I would guess that you had unmet intimacy/care needs in childhood (and/or early sexual activity), which has manifested as a psychological need for nurturing that sex temporarily fulfils.
isn't that too late?
Well, yes, it's a coping mechanism rather than redressing the past, which you can't change. However, you can learn to understand what is going on in your mind and adopt some more healthy coping mechanisms. I think your question means that you are already on this path, as you have some self-awareness. A clinical psychologist would be best placed to help you work through this. I can give you access to a book that does not directly address this specific issue but may still have some information that you find useful: documentcloud.adobe.com/.../track
thanks :)
Im sorry hun. Seems like you've been dealing with that for awhile. Try seeking simple conversation. Screw that backstabber and bad mouther. Your not alone darlin. 😊
it's not for awhile. it has been happening to me since 4 years ago..
now I feel like I can't holding it anymore. I feel like want to die. just can't stop wish for something to kill me
Rock bottom darlin. We all hit it at some point. Some more than a few times. You need to vent it all out. Let it out. Break down if needed. Ill talk to you all you want. Im off and not busy. I enjoy helping people
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!While the orgasms are great try to find an outlet that you like... running, sports a hobby etc.
It's a phase... just don't try drugs and you will be okey to figure out there are plenty stuff that makes you happy, just Don't try drugs never ever , I cannot reccomend this enough lol
You are living wrong gaining your enjoyment or validation from sex which kinda shows you are not able to love yourself and this can lead to you being used easy
You garuntie your own unhappiness in the long run by not addressing the issue here
your opinion isn't helping. and I don't understand what you mean
Relying on sex to bring you happiness is not a positive aspect in your life and you should work out why you are that way as people will take advantage of your need to feel happy through sex
It is the only thing that validates you. I wish that weren't true. Protect it carefully. Don't let it get corrupted like the others. Don't let it break bad.
Sex doesn't make you happy. Sure, in the moment it might, but you can't sustain this for a lifetime. It'll never be enough
If it makes you happy then do it more
Possibly because you’re in control of your sex life where as those other areas you may not be
I would love to make you happy
Ever consider its the dopamine hit? Thats why it works for me
what's that?
Can you spark a j where you live?
I guess it’s an outlet for you
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