There is no manual my man, so like it slow, some rough. Most folks like both. There is right time both. That's for you too to figure out. Start slow, if she seems uninterested then dail it up a bit. In my experience most girls like starting slow to get good and wet, plus into the mood. Once things are moving start moving the slider. It's tricky but it is half the fun of learning a new partner! Happy playing.
0 0 0 0Research shows that women orgasm best when the thrust says is two thrusts every three seconds so slow down and give it to her slower and harder. She'll cum like a house afire.
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Nothing to do with the orgasm but I do prefer a warm up first. Slowly increase power and speed until you cum. I don't have many experiences where a man ever goes too hard or fast.
0 0 0 0Fuck no I hated it. Nice slow in and out staying in the same spot. Porn sucks
1 2 0 0Staying in doesn't make friction
Idiot we don't want friction that hurts! There is a reason we make lube inside us! Why are men so stupid it's like they don't teach health class?
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9 3It's less about the speed of your thrust and more about how you're thrusting. Speed means nothing if you're just hammering it in there.
0 2 0 0True, it's about knowing your partners preferences. And if I'm not mistaken, it's about 20% of women that actually can get there through penetration.
Eh I don't really trust those statistics. It's usually a fairly small sample size that's asked.
I've read it somewhere on medium dot com. But when I asked around in my (girl) friends circle (yeah I'm pretty open with my friends) they actually confirm this. But just in case I'm wrong: I still agree with your point here :-) And on a side note: another study showed that if men took more time in foreplay that women can actually get there easier with or without penetration. It's all a matter of reading each others desires and bodies. PS: I like the way you applied epistemology here in your reply! I would like to add because of this that you've gained my respect.
A natural unforced speed does the job better.
0 2 0 0Start slow then build it up a little then go hard, fast and deep. 🙂
0 0 0 0Men can last for a minute if they start pounding fast
I guess my vagina is defective cause my husband lasts a long time 😁 doing that
May be he is small
Slow at first. I love hard later but most guys cum in like a minute after they start pounding hard. I'd rather go slower and last longer while I rub myself.
0 0 0 0Speed is not a major factor when giving orgasms. So I am unsure how to answer this question. 🖤
1 0 0 0Then What is the major factor?
Not something for me to explain. Try Google. 🖤
You are girl. You know better than google
Faster thrusting is more intensely stimulating.
0 1 0 0My "girlfriend" liked it entering slow then really fast thrusting...
0 0 0 0Hard and fast
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let her thrust you with a strap on and find out
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jus do what u want to satisfy and please ur own sexual experience, dont worry about or care about satisfying her... more than often... if u do what u want ur not gonna disapoint the other 1 anyway... if u do... she's not the girl for u
0 0 0 0It gets rough as well sometimes
0 0 0 0So does that mean u like it rough at times?
@damselheart I cum early if i do faster with my girl
Many guys do
Porn yikes. You go by the response and request of the woman. If she is making happy sounds then you know you have the right rhythm. Sometimes sex can be slow and sweet and sometimes more fast with the same partner. You have to work in unison with the mood of your partner. That's why it is easier doing it with someone you really know and are comfortable with so you both can communication your wants and needs. If all else fails ask her what she wants and go with that.
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