Oh, thank you :)
Haha why exactly?
That's my little secret. 🖤
So nothing you consider too perverted or extreme, to never share?
Not if it's something that I want to try
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Did you ever not act out any one of them?
Yes, but we agreed if we both liked them we would continue to do them. If one of us didn't like it we would never do it again
Lol. Then how do you decide what to share? Also... everyone is a perv to some extent, so it's okay right?
Some things I have asked for. Others are unreachable and... uhhh... wouldn't involve her.
So it's okay if everything you desire sexually isn't fulfilled by your partner?
If you mean, can some of those things remain masturbation fantasies or maybe the narrative of a Literotica story (I have written two), yes.
Haha okay. I love literotica, too. ^_^
You didn't particularly hide some fantasies that may be a little too much?
No I don’t have to, we are pretty much on the same wavelength as far as fantasies go
Safe enough about what? Like, feeling judgement?
Yeah the fear of judgment is real
Ah I see
How do you decide what you can share?
Just by developing a relationship and being comfortable with them. It helps you understand how they might react to some of the things that would be said.
So it's totally pointless to share if you might be misunderstood or rejected (for that particular fantasy)?
Rejected: No that's fineMisunderstood: even that can be fine as long as they dont over react about it.
Oh, I see. Thank you :)
Any particular reason?
Maybe he will think that I am too perverted
Yeah, I was thinking the same. And like I don't want him to think that I'm actually interested in doing such things in real life. It's just a fantasy, something to masturbate to only.
If you won't do that in real life, you shouldn't tell him. My advice ☺️
Ahaha okay :)
How do you decide what to share eventually, and why?
As we get more comfortable and trusting of one another, I just naturally open up more about that stuff.
How do you decide what to share?
Start with not so risky or too kinky ones and slowly build up to them
So there's nothing you consider too perverted and cannot share?
No, if they think it's too perverted we wouldn't be right for each other anyway
What if you don't want to act it out? Like, it's just a fantasy. Would you still share it?
sure why not
Why not share that one?
Embarrassed worried what she might think
Eventually I would like to tell her though just not sure how to bring something like that up
Haha all the best. Hope it goes successfully when you share :)
Yeah I don't know I'm just worried it could upset her
Well it's okay. Some things are better not said then
Yeah even though it has a really big fan of seeing a huge turn-on and might be better left undone but for some reason I just can't stop thinking about it
But it's possible she might also like the idea
Flip a coin 🤞
Well my fantasy is to watch her have sex with someone else I mean what do you think that's something I should tell her or just keep to myself
I don't know how she thinks about sex. You can tell her, but be ok if you're turned down.
Yeah I know I would never try to force her into it or anything like that cuz she wanted to I would totally let her
No fear or judgement or misunderstanding?
*fear of judgement
No. Life is too short to have fears of that nature. Do you
Okay.And no, I don't share everything.
Partner , he might/might not have interested
I don't think so. what if your girl wanted to shit in her hand and smoosh it into your face or do something CrAzY - there is definitely a line