Put me down for "Been there, done that."
Fun fact. A few studies, Kinsey foremost among them, found that 11% of heterosexual men have had a homosexual experience and 3% had a gay relationship. That latter was me under the oddest of circumstances.
My girlfriend and I have lived together for 12 years and have three children together, but in our early days we went through what we now call our "wild and crazy" days. Mostly because I had been through a bad relationship - I'll spare you the whole story - and was not sure what I wanted. (Though a gay relationship had not to that time been on the list.)
At any rate, my girlfriend would get a little turned on by watching gay porn sometimes and so I would watch it with her if it improved the mood, so to speak. That was about it.
The next part, though, almost is like it came out of a movie. (In fact, I wonder if there ever was a movie with this plot.) At a Christmas party at my gfd's office a gay colleague of her's told her that she thought I was hot.
Sparing more details, they then came up with this idea that he and I would have gay sex and she would watch. His only stipulation being that sometimes it would be just he and I. For whatever reason - now she is horrified at the thought she ever did - she thought it was a hot idea and they came to me. I told them flatly no.
No way. No, mam. No how. In fact, I told my girlfriend I thought she had lost her mind. However, after about two months of cajoling, begging, tempting and one actual serious argument, to my own surprise and I guess just out of curiosity, I relented and for about the next 10 months or so, I found myself in a gay relationship. (Put me in that 3% in the Kinsey study.)
Oddly, it had its nice aspects. We even spent a week together when my girlfriend was out of town. Just the two of us and although it was not like we had sex every day - we actually had day jobs - we did enjoy the time. I found I enjoyed the sex - top and bottom - after a little getting used to. I also found that you do relate to guys differently - not better, but differently - that is emotionally satisfying.
There was something about being in a guy's arms that was not bad. Again, I would not trade it for what I have with a woman, but you do see another side of yourself. Weird, but there it is. (Also, when he and I did have sex in front of my girlfriend, it was hot to see her so turned on.)
At any rate, we ended it when we realized that he was getting more attached with me than was a good idea. He was hurt and although my girlfriend tried to set him up with another guy, she was not able to pull it off. Eventually, we drifted apart from him and eventually he moved on to another job.
So there is my really weird story. Would not want to repeat it and my girlfriend and I now look back with a "what were we thinking!!!" However, as I say, I did learn some things and it had its good aspects.
Research shows that most males (and females) have some kind of sex play or experimentation with same-aged children of the same sex. In males, this often occurs in small group settings during puberty or early adolescence and, particularly if alcohol is involved, may include fellatio and, more rarely, anal intercourse. Male adults sometimes secretly engage in sexual conduct with anonymous partners to find out what it is like. Some then discover that they are sexually bisexual or gay. However, often guilt and shame prevent such men from openly acknowledging their mixed sexuality, though they may do so with a wife or other committed female partner, usually in hope that she would agree to share another man on occasion.
The simple answer is that the conduct you describe is not terribly unusual.
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Yes I have given a guy a blowjob once before and I loved it to tell the truth. The best part was when he ejaculated in my mouth. His sperm tasted good and I swallowed all his load.
Growing up in the time when people even refused to admit to masturbating, being with someone of the same sex was severely looked down upon and that's how I was raised. As I got older, my experiences grew and I kept trying more and more things. I ended up giving my wifes friends with benefits a bj and loved it. I doubt I'll go any further than that but it was a huge step for me.
Absolutely not
I received a blow job from a male. We were locked up at the time so I’m not sure if it counts
I never would have when I was younger. I was raised strictly, in a religious household. I am attracted to women, and am in a good relationship with a woman. However, sometimes I wonder if I missed out by not "experimenting" when I was younger.
I never have. When I was very young, I was confused, but as I got older I had no doubt that I was only attracted to women.
i am bisexual but i've only had actual sexual experiences with women and transgender women - the later included giving oral sex :)
none your guy is lying to you, he isn't straight
Very very few. Your guy is highly suspect.
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