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Is it wrong If I want to abstain from sex after this?

am I in the wrong if I want to abstain from sex until marriage? I had my first time and if was not something I wanted to do plus I have a problem with my hymen that makes penetration painful, so after those experiences I decided to abstain from having anymore sex, but my family says having only one sexual partner is going to affect me and make me more vulnerable to not know more than one person I don't know. but my plan is to not have anymore sex until I get married is it wrong? I am 20
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well, no. However... your hymn is now gone. It will never hurt like it did the first time ever again because the first time tears the hymn. Granted there a small number of women for whom it does not tear completely. Very small number. Point is, that pain you felt is a one time time. It does not grow back. So donMt worry about that occuring again. It is the tearing that caused the pain.

  • Just kicking the can down the road...

    If you've got a medical issue that will make it painful every time marriage will not solve that. Then you'll have trapped some poor guy in a sexless marriage and you'll wonder why he's not paying attention to your needs

Most Helpful Girls

  • It is not wrong. In fact, it is good. Most guys prefer a girl with a body count of one or two. I kept my virginity until 22, and have only had one guy, that I am still with. We don't intend to marry, but that is something different. You abstaining until marriage is fine!

  • Bull you wait and find the guy who will make it amazing for you. Your family be darned there are more ways to have sex then being fucked. If you want to know the person sext to it's safer and no pregnancy.

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  • Not wrong at all. Even so, a hymenotomy is a simple office procedure than can relieve you of trauma when you make that decision in the future. Your parents are idiots for telling you that.

  • don't listen to your family they're fucking morons. do what's in your best interest because it's your life and your body not theirs.

  • No its not wrong... I guess your future husband can be glad😉

  • Lol.. your family is delusional and a very bad influence

  • No there is nothing wrong with waiting if that is what you comfortable with but you should get the medical condition taken care of before you get married so that it doesn't create issues in your marriage.

  • Your problems are not gonna go way just because you simply wait till marriage
    I suggest you look into getting a stretcher set they come in different sizes they are specificly made for women with super tight vaginas and other issues

  • It is your choice.

  • What makes you think that sex will be any better after marriage?
    If you have physical issues, you need to get them taken care of before any wedding.

  • No not at all. You are absolutely good going and fine. Follow what your mind and heart says not others. Never ever get forced for anything by anyone

  • Yeah in way because you’ll just suffer after marriage with the same issue, it takes a few times to get better or maybe you need to see a gynecologist because there may be a reason it hurt

  • No there's nothing wrong with it if that's what you want to do

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