What to do, I'm extremely horny, sexually frustrated, and still a virgin?

Question

I just want to feel the real thing and have lots of sex. Masterbating helps a little but I'm still going to be horny.

Answer 1

sensogal | 96 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

I'm guessing you already tried meeting someone. Last resort, you can still get a paid girl. Some specialise in virgins. I have no idea how much they cost though.

poneglyphs

11 mo
I don't wanna do that, that's sounds super easy and not rewarding at all. I also, want somone to have a relationship with but as you can see I don't have any luck with girls. :^(
sensogal

11 mo
I mean last resort. Being sexually frustrated and being a virgin after 25 diminishes your chances of finding a sexual partner. It may not fulfill your other needs but it's just to experience sex
poneglyphs

11 mo
Why does it diminish after 25? Don't girl's like guys with no STDs or baggage,
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sensogal

11 mo
Because it's still kinda acceptable to be a virgin up to 25. In my world, It's already unusual to be one at 21. Unless you are religious and know a lot of similar people to yourself, then yes it's a super turn off. I only encountered 1 guy I was dating who was 21 and a virgin, it turned me off when he told me. I was 20 back then. This only applies if you are from a similar culture as me..
sensogal

11 mo
We like guys who know what they are doing! That's regardless of culture 🙂
poneglyphs

11 mo
oh, well, what kind of world you lived in? I'm basically the only virgin I know is 25 years old. I'm definitely not religious at all.
sensogal

11 mo
OK cool. So we're from the same world 🙂. Since I'm on GAG, I was amazed how many people are religious, against sex, virgins... Etc So take my advise then! You're priority should be to lose your virginity forget about whether she's hot, or if it's fulfilling or too easy...
poneglyphs

11 mo
wanna talk in private? just message me
sensogal

11 mo
It's not personal, I don't talk to anyone in private here coz each time someone messages me it's for sexting
poneglyphs

11 mo
oh, okay, Well, I wanted to tell you a little more about myself and my pov of this situation?
Will23v

11 mo
@sensogal would u say most girls consider it a super turn off even if ur not overweight and ugly? And do u thinks its a lot worse after age 25? Thanks
sensogal

11 mo
@Will23v where I am and given that my entourage are non-religious and not conservative. Virginity is a major turn off both for male and females. As I mentioned, I was turned off by this guy I was dating who was 21 and I was 20 when he told me he was a virgin. He was good looking, nice personality and we got along great. So for me it's just weird to be a virgin after 20, passed it after 23 and after 25 just out of this world. I don't think there's a precise cut off age, it might differ for each but person. Above 25, you're not that young anymore, making it even more odd.
sensogal

11 mo
@Will23v my guess is if the girl is also inexperienced or a virgin.. you'll have more chance
Will23v

11 mo
@sensogal u think i should just lie about it or not mention it? Did u dump that guy or take his v?
Will23v

11 mo
@sensogal are men where u are expected to get laid a lot? Where are u?
sensogal

11 mo
@Will23v I offered him to just being friends but I think he was embarrassed and we lost touch after that
sensogal

11 mo
@Will23v I was young and insensitive back then, so I wasn't comforting and kinda dump him as soon as he said it
sensogal

11 mo
@Will23v I haven't thought of this option of not mentioning it.. Good point, I supposed you could do that!
Will23v

11 mo
Would u still not have sex with a virgin guy at the age u are now?
sensogal

11 mo
@Will23v I wouldn't answer No categorically. It's a bit of a turn off for me. It depends.. but I definitely will be more considerate and make him comfortable

Answer 2

poneglyphs

I don't wanna do that, that's sounds super easy and not rewarding at all. I also, want somone to have a relationship with but as you can see I don't have any luck with girls. :^(

Answer 3

sensogal

I mean last resort. Being sexually frustrated and being a virgin after 25 diminishes your chances of finding a sexual partner. It may not fulfill your other needs but it's just to experience sex

Answer 4

poneglyphs

Why does it diminish after 25? Don't girl's like guys with no STDs or baggage,

Answer 5

sensogal

Because it's still kinda acceptable to be a virgin up to 25. In my world, It's already unusual to be one at 21. Unless you are religious and know a lot of similar people to yourself, then yes it's a super turn off. I only encountered 1 guy I was dating who was 21 and a virgin, it turned me off when he told me. I was 20 back then. This only applies if you are from a similar culture as me..

Answer 6

sensogal

We like guys who know what they are doing! That's regardless of culture 🙂

Answer 7

poneglyphs

oh, well, what kind of world you lived in? I'm basically the only virgin I know is 25 years old. I'm definitely not religious at all.

Answer 8

sensogal

OK cool. So we're from the same world 🙂. Since I'm on GAG, I was amazed how many people are religious, against sex, virgins... Etc So take my advise then! You're priority should be to lose your virginity forget about whether she's hot, or if it's fulfilling or too easy...

Answer 9

poneglyphs

wanna talk in private? just message me

Answer 10

sensogal

It's not personal, I don't talk to anyone in private here coz each time someone messages me it's for sexting

Answer 11

poneglyphs

oh, okay, Well, I wanted to tell you a little more about myself and my pov of this situation?

Answer 12

Will23v

@sensogal would u say most girls consider it a super turn off even if ur not overweight and ugly? And do u thinks its a lot worse after age 25? Thanks

Answer 13

sensogal

@Will23v where I am and given that my entourage are non-religious and not conservative. Virginity is a major turn off both for male and females. As I mentioned, I was turned off by this guy I was dating who was 21 and I was 20 when he told me he was a virgin. He was good looking, nice personality and we got along great. So for me it's just weird to be a virgin after 20, passed it after 23 and after 25 just out of this world. I don't think there's a precise cut off age, it might differ for each but person. Above 25, you're not that young anymore, making it even more odd.

Answer 14

sensogal

@Will23v my guess is if the girl is also inexperienced or a virgin.. you'll have more chance

Answer 15

Will23v

@sensogal u think i should just lie about it or not mention it? Did u dump that guy or take his v?

Answer 16

Will23v

@sensogal are men where u are expected to get laid a lot? Where are u?

Answer 17

sensogal

@Will23v I offered him to just being friends but I think he was embarrassed and we lost touch after that

Answer 18

sensogal

@Will23v I was young and insensitive back then, so I wasn't comforting and kinda dump him as soon as he said it

Answer 19

sensogal

@Will23v I haven't thought of this option of not mentioning it.. Good point, I supposed you could do that!

Answer 20

Will23v

Would u still not have sex with a virgin guy at the age u are now?

Answer 21

sensogal

@Will23v I wouldn't answer No categorically. It's a bit of a turn off for me. It depends.. but I definitely will be more considerate and make him comfortable

Answer 22

MackToday | 1.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I've seen girls on here post the same thing, reach out to them. Ask a few questions and see if any of them see your post.

poneglyphs

11 mo
Alright dude

Answer 23

poneglyphs

Alright dude

Answer 24

Will23v

Xper 5

I feel your pain i have no idea where to start looking. Ill be a 23 yo virgin in April

Answer 25

ItsTheNephilim | 3.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Tone yourself up. Get outgoing and get laid.

poneglyphs

11 mo
Kk, I am hitting on more girls recently.
ItsTheNephilim

11 mo
Good work. You work out though?
poneglyphs

11 mo
Sometimes, but only at home
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ItsTheNephilim

11 mo
Up the game in your workout sessions bruh. You can tone yourself up decently at home. Smash it.
poneglyphs

11 mo
Okay dude