At what point are you obligated to “finish” a guy off and make him cum?

[BasicBad]

[ecfresh]

Can we change the word from obligation to excitement? For example during a love making session that can begin with a kiss or touch and end falling asleep spooning I see it as exciting to help her orgasm and feel pleasure. Because generally women are multiorgasmic I enjoy her Cumming a few times before I do. As in any relationship it boils down to communication and someone leading the other. So I would like her mindset to be one of a giver of pleasure and if we are having sex she wants me to cum, that thought turns her on visualizing it. Of course there are some days where for whatever reason we don’t have sex but still create intimacy and can involve touch in that time but no one finishes; that’s why I don’t want her to feel obligated because I can always finish on my own if the need arises. Thus far that doesn’t happen often and in my experience once we start we both end up happy and smiling.

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[ThatGuy133]

Do or do not

[ThatGuy133]

Woo, grassy ass for MHO

[byowell]

No one's ever obligated to do anything sexual definitely an individual decision. But my boyfriend couldn't even cum as many times as I get his dick out, can't help it I'm obsessed 🤷🤷 I wanna touch it sometimes

[elizamichale1]

Well i think if i pull it n play with it then i shouldn't leave him in misery lol

[elizamichale1]

Thanks for MHO honey

[Curmudgeon]

If it was me, I would want to follow through with intercourse. In for a penny and all that.

[sex_magic]

If I start something, I'm willing to go all the way. So I'd expect the same.

[SarahsSummer]

"Obligated" LOL!

[Pamina]

Ironically, the correct answer is option D.

[MrSlim]

As soon as you unholstered it.

[sawno]

D, especially if its a guy with my kinks given i am into orgasm control / denial. So if she wanted to not finish me off at all and just tease me for her amusement she'd be free to do so.

[R4vedave]

You're never "obligated" to do anything.

[BrexitAteMyLobster]

When he's paid the money 💷

[Dargil]

Obligated does not fit into a voluntary relationship. But if you to flesh to flesh, it's the right thing to do. If you don't want him to cum, stay outside the clothes.

[0112358]

Obligated is a strong word, but I'd say that if you fondle someone's genitals under their clothes or remove clothes to touch them, there's a strong implication you'll try to get them to orgasm if they want, at least via manual stimulation.

[Prof_Don]

Both of you should finish each other off every time ! Don’t be lazy 😛

[NickiB1]

i am not obligated. he can stop being lazy and finish himself off

[joeblow123]

@NickiB1 In that case he should just jack off and leave you. If a woman has an attitude toward my needs then her needs become unimportant to me.

[Browneye57]

If you start it in the first place.
When you cum.
When you're ready to be done.

[winterfox10]

I hate the term "obligation." That makes it sound like we live in some weird world where male pleasure is an inconvenience. I would say that it's poor manners to not finish him if she pulls him out and starts fondling him.

[joeblow123]

Ladies, if you voted for D say good-bye to your sex life.

[justcurious2019]

Can i pm you

[Sagethewiseman]

Whenever you want something, if you are withholding this as a treat, than keep it to a treat when you want something or he's a good dog.

[Ianto]

There is never an obligation to carry out a sexual act that you don't wish to.
Good manners, however, suggest you shouldn't play with it in the first place if you have no intention of following through.

[justhereforthefood]

I feel like it shouldn't be an obligation for either party. If it's a good relationship , you both should want finish each other even if you don't.

[_乃尺OЩ刀_TITI]

you're not unless the feller is about to then you must commit, there's no going back or else he'll explode.