I am going crazy from not having sex?

[Anonymous]

I’m 28 and I haven’t had sexual since I was 23. And before that not since I was 18. I’m going crazy. I can’t separate my emotions either so I can’t just have a hookup. I will go crazy and fall in love and get hurt and regret it. I need a boyfriend and to fall in love. But mostly I find it hard getting through my days, waking up in the morning, falling asleep at night, working throughout the day, every second I’m being pulled by this weight and void. I masturbate and often cry after because of how desperate and sad it feels and how it makes me want a mans touch even more. I once just let a guy eat me out and I sucked his dick and this made me want sex even more and it felt terrible to hold back so much that honesty I couldn’t even enjoy it. I am successful in life - I have a good career, I am healthy and good looking, I have great hobbies, I am smart, love where I live etc everything feels not so great though because at the end of the day I’m still not getting laid

[RLovesD7792]

If it makes you feel any better I'm half virgin and I haven't had oral since 2005 and I haven't kissed anyone since 2005 so think about how I feel. I go to bed alone every single night I masturbate to relieve the pressure built up. It gets lonely but I still wouldn't do anything that would jeopardize what I have with the woman I love because I couldn't live with myself if I did and I couldn't bare that kind of pain I would be bringing upon myself and I love her with all my heart and soul and I would rather spend the rest of my days alone than hurt the woman I love or betray her in any way shape or form. Because I think about how miserable I would be if she were to ever leave me to the point I couldn't live with myself. That's what keeps me from betraying and that pain and that amount of love I have for her keeps me loyal to her

[YHL6965]

Maybe focusing on dating for a while, on finding the right man could help you but make sure to stay in control of your desperation. If you feel like it's too hard for you, maybe a therapist could help you control your emotions more. There is no shame in going for therapy. What has been your biggest obstacle in finding the right man in your opinion?

[Janice2000]

It's more then sex you need. You need alive intimacy and some sex. Your body craves a mate. Mine does too sometimes and it hurts being alone. Trust me sex is not the answer you will feel more hurt after.
If you want a partner I'm down to mess around in PM's but it won't satisfy you.

[UnidentifiedKiller]

the brain craves it, not the body, all body needs is food warmth and water

[Janice2000]

@UnidentifiedKiller wow what a loser answer I think his head got removed for giving a dumb opinion on a sex he has never touched

[UnidentifiedKiller]

yea... whatever ur taling about... yeah...

[UnidentifiedKiller]

the dumb 1 here is u if u think my opinion is dumb, cos its true, but obviously ur too dumb to understand what i said

[Janice2000]

@UnidentifiedKiller I'm not arguing with a loser troll who will be gone when his troll question gets deleted.

[bethgurl]

Me too 😔😔😔😔

[jeffjeffjeffjeffjeff]

If you have all that going for you I don't think you're looking hard enough.

Or your standards are just way too high.

[lookin64]

Guys are turned on by sight and women by touch.
Perhaps you crave touch and intimacy above sex.

[one1wild00]

Sounds about right. - I know what you mean.

[Shah11]

Do sexting I'm sure it will help you out I do this.

[Mister-X_Y]

Maybe try dirty talk via Skype or something with a user here who wants that... 😅

[COMMODOREII]

Welcome to the club my friend. 😎

[Shamalien]

It's a shitty time to want a true connection and love, there is little of that in this world today.

All I can say is just don't lower yourself. You know what you want, don't settle for less. I'm sure many men would love to be with you, just don't let your desperation make you forget what you are worth

[KrakenAttackin]

How hard is it for a woman to get laid? Come on.

[ZSean]

Dayum I feel sorry for you that is a long time to go sexless. Are you only wanting sex when in a relationship. Im assuming you don't go for casual hook ups or you would not be in this situation.

[andy530]

You can learn to separate your feelings this will help masturbation feel more fulfilling too

[ivbnlknfru]

Don't over think it... there is a man for you...

[Yellovv]

You need to please nice..

[Jack_tyler]

I think I can help you

[UnidentifiedKiller]

u masturbate and cry at the same time?
lmao wtf, thats the weirdest thing iv ever heard,

anyway... when im walking down a dark secluded ally,,, if u wann fufil ur desires.. jus go ahead and rape me, i won't mind :)

[Anonymous]

You don't make any sense.

[Asker]

Why how

[Opinion Owner]

" I am successful in life - I have a good career, I am healthy and good looking, I have great hobbies, I am smart, love where I live etc" Are you an introvert?

[Opinion Owner]

It doesn't make sense to me because a girl as you described would have been married by now. That's just what happens among the member of my religion. The situation you described above is similar to my own I ended up in this situation because of the beliefs I have and the fact that I am a male introvert. "I need a boyfriend and to fall in love." What do you desire marriage children?

[Opinion Owner]

I try to smile at everyone even though it makes me uncomfortable sometimes. I do that too so join the club. Don't get self-conscious about all of it. My advice: let the guy know your an introvert, that your not ghosting him because your not interested but because you need me time to recharge. - good luck

[Anonymous]

Maybe just choose abstinence and stop masturbating.

[Asker]

TF. Noooo

[Anonymous]

interesting that's a problem I didn't think ladies had