Would you respect a person who started having sex at age 14?

[Anonymous]

I found out this girl started having sex at age 14 and I started losing respect for her. What's your opinion?

[4You__]

I lost my virginity at age 11 !! Do you really think that at those ages we know what we’re doing? Hell no.. people grow up sometime and become completely different people.. and I don’t care if there’s girls who never thought about sex at a young age every kid has a weird phase at some point

[Grkgod12]

Grear answer ! May I ask, who was your first?

[Anonymous]

She was a teenager she might not have been using the best judgment and at this point you have no idea why she was doing it. I don't think you can judge her on that. See what she is like now. Is she loyal and trustworthy?

[MrOracle]

As long as she was ready and willing (and not coerced and not doing it to "fit in" or whatever), and as long as she's having safe sex and not getting pregnant, I'm fine with it. It's on the young side, sure, but not insanely so.

[JigyW]

Well for me yes, I'll respect just like everyone else, she isn't any different. Yes there's a feel of disguise people get when they hear about that, but understanding the full story is very important in moments like this

[chrissykerdock]

I had sex at 12... a few times coitus then backed off did anal... then just did blowjobs... but I didn't have sex regualry a 12... I started off with this neighborhood boy then we got into a blowjob routine... it wasn't love but more of curiousity and I do remember geniuinely loving to giving blowjobs... I can see why someone would look down... but far as I can see I wasn't hurting anyone and potentially made some boys feel better... I had one guy tell me he would've committed suicide if it wasn't for me giving him blowjobs when he needed one.

[Teamawkward]

Why would her sex life, which is a personal choice, affect the way you think about her? Of course, I would still respect her.

[Regmorus]

Depends. People change. And people make mistakes occasionally. If she has a good personality besides of that, i't wouldn't concern me at all.

[Vencam]

That's not a relevant enough information to change your attitude towards her so much. Ignore it or try understanding it

[Secret6620]

Depends if it was a one time thing or if she is doing the entire football team
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[Artesian]

If she's in a relationship for a while, and not sleeping around, and being kind of responsible about it, I think there's much worse things that are "acceptable" she could be doing.

[KellyKatz510]

Same age I started

[joe_schmidt]

I lost my virginity at 12yo, so I can't judge.

[Pamina]

Why would I lose respect for that person?

[TheLittleInnocent]

Why does it matter... i wouldn't care¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[shreya_shiry]

i wouldn't care

[saggittarius039112]

Yes respect is there. I lost mine at 15

[WhiteShoulder]

Yes. I would.

[cicchis0]

I'd have less respect for the person that was having sex with her.

[R4vedave]

I don't judge someone for their sexual activity

[BlondeGoneWild]

I don’t think it’s any of your business, and I don’t think there’s a specific age at which it’s okay to have sex. I started with my boyfriend at 13, and I think we were both mature enough at the time

[michaellllx]

Yeah

[LiamSawyer]

I'd have know the history/events that lead up to her having sex at that age before I could ever judge her for it.

[zvedavy]

Well, what if that was guy that starter having sax at that age? It would be ok, maybe he would be coolest one😐😐

[idkwhattoputherelolz]

Since I started at 11, absolutely

[Ms_Facesitter]

No, but I'm just glad I waited