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  • Work on edging. Get him close to orgasm but tell him to hold it. Do this for as long as he can bear it - it trains the muscle that holds it back. Keegle exercises have the same benefit. The more you have sex with the intentions of becoming better, the better you will get. But for some people, they buy their first car, they learn to drive well enough to not get ticketed, and they stop improving because they don't care to and end up being shitty drivers their entire lives. It takes desire and practice to get better

  • - Have sex more often. Also if this is still fairly new, this should just improve as he gets more comfortable with you and relaxed.

    - Practice the start/stop technique with him (requires communication).

    - Spend time just being naked together if possible (non-sexual). Gets him comfortable and less in his head.

    - Don't let the sex stop when he does. Go for round 2. Lots he can do (like oral) while he recoups and gets hard again.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Give him a handjob first. Guys will usually slow down for round 2 or 3. Or ask him to jerk off before you meet with him for sex. Sometimes a thicker condom may also help. How often do you two have sex? Maybe increase the frequency?

  • Stopping or changing position when he gets close to cumming. That usually relies on him knowing when he's about to cum but you just have to look for signs he's getting to that point.

  • Buy the thickest condoms you can find.

  • How can you make you last shorter. You got different sex drives find someone else who finds it as important as you. They don't. That's a turn off if you have to go to long.

  • Every girls lament.

  • Some lubricants having a little numbing agent in them that could help

  • Have sex a lot more often. No joke, it really does affect men’s longevity.

  • Practice

  • Ask him to take pill. Or else even if you do nothing but just standing nude, he'll cum for sure. Men can not hold more time.

  • Do some brakes like switchin the positions... and dont go too fast...

  • You can't do anything, that's something he needs to work on

  • Giving him time an a lot more sex.
    God Bless

  • Maybe less foreplay for him at least. I know my ex use to really like playing with my dick wayyy too much before we even started fucking.

    Sometimes I was fine sometimes I lasted shorter just from being workes up too much.

    • But foreplay is sooooo fun.

    • I agree Im just saying maybe less touching him getting him reved up. We still did plenty but I tried to focus on her getting the pleasure first.

  • The stop start method Helps, also changing things up frequently

  • Use different position after a time , and give him love ,, change position after a while

  • Speed control

  • Both can learn how to edge.

  • It's mostly something he has to do.
    He has to have will power to know when to stop before the "to late" line is crossed.

  • Make sure you DON'T use lubricants like "KY Touch Massage Tingling"... they will only speed-up orgasm.

  • Cock ring

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