I wanted some advice on how to suck my boyfriend's cock perfectly from some guys opinions if possible thanks?

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Dargil · Accepted Answer

Most girls do not know how to give an effective blowjob. They have to resort to trial and error because guys can't verbalize what they want. Over time, I have received quite a few and, as important, watched AV clips that ended in visible evidence of ejaculation. What struck me is how much they all were. So I summarized a successful routine. Here it is.

*What happens in the foreplay stage varies from guy to guy; teasing, play, etc. Many girls have certain teases that are good for starting arousal. I favor a nipples to knees erotic massage. The goal is to get us hard and flowing precum but not to near to orgasm, so the "tank" has time to fill. While there's always some on hand, arousal induces emergency production so volume will be bigger and orgasm will be stronger. With little or no drama, here's what always seems to work.

*A blow job is not romantic, interactive sex, it is one-way sexual therapy. You make it all about him. The best blow job is a combination of hand and oral. The head wants bobbing, sucking and licking, slick, soft and smooth. The shaft wants vigorous hand stroking. Conversely, vigorous stroking overwhelms the head and the shaft doesn't respond as well to a mouth as it does to a hand.

*Once you start, never stop or slow down. Build steady tension to the finish. It is OK to level off to make him last longer so long as you don't lose ground. When he starts to buck and breathe deep, go aggressive. Increase sucking and bobbing to as fast as you can sustain for a few minutes and break away hand stroking, going as fast as you can with a moderate grip.

*He wants to cum in your mouth while you suck and stroke. Be prepared for it and don't skip a beat. When he starts to ejaculate, stop bobbing and straight-suck only. Keep hand stroking, but at a slower pace, to coax out the last squirts.

*Stay "locked on" (sucking without motion) until he unplugs. It feels good to drain out and shrink away under vacuum. Also a little brief, occasional "suckling", like a baby on a pacifier is a good tease while we drain.

*Be careful not to scratch or bite. It can put the fire out.

*Deep throating and "face fucking" are useless porn antics. Your mouth and tongue will give a better sensation that your throat ever could. He may instinctively try to drive deep when he cums. You can avoid choking by gripping his penis in front of your mouth.

*Swallowing is up to you as it gives no pleasure but may give him an ego boost. I like her to spit into her palm to see how we did.

*There is nothing that will make a man feel more loved than a skilled blow job where he can be indulged without feeling self conscious. Developing this skill can help cement your relationship and make it less likely he will cheat.

*One more thing, This Meme is funny but absolutely true

I wanted some advice on how to suck my boyfriend's cock perfectly from some guys opinions if possible thanks?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Sure it depends on what he likes and and also what your comfortable or willing to do too. Every guy is different. Have you communicated with him and ask what he likes or how he likes it? When you’re doing it to him ask if him all cute if he likes that, etc. I know If something feels really good and is working for me I’ll tell her keep doing that, etc. I know for me when it was a one nighter thing I liked it fast and dirty. But I’m with my current girl now and married 15 years, it’s a little different. And from her I love it nice and slow and sensual. I like it really warm and wet in her mouth and at this point she’s learned me and knows what to do. I love she goes very slow and teases the head with her tongue and sucks the head. Then she goes slow up and down the shaft and takes me eventually all the way in (I’m average 6 size) so I’m not gagging her she’s comfortable with it. She knows to work that for awhile and then go back to the head and she takes her hands and one hand slowly strokes my shaft while she’s sucking, and the other hand massages my balls or my legs/thighs or chest/nipples. She’ll suck on the balls too which is really incredible. I love when she uses her nails and lightly scratches my head and shaft and also my balls and underneath them toward my ass too. It feels electric! And when I’m ready to cum I let her know because she doesn’t like to swallow (which is totally fine), and she pulls out and cups her hand over it to catch the load. But I just love the trust and communication that we have and it shows in our oral efforts. We like to take our time and have an amazing slow build up to an explosive orgasm and really just explore each other. That comes over time in a good solid relationship. But if it’s a one nighter or just something casual, those tend to be more faster, dirtier and throat fucking like in porn (which I don’t personally like).

MaidenMandy30 · Accepted Answer

Every man is different and usually your partner will help you discover him

AustinMan · Answer

Does this help?

cicchis0 · Answer

Just do what you feel like doing, see how he reacts, and take it from there. I think it's good to take it slow and tease him a little to really work him up. There are plenty of articles with tips and tricks (I feel like Cosmopolitan magazine has this exact subject about four times a year) but I believe that he'll be grateful regardless of how you approach it. I say to do what you want to do because he will enjoy it much more if you are enjoying it, too. It wouldn't be fun (for me at least) if it seems like you're performing an unpleasant chore.

TadCurious · Answer

If you're worried about doing it perfectly you probably won't be in the moment and you'll overthink it. Just remember that most of the "feels good" sensation is in the head of the penis and the inch or so just below the head on the underside. You don't have to deepthroat to give a great blowjob. If you get sidetracked just remember you're simply just sucking his dick, which isn't a difficult concept. Take breaks to rest your jaw and mouth and try to be in a comfortable position. When you break you can stroke him with your hand or massage or even suck on his balls. Those things feel really good and you can massage his balls while he's in your mouth. Make sure to keep sucking all the way through his orgasm because if you stop too soon it will be meh. But my main advice would be to not worry about perfection.

Ripper_E · Answer

Why not ask him? You are sucking his cock, not some else's.

IlyaTheImpaler · Answer

There's a website that teaches you how to do quantum field theories step by step   , so I assume there should be a website that teaches you how to suck dick with similar level of details, you can probably google it.

Browneye57 · Answer

Google up Stormy Daniels. Oh boy can she suck a dick. LOL

Ffej85 · Answer

Every guy is different. It’s not really something that you can do wrong try different things and his body language and his sounds will let you know how you are going.

HeyMikie · Answer

Use lots of tongue action around the head.

justhereforthefood · Answer

Pornhub. Think of it as a library. Do your research by seeing what gets the higher rating. Also... suck the balls BUT for the love of Christ, do it gently!

TimRob · Answer

I like the tip of my head played with a lot then going down the whole shaft

Nigjt · Answer

Well u can ask him. U can work on the head of it an wait an see what he say's about that. Or u can just let him gide ur head to the way he like's it. God Bless