Is sex painful?

Question

I seriously just wanna know, like all my friends said it depends. I'm keeping my virginity for the right someone but I can't help but wonder. please don't take it the wrong way and please just give me a clear answer

Answer 1

Anonymous

It’s like a burning sensation as your body tries to get used to it and as your hymen gets stretched it’ll be like a tight pressure or pinch. It depends but it’s likely you’ll bleed; I thought I wouldn’t bleed a lot because of how my body is but I actually bled a LOT and had to stand in the tub as blood literally poured out of me, it was pretty scary and I thought I kick started my period. As your body stretches you can feel a pressure that can convince you to think you have to go to the bathroom or you’ll poop yourself right there, but it’s just the pressing from the inside of your body. I definitely recommend missionary for your first time because it’s easiest for your body to adjust in that position. Doggy style goes too deep while being on top can be super, super painful when first starting. Don’t be afraid to use lube and fingering beforehand is helpful

Answer 2

Anonymous

I lost my virginity a few days ago an we tried on an off over the course of a month. it was too painful every time, an I would always stop him. the other night it just happened an my biggest tip would be USE LUBE an FOREPLAY. can’t stress those enough. oral I find works really well. but obviously every person is different an their body is different. like others have said, it depends.

Answer 3

Emay71 | 234 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

Yes, sex does hurt when you have your first time, but only on your first time, and only for a minute or two. The pain is from your hymen tearing, signifying your virginity being taken. It will hurt, but the pain will eventually go away, it will just be best if you continue slowly for a moment when that does happen as rushing into it as soon as you lose your virginity can cause more severe pain.

Answer 4

dthomas89

Xper 7

Don't wait until marriage. I guarantee you, you'll make a mistake doing that. I'm not saying you should rush your virginity but, don't wait until marriage

Answer 5

Moongi

Xper 1

Yes it hurts, but it also depends if the guy knows how to do it to hurt less.
To be honest I expected it to be a sharp pain. But instead it's kind of a long pain because of your walls. If you do it with someone who knows where your gspot is and uses it for your to feel pleasure at the same time, then you'll relax more and it'll become easier and way less painful after some time.