Do you share all your sexual fantasies with your partner, no matter how perverted?

[sanashah]

[ShortCircuit]

There are one or two that I won't share with my future partner, but I think that's okay given that I've never indulged in them with another partner, nor would I have any intentions of indulging in them with her, especially since the reason I won't share them is just that they're embarrassing, not that they're harmful or twisted or anything.

The rest I can guarantee will be discussed with full disclosure, and hopefully indulged in too.

[loveslongnails]

Unless you have a really unique partner who's totally open minded, and your relationship is absolutely iron clad, that's a really bad thing to do !!! Really bad. You think you know someone, but the wrong thing said can sometimes break off the entire deal. I'm not going to go into details here (you can message me if you like), but I've seen it before and it will happen again.

[sanashah]

Oh, thank you :)

[Secret6620]

No I don't. I keep my wicked perversions VERY far away from him 🖤

[sanashah]

Haha why exactly?

[Secret6620]

That's my little secret. 🖤

[sanashah]

Okay :P

[DrippingHoney]

I eventually do. How else will you ever get them fulfilled?

[sanashah]

So nothing you consider too perverted or extreme, to never share?

[DrippingHoney]

Not if it's something that I want to try

[sanashah]

Okay

[Janice2000]

O have and I do even the wierded ones. One of which I just asked about on here. What's your wierdest?

[ohshee]

Don't have a partner at the moment so the answer would be I do with girls I chat with on line lol

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Yes, but I've found that more times than not it's worth telling your partner. Maybe it's a women thing but girls in my experience tend to be very understanding of other peoples fantasies. Even if they're a little disgusted by them or don't understand.

[SpeedVoid]

In the beginning no. After some time I did, and oh boy why did I wait? So much fun after dark 👌

[R4vedave]

Yup, even the most disgusting and disturbing of my kinks. Even though she doesn't enjoy them all the same as I do, she accepts and is okay with everything I'm interested in.

[Dargil]

Not even nearly. Do you think I want her to know I'm a perv or what?

[sanashah]

Lol. Then how do you decide what to share? Also... everyone is a perv to some extent, so it's okay right?

[Dargil]

Some things I have asked for. Others are unreachable and... uhhh... wouldn't involve her.

[sanashah]

So it's okay if everything you desire sexually isn't fulfilled by your partner?

[Dargil]

If you mean, can some of those things remain masturbation fantasies or maybe the narrative of a Literotica story (I have written two), yes.

[sanashah]

Haha okay. I love literotica, too. ^_^

[reptocarl]

Of course

[oldguystillhasit]

Yes I told her all of them. I was surprised about how many we shared. She thought if I knew her kinks and fantasies that I would think less of her she never told me until I brought up the subject

[sanashah]

Did you ever not act out any one of them?

[oldguystillhasit]

Yes, but we agreed if we both liked them we would continue to do them. If one of us didn't like it we would never do it again

[MannySimms]

We both did that and a wonderful world of adventure opened for both of us. Good times!

[bazoom]

Not a chance. Some get really bad.

[sanashah]

How do you decide what you can share?

[bazoom]

Just by developing a relationship and being comfortable with them. It helps you understand how they might react to some of the things that would be said.

[sanashah]

So it's totally pointless to share if you might be misunderstood or rejected (for that particular fantasy)?

[bazoom]

Rejected: No that's fine Misunderstood: even that can be fine as long as they dont over react about it.

[sanashah]

Oh, I see. Thank you :)

[Browneye57]

No. For some reason young women seem to have this feeling that every little thought that pops into their little brain needs to be verbalized. We call it diarrhea of the mouth and constipation of the brain.

[GermanGuy87]

no absolutely not. Some thingz are best left in your head

[CaptainLegal]

Yes we share, in 3 months we did all kind of stuff and she was a virgin when I started dating her

[theCobbler]

No, something's are so personal that they're ultra personal ! the few things I've shared with the significant other, have always came back to haunt or hurt me, so no more!

[oncpl]

Not all, but most of them.

[COMMODOREII]

Yes i do

[Steve37]

Not right away, but over time I do.

[sanashah]

How do you decide what to share eventually, and why?

[Steve37]

As we get more comfortable and trusting of one another, I just naturally open up more about that stuff.

[sanashah]

I see

[navyP]

Yes absolutely

[Nigjt]

Yes I do in hope's that she might want to join in with me.
God Bless

[OddBeMe]

Nah. Keep it in, don’t be ashamed of it. But don’t let it ruin sex for you. For awhile I couldn’t but without watching porn, even during sex. Like alcohol, you gotta moderate.