I've never before heard anyone speak as if there is a difference/separation between male orgasm and ejaculation.
@cicchis0 That seems odd. I have always know the two are separate.
Sounds like you have some sort of tantric wisdom and should be charging the rest of us to learn.
@cicchis0 In all seriousness though... the second you get that "gonna cum" feeling... if you stop touching any part of your junk, you will ejaculate and not orgasm. I do this sometimes if I am going to nut quickly and want to keep going. As long as you don't orgasm, you will stay hard. After you ejaculate, you can keep fucking as long as you want and you will stay hard.
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