Guys, Is sexual past important for a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I was wondering if its important to you, what your girlfriend's sexual past is, and if so, how many sexual partners would you consider to be too much for a 21 year old woman/girl?

[Anonymous]

Yes... a females sexual past is a major factor.
Only women with whorish pasts think it's not important, but a relationship is a massive investment of time, money, and emotion... so a female with some morals and self respect has more value than a busted ass, over used, lack of self disciple, cum sponge.

*It has nothing to do with her "being an object" either... it's simply an investment like any other and should meet quality standards if it wants quality.

[AustinMan]

When it comes to sexual history, don't ask, don't tell.

[Grkgod12]

I don't think that it matters.
Are you two compatible? Do you two " click" ?

[tzdc21]

Yes it matters. Let me explain the four big reasons why it matters to a man when dealing with a woman. Buckle up, this is gonna take a while.

1) Men and Women are both biologically hardwired to be attracted and disgusted by certain things. It just so happens that one of the things we guys are instinctively disgusted by are promiscuous women as our girlfriend and/or wife. That's just our nature, just like how it's in a woman's nature to look for a man who can provide and protect. Now when it comes to just sex, they won't care, but a committed relationship is a whole different ballpark.

2) Stats show that the higher a woman's body count, the more likely she will initiate breakups and divorces. AND it's more likely she will have mental problems down the long run. You lose your ability to pair bond with every new sexual partner you have, and that's what helps relationships work through tough times... or in general.

3) When you (a woman) are in a relationship with a man, you are becoming a representation of that man, whether you know it or not. That means that what you say or do is gonna affect him to. So therefore, if you're a hoe, or you say or do some crazy and stupid stuff, not only are you putting yourself in a bad light, but you're putting your boyfriend/husband in a bad light. Because everyone is gonna be like, "This crazy girl is his?" or "This hoe is who he is taking seriously?" That is embarrassing for any man, even if he won't admit it to others or himself.

4) THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT REASON. There is a reason why since the dawn of time, men have demanded that the women they take seriously are virgins. Not all guys nowadays want virgins now, but still want lower body counts from the woman they take seriously. And the reason why is because they want to ensure paternity. I assume I would be correct if I were to say that a deep dark fear for a lot of women is being r@ped in a dark alley by some creep. That deep feeling of fear that you get, the male equivalent to that, is when he busts his ass, investing his blood, sweat, and tears into raising a child, and then finding out one day that the kid was never his. That's why guys have an issue with taking promiscuous women seriously. Because if you take a promiscuous woman seriously, and she gets pregnant, there's a good chance that child may not be yours.

[Browneye57]

Yes, of course it is. Just don't over-share. Never kiss and tell. EVER.
You can't ride the cock-carousel for a decade without consequences.

[winterfox10]

Not to me. I try to see her for woman she is.

[outside_Toronto]

Experience is important. details are not. Don't ask questions you can't handle the answers to.

[crmoore]

It's something that impacts my opinions and decisions but it's not as important as other things.

[Gedaria]

Yes it can be a help , more experience. But not as a criticism?

[navyP]

No not at all

[Twalli]

If she's had more than 1/2 her age of sexual partners it's too much. Since I round up more than 11 at 21 is too much.

[KrakenAttackin]

Yes, it's huge. At 21 I would not have wanted to be with a girl who had been with more than 2 other guys. Unless I just wanted her as a fuck buddy.