Is it the woman's responsibility to get a guy hard before sex?

[LexyIsSexy23]

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Not responsibility. When a guy initiates it he can't be expecting her to do all the work. If the girl initiates it then she must expect to have to do it.

[LexyIsSexy23]

@ThisIsMyOpinion I'll do all the work

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

You don't have to.

[LexyIsSexy23]

@ThisIsMyOpinion good boys don't argue

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

How said I was a good boy?

[LexyIsSexy23]

@ThisIsMyOpinion okay, you can do everything 🌺

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

I like it that way. To take control

[LexyIsSexy23]

I do my best work on the ground anyway.

[LexyIsSexy23]

Off my back

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

I can imagine...

[LexyIsSexy23]

You don't have to

[LexyIsSexy23]

But okay😏

[OlderAndWiser]

No, she should consider it to be her pleasure and delight!

[LexyIsSexy23]

Good answer

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[rose_lynnn]

I don't feel that it is anyone's responsibility. Sex should never be a responsibility for anyone and everyone should be able to enjoy it. Both parties should be able to impact getting the man hard it usually just depends on the situation

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Nothing to do with sex should ever be a "responsibility". Sex should be a mutual pleasuring each other, mutually pleasurable. Words like responsibility, obligation, or expectation shouldn't be used in context with sex or sex acts.
If sex/sex acts is made to be or seen as responsibility, obligation, or expectation you ruin the spontaneity and you ruin the pure enjoyment. Do what he enjoys because you care about his enjoyment.

[Lliam]

Well, kind of. She has to be there. It also helps if she gets naked. That should take care of any erectile problems. hahaha

[integrale77]

Not really it's one of those things that just happens I'd just say it's just a good idea not to do anything to put him off

[Apple1996]

No I dont think so. If I'm trying to have sex he better be hard before I get his pants off

[Jamie05rhs]

Better unzip first, then.

[Apple1996]

@Jamie05rhs lol nah I like making a guy uncomfortable

[Jamie05rhs]

lol.

[i1T2daty]

Based on that pic above. No guy will ever get within seeing distance of that tight, fantastic body w/o getting hard immediately

[Truthatanycost]

No. It's the gust of winds.

[Grkgod12]

Lol, never had a problem!

[ThisDudeHere]

Implying that there's responsibility for something in regards to sex kinda ruins the whole appeal of it.

The only responsibility both parties have is to be safe and pray to Jesus for forgiveness. Beyond that, anything goes.

[ShortCircuit]

Well... I mean, I don't know who else's responsibility it could be. It's not like we can pop a boner at will.

[Jamie05rhs]

You can't?

[Bongem]

I don't think there is a "responsibility" actually... when you both want it, it just happens.

[BeRealU]

I think for sex to occur, both should be focused on getting the other in the right mood and that means foreplay. It should be mutual though. Not one sided.

[reptocarl]

Nope

[talka20]

Definitely not... because if guy is attracted to her n in mood n his thing is working all good, there isn't any need of much effort it just gets hard easily... if he needs more of girl's effort then there is somethjng missing kut fo sure... and its not girl's responsibility

[TCredo]

sexy pic... it's sort of a shared thing but its on him :)

[MrAndrey]

Well she should be the reason he gets hard, but it's not her responsibility

[MackToday]

It's no one's responsibility things either work smoothly or they don't.

[jgirl99]

No. If he's attracted to me then he should have no problems getting hard (not referring to foreplay, that's different)

[NickiB1]

i think so

[Nikki1989]

Well, yes kind of but I would hope he would get hard by kissing, cuddling and general foreplay.