Guys, would you stop mastrubating, if your gf/wife wants to "sexually satisfy" you whenever you want?

[Anonymous]

I mean why does he need to mastrubate, if I can do it for my potential partner whenever he wants and vica versa. I am not that traditional but when it comes sexuality, i think that both partners should care for each sexual urges whenever he/she wants except you can't do it because of illness, psysical pain or for some serious reason.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I tried that with a girl once and it just doesn't work. First of all, cumming for a guy is a mental health thing. When you're horny, you can't think properly. So if you two are in a fight or not with eachother or you're asleep or can't do what you gotta do that's a problem right there.

Also, sometimes you just want to get it over with. So the girl feels a little used or not good about herself when the guy just wants to drop her pants fuck for a couple minutes and then call it a day. haha. And you're gonna have to do that sometimes if you're really serious about a lifestyle like that.

We stopped doing it because we realized how crazy that idea was. It only took 2 weeks.

When your guy jerks off, you're not being left out of anything. He's just scratching an itch.

[Lliam]

Absol-fucking-lutely! Being satisfied by a women is 100x better than the alternative. It would be wonderful if I could plumb her juicy center anytime I was was in the mood, even if was to just bend her over for a quicky. But supplementing with blowjobs would also be magical. Even a handjob from her while I played with her tits would be nice.
It would be a wonderful woman who was happy, eager and willing to gratify her man anytime.
Most special of all, though, would be to gratify her at the same time. The best thing in the world is a woman who orgasms during sex.

[Janice2000]

I agree but guys will do what they want. I try to only masturbate with someone else but sometimes I can't help it and I'm painfully single now. When I have a girlfriend I make sure to satisfy her and she satisfies my needy pussy.

[bklynbadboy1]

Well said

[SarahsSummer]

I agree with most of what you say but to restrict a persons alone time will be detrimental to the relationship. Masturbation is healthy for a variety of reasons.

[Love2Jackit]

No I would not stop masturbating. Even if my so promised 2 sexual satisfy. Cause as I see it. If she using sex 2 try 2 stop from masturbating. Then what will she use next. I would just tell her masturbation for a man is a natural way 2 relieve tension.

[pajamasam]

Any time he wants it. You'll probably find that most guys want sex WAY more than you realize.

However if a girlfriend proposed this to me I'd go for it. I'd give up masturbation if it meant a girlfriend would give me some kind of sexual release at least once a day.

[integrale77]

I know what your saying but even when a man has sex on tap there will still times he will want to practice some self loving. Reason being is that its different from someone doing it for you and hard to be replicated.

Best you can hope for is a man not turning to masturbation out of not getting enough attention.

[saggittarius039112]

Assuming it can be whenever? Sure.

[Asker]

Hahaha

[saggittarius039112]

Lmao however i believe itd still be difficult

[MrSlim]

Definitely. Not sure anyone could keep up with that amount of work though.

[R4vedave]

If my partner was willing to have sex about twice a day, then sure, I'd stop masturbating.

[LiamSawyer]

Sure, except for when she can't help me because of sickness, pain or some serious reason.

[BeRealU]

That would be amazing.. sadly, sometimes you’re just not both in the mood at the same time. Some things trigger people differently than others. it would be ideal; what you’re proposing, only if both parties enjoyed it.

[Innoculator]

I disagree. Masturbation is natural and sometimes a person just needs to get off. What you say sounds good in theory but won't last in actual practice. Sex on demand 100% of the time just isn't practical and it's healthy to take care of it yourself periodically.

[Asker]

I mean she also can give you a handjob, not necassarily sex

[zvedavy]

Yes, definitely. In a fact, I would try to adapt myself so I won't need to masturbate, even if she couldnt satisfy me really well (but if she couldn't do it at all, it would be problem)

[reptocarl]

I’d rather do sexual things with my partner than alone any day

[0112358]

If she wanted that arrangement, yes. I'd be happy about it too.

[Apope16]

My attraction to a woman and the amount of sex doesn't really change my masturbating habits. It doesn't change how dearly and lustfully i wsnt her.

[Bananaman177]

Masturbation has always been there for me.

Women have not.

Don't come between me and my hand, interloper. My hand will still be there for me after you divorce-rape me and take everything else I own. You can never mean as much to me as Madam Palm and her five lovely daughters.

[Asker]

You are such a drama queen

[Asker]

But i love your answere hahaha

[Bananaman177]

Imagine saying that to a woman who was beaten and raped. "You're such a drama queen." You would think somebody who said that was the lowest form of scum on the Earth, but you do it to victimized men and don't even think twice, and you'll call me ridiculous for pointing this out to you.

[Asker]

It is not compareable. What has that to with raped women?

[Asker]

You are making unnecassary drama. Just say you dont like it. And you are also antifemale. How would you feel if igenarilize and say that I say that my hand is always there even though men rape, beat me because all men are trash?

[Bananaman177]

Wow, you actually think women have a monopoly on victimhood. Nobody knows what pain is except for women, huh? Men and boys get raped and beat up too, but in your mind, they deserve it for being male in the first place, right? You probably think it's good for little boys to get raped so they learn to empathize more with all you poor, poor women...

[Asker]

Are you mentally ill or are you trolling? where did I say men did not get raped? You are making a tantrum about such question.

[Robertcw]

It's the transition period that's bad. When single, if you over-masterbate you don't have motivation to do anything.

You need to go monk and reset the clocks. Hopefully you find someone and then you can decide to stop because you have a willing partner.

[MannySimms]

Since masturbation is a substitute for sexual activity leading to orgasm, sure. But you have to be open and honest about what you like!

[TCredo]

Fair points but for some folks (like me) who travel often (100+ nights a year away from home), masturbation fills the gaps :)

[MannMitAntworten]

Not really into tossing off in the first place.

[David_Kek]

My girl does, even to the point of getting into the whole rape stuff without safe words and such, and i still occasionally masturbate. Why? Who knows, sometimes a little variety is good, one of the same reasons for engaging in new fantasies and threesomes and stuff.
Don't feel insecure about it, it's normal. If it does concern you that much, try watching porn with him occasionally to relieve the thoughts of "what is he thinking of". It's a hoot, whenever we have we spent most of the time laughing at the silliness of the storyline.

[Rippersavage]

I wouldn't stop masturbating. It's nice to just watch porn and please myself sometimes (even when in a sexually satisfying relationship)