Is it possible to maintain a relationship without sex? e. g when you are a virgin and dont want to have sex?

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Thank you to everyone commenting on this. Im 19 and from past experiences I distanced myself from dating but reading all those comments I might look forward to it again:)
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  • It is possible. Sex isn't everything. It all depends on you guys. If you guys are head over heels and both agree to no sex. Great. Dont rush anything. Take your time. Relish the moments that make you happy. If the topic does arise (usually does) calm, cool and collectively talk it through. Leave emotion out of it as best as possible. Good luck girlie 😊

  • It's possible but eventually the relation will fade if you don't give the relation sweet parts... Your partner will tell you it's better to be friends then. Since anyways there won't be more contact than kisses and hugs

Most Helpful Girl

  • Yes of course you can. If the man/women is not patient/understanding. That's not the relationship to try to maintain

    • That's a good point

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  • As long as your partner doesn't want to have sex, sure!
    Most adults do want to have a sexually active relationship though.

  • Of course. Just let a guy know your expectations up front. Would you be comfortable with fingering, handjobs or oral instead of actual sex?

  • If it's somthing both partners are able to accept

  • Possible? Yes. But you have to be completely open and honest from the start and find the right person

  • Both people need to want to wait and not just "willing" otherwise one will go elsewhere

  • yes it's possible

  • it's called "friends"

  • Of course! Just keep your clothes on and keep it in your pants. How hard can it be?

  • It's possible but difficult why would he stay with you when there are plenty of others that will be down to fuck

  • For a time. Most guys will eventually want it.

  • You better hope your next relationship is dull asf

  • Its very hard for men it's only sex but if ur understanding level improves its viable

  • Why not , yes it is possible , and your partner must not force you for sex , if he /she really love you. and sex should be when both are agree

  • Yeah it's possible I've done it.

  • Sure, but I think it would be hard if this relationship is with a guy. I think most guys would want to have sex as a component in a relationship.

  • For a limited time yeah but eventually they will leave

  • Yes it possible and not so hard

  • Depends on the guy and if he’s willing to wait.

    • I know I couldn’t do it because my sex drive is way too high.

    • So were u wanting to stay a virgin in the relationship?

    • Yes and he always tried to convince me to do things with him when I clearly said no from the beginning. So i just stopped dating him cuz I didn't feel comfortable and wasn't good enough

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