Was this sexual harassment?

[Anonymous]

In hs, I was in LOVE with this guy. He figured this out. I would send snaps to him with my shirt low cut and my boobs falling out of them. He always was very much encouraging to these pictures. But he wasn’t satisfied.

He told me to send him completely nude pictures. I said no, but he kept asking. He ended up telling me that he would tell my parents we had sex (which my parents are very religious and anti-sex b4 marriage) if I didn’t send him them. So I sent a pic of my boobs

He wasn’t still satisfied. He wanted to see my butt. I said no. He told me to send him pictures or else he would kill me. He told me not to tell anyone. I sent him pictures of my butt

He would also send videos of himself jerking himself off. I did like those videos, but I never forced him to send anything. Because I liked him, I’m confused if this is sexual harassment.

[Rahul_10is]

Actually asking for nudes and all is not illegal but what the boy was doing is completely illegal. You cannot force anyone to send them nudes and blackmail. I would suggest you to raise your voice against this if you have proper proof about him. This is definitely a case of sexual harassment. If you need any help dont ever hesitate to ask anyone to stand with you. I think you should talk to your parents now about this. And if you need any help you can reply i am with you if your parents do not help. Ask them for their help and raise your voice

[Asker]

I’ll be honest. I don’t want my super conservative parents to know what happened. They’d be devastated. I couldn’t raise my voice. I also have no actual proof since it was all through snapchat.

[Rahul_10is]

Hey do not worry. I know problems with super conservative parents do not worry u need someone to talk and tell the whole thing. I think now if you are above 18 you can go to police and file a complaint. Do not rush for anything stay strong. If in anyway i can help you do not hesitate to message me.

[Rahul_10is]

And if you want to forget everything then you can move on but leaving a person like this is equally a crime. He could have done something with other girls also or maybe he can do in near future

[Rahul_10is]

Do ask for help if needed

[MrNameless]

This is awful.

It's emotional abuse, black mail, threats of bodily harm and I would say sexual harassment. This happened 7 years ago?

[Asker]

Yeah long time ago. I ended up telling my friends like 2-3 years after it happened. I was scared that since they know the guy that they’d yell at him and he’d try to kill me. This was happening for like a year. Took me so long to finally block him.

[Emay71]

This is false Black Mail, Sexual Harassment, and Threats of Murder. Call the police, never talk to him again, and end it once and for all.

[Asker]

I never called the police. We had been talking for like a year. I ended up starting to see someone sane (who I am still dating after all those years) and then pulling the plug by blocking him and never talking to him. It was hard though. Now that I’m thinking about it I don’t know why it was so hard.

[thatguy1559]

I would say yes. But it's deeper than that cause he said he would kill you. That's a death threat.

[Asker]

Yeah I was so scared at the time. :(

[Nachowedgie]

Terrible troll

[Asker]

I’m not trolling