Why would a guy be obsessed with making me satisfied during sex?

I feel like my boyfriend is obsessed with making me cum. When we are together, he keeps talking about it how important it is to him.
When I ask him why, he says because and smiles.

Every time we have sex he says it's the best time ever.
Unfortunately, we live kind long distance from each other so we can sleep together twice a month or so.
Why is he like this?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • He doesn't think you're fully satisfied if you don't. It's like "proof" you are. Physical proof, because women will often lie and say they are when they aren't. He'll also want to be the best he can be with/for you (as you do him right?). So you have to try and convince him you are or explain it better to him. It may still be hard for him to understand, but depends how convincing you are. Also, I don't know if it's ever happened for him (it can with us sometimes as well, although not as common), just remind him of that also. Have there been times where he hasn't, but still really enjoyed it?

  • Lol what a response!

    Anyway, he cares about you and takes sexual satisfaction from you getting off. It's a major ego boost to think that you can make a girl feel incredible because you know her so well.

    Also, it's a good sign he's not a total asshole.

Most Helpful Girls

  • For him it's a kink and guys seem to think we need to cum to be satisfied. Sometimes I want my lover to cum and push to help her but it's ok if she does not or I don't.

    Explain to him you don't need to always squirt to love sex.

  • guys want to make sure we girls orgasm coz it means they were successful in pleasing us in bed.

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  • He's a considerate lover.

  • Honestly? It's a great feeling to make a woman "gush" with orgasm, and/or give her multiple orgasms. It's like "playing her like a pinball machine or a video game" and achieving the "high score". (I know, that's a dork metaphor, but there it is).

  • I'm like this it's a real turn on to see a woman in the throws of pleasure. I put money on him having a raging hard on after he sees you orgasm!

  • He just wants you to feel as good as he does during sex

  • i can understand him completely, sometimes men get satisfaction from pleasing their girl, thats how it is sometimes and its something that should be respected as it shows more love than lust

  • When I have an intimate other, in sex assuming the other entity is in tune with me and it being amazing I would want to let her feel as much pleasure as I feel... and more. etc

  • I was taught by my step father. Always make sure she gets hers. She will always come back for more.