yet? In my eyes, sexual arousal by self-labelled 'mature', post-menopausal women, is no less nauseating or sickening than pedophilia. Try to convince me otherwise.

Answer 1

LiamSawyer | 3.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I've seen some very attractive older women, in fact the last time I was in Barbados I met a gentleman and his wife and she was in her sixties, still wearing a bikini and her facial beauty and excellent body would of been comparable to some of the lovely ladies there that were in their mid twenties to mid thirties.

Asker

11 mo
Oh, I'm not saying they can't still be beautiful, or conventionally attractive. Far from it. But attractive/=sexy. And they just aren't sexy in my eyes, at all. No matter how attractive they may still be.
LiamSawyer

11 mo
Well that's just sad for you!

Answer 2

Asker

Oh, I'm not saying they can't still be beautiful, or conventionally attractive. Far from it. But attractive/=sexy. And they just aren't sexy in my eyes, at all. No matter how attractive they may still be.

Answer 3

LiamSawyer

Well that's just sad for you!

Answer 4

Dargil | 30.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Here's my opinion. Welcome to Trollhattan.

How can anyone possibly consider any older/'mature' women to be 'sexy'?

Answer 5

ciitruskiwi | 1.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Lmfao wait until you're older. Unless you're going to be one of those creepy old man going after girls young enough to be your daughter then you'll be attracted to older women because they'll be your age

Asker

11 mo
Well, since I'm not the kind of guy who can get peer-pressured into changing my tastes just because some random jealous female stranger who I don't even consider attractive says "eww, you're creepy for going after THEM, you should be attracted to women like ME instead"? I'm attracted to sexually attractive women, and will be until the day I die. Post-menopausal women are fundamentally sexually unattractive in my eyes, and always will be, in the same way that pre-menstrual girls are and always will be. And if you want to try and shame me for it- well, go ahead if it makes you feel better about yourself. Won't change my tastes, any more than gay-shaming a guy's gonna 'cure him' of being gay. Difference is that MY taste for sexually fertile females actually makes sense.
ciitruskiwi

11 mo
All I read was "yes I will be the creepy 60 year old man hitting on girls young enough to be my daughter until they are so uncomfortable that they want nothing to do with me".

Yes I will shame you for it because that is creepy. I've had 60-70 year old men hit on me and it is fucking creepy and uncomfortable. I don't know why you would purposely make yourself one of those men. No one likes those men.

Answer 6

Asker

Well, since I'm not the kind of guy who can get peer-pressured into changing my tastes just because some random jealous female stranger who I don't even consider attractive says "eww, you're creepy for going after THEM, you should be attracted to women like ME instead"? I'm attracted to sexually attractive women, and will be until the day I die. Post-menopausal women are fundamentally sexually unattractive in my eyes, and always will be, in the same way that pre-menstrual girls are and always will be. And if you want to try and shame me for it- well, go ahead if it makes you feel better about yourself. Won't change my tastes, any more than gay-shaming a guy's gonna 'cure him' of being gay. Difference is that MY taste for sexually fertile females actually makes sense.

Answer 7

ciitruskiwi

All I read was "yes I will be the creepy 60 year old man hitting on girls young enough to be my daughter until they are so uncomfortable that they want nothing to do with me".

Yes I will shame you for it because that is creepy. I've had 60-70 year old men hit on me and it is fucking creepy and uncomfortable. I don't know why you would purposely make yourself one of those men. No one likes those men.

Answer 8

wittymilf | 1.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

It is odd, I agree🤷‍♀️. But it’s gonna look pretty tacky when you’re an old dude who still thinks he’s actually attractive to young chicks.

Asker

11 mo
If they're "young chicks" for still having periods, what does that make you- an "old hen"? As for "when I'm an old dude"- well, since I've got a combo of invisible health conditions which vastly increase my risk of death by stroke, and reduce my life expectancy to roughly 55 years, that's something I'll most likely never have to worry about then. Guess that's something to be grateful for...
wittymilf

11 mo
I’m greatful 🤷‍♀️
UnblockableKiller

11 mo
u wrong tho cos... while most dont like old guys.,.. there's some (a small amount of girls)
who are actually sexually attracted to older men only.. dont ask... but it makes sense that these old guys would have their hopes up and look for younger women.. since some actually like old men,

also... look up "im broke so banged 2 old guys for cash"

Answer 9

Asker

If they're "young chicks" for still having periods, what does that make you- an "old hen"? As for "when I'm an old dude"- well, since I've got a combo of invisible health conditions which vastly increase my risk of death by stroke, and reduce my life expectancy to roughly 55 years, that's something I'll most likely never have to worry about then. Guess that's something to be grateful for...

Answer 10

wittymilf

I’m greatful 🤷‍♀️

Answer 11

UnblockableKiller

u wrong tho cos... while most dont like old guys.,.. there's some (a small amount of girls)
who are actually sexually attracted to older men only.. dont ask... but it makes sense that these old guys would have their hopes up and look for younger women.. since some actually like old men,

also... look up "im broke so banged 2 old guys for cash"

Answer 12

AGIS88

Xper 1

You are 100% incorrect. Older men have far lower testosterone, and many are completely without sex drive. That's a part of aging. And comparing an older woman having sex to pedophilia? You're insane. When older women have sex it's because they WANT too, and children, it's just rape. I think you're just a troll, or a complete moron.

Asker

11 mo
So, I'm "100% incorrect"- care to provide any evidence backing that absolutist statement up? Other than "Cause I SAID SO, so PROOF!"? Example- "Older men have far lower testosterone, and many are completely without sex drive." Some will, certainly- but have you got any data? Thought not. And you say "You're insane. When older women have sex it's because they WANT too, and children, it's just rape." You do know that dementia exists, right? The capacity for logical, rational 'adult' thought-processes tapers off with age as well, to the extent that over-70s frequently test as being less rational in their decision-making than any other age group, including children. And this is most pronounced in women, whose decision-making processes are governed primarily by their amygdalae for a markedly longer period of their lives. I'm not a troll- but I do believe that, regarding the "complete moron" comment, those in glass houses shouldn't throw stones at a battleship.
AGIS88

11 mo
Lol, you're FAR from a "battleship". Here, since you're begging for me to make you look like an idiot; here ya go.

"Male testosterone levels peak in the late teens and the initial drop does not usually have any significant physical effects before the age of 30. Between the ages of 30 and 40 a man’s testosterone levels fall by about 1% every year; whilst high enough to be measured, the effects are rarely a concern. After the age of 40, however, a low libido in men can be noticeable as testosterone levels decrease even further."

-Lloydspharmacy

Oh, and women are "mature" etc around 40, not 70s. Now go be a fucking moron somewhere else, before I have to make you look like a buffoon again.

Answer 13

Asker

So, I'm "100% incorrect"- care to provide any evidence backing that absolutist statement up? Other than "Cause I SAID SO, so PROOF!"? Example- "Older men have far lower testosterone, and many are completely without sex drive." Some will, certainly- but have you got any data? Thought not. And you say "You're insane. When older women have sex it's because they WANT too, and children, it's just rape." You do know that dementia exists, right? The capacity for logical, rational 'adult' thought-processes tapers off with age as well, to the extent that over-70s frequently test as being less rational in their decision-making than any other age group, including children. And this is most pronounced in women, whose decision-making processes are governed primarily by their amygdalae for a markedly longer period of their lives. I'm not a troll- but I do believe that, regarding the "complete moron" comment, those in glass houses shouldn't throw stones at a battleship.

Answer 14

AGIS88

Lol, you're FAR from a "battleship". Here, since you're begging for me to make you look like an idiot; here ya go.

"Male testosterone levels peak in the late teens and the initial drop does not usually have any significant physical effects before the age of 30. Between the ages of 30 and 40 a man’s testosterone levels fall by about 1% every year; whilst high enough to be measured, the effects are rarely a concern. After the age of 40, however, a low libido in men can be noticeable as testosterone levels decrease even further."

-Lloydspharmacy

Oh, and women are "mature" etc around 40, not 70s. Now go be a fucking moron somewhere else, before I have to make you look like a buffoon again.

Answer 15

dudeinohio | 7.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Depends on your age. Your perception changes as you age. When I was in my 20s, women in their 50s were "yuck".. Now that I'm in my 50s, women in their 50s are attractive.

Answer 16

Anonymous

Because a lot of them are! If you don't think they exist, you just haven't met any yet.

Answer 17

outside_Toronto

Master

Do whatever works for ya. You wanna be convinced? Fuck around and find out

Answer 18

Anonymous

I honestly don't think they do, I think other females say it as a way of making themselves feel better about losing their only power and some males say it because they will literally say anything to have any female over no female.

Answer 19

navyP | 1.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

OMG are you serious there are definitely plenty of sexy hot older women out there

Asker

11 mo
Such as? Care to offer any examples (with images of what they look like? Without makeup and/or cosmetic surgery?)

Answer 20

Asker

Such as? Care to offer any examples (with images of what they look like? Without makeup and/or cosmetic surgery?)

Answer 21

October808 | 624 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

Elizabeth Hurley doesn't want to meet you anymore.

Asker

11 mo
Ah well, sucks to be her. Imagine, only wanting to meet people who're sexually aroused by you...
October808

11 mo
Naww she thought you wee a cool cub until you insulted her age.

Answer 22

Asker

Ah well, sucks to be her. Imagine, only wanting to meet people who're sexually aroused by you...

Answer 23

October808

Naww she thought you wee a cool cub until you insulted her age.

How can anyone possibly consider any older/'mature' women to be 'sexy'?

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