Why would a friends with benefits ask me to watch his kid?

He called me to meet his ex wife at his house to watch his sick daughter she was dropping off because he was on a job site 45 minutes away. He knows plenty of people that live in our neighborhood. I felt awkward but I did it and now it seems like he is making up excuses to call me and come see me (not for sex). He had me to come see him last week just to listen to voice mails of his mom and dad that both passed away last year. But has told me he doesn’t want a relationship when we first started hooking up a year ago.
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Seems like he only wants the relationship on his terms. It's OK for him to ask more from you when he needs or wants it, but he'll back off if you seem to be getting 'close'. This is selfish, but up to you to decide if this works for you. True friends with benefits should be an easy arrangement, which is why people engage this way bc maybe a committed relationship is just 'too much'. So again, I think he's selfish and he's getting all his needs met but you're needs are lacking. If all you want is sex, then there are other guys out there that can satisfy this requirement without the confusion and drama

Most Helpful Guys

  • That could have changed for him over that year. Communication is key! In any relationship, but especially a fwbs. Check and make sure you're both still on the same page with the fwbs. He might feel differently now, and/or, thinks you do as well.

    • He knows I do but every time we seem to be getting close or I try to talk to him about it, he backs off for a couple weeks.

    • You might have to set some boundaries then (for your own sake/feelings) and/or even end this. Speaking from personal experience, you might end up getting hurt? But emotionally, he might be going through a lot? He probably has some baggage from the ex and child, and add to that his parents dying... I don't know him, but he might have a few issues emotionally?

  • So he didn't had sex with you before or he doesn't feel it to be hungry for sex with in his home I think you should make him feel so 🔥 hot about you dress something so sexy for him

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  • Just keep doing what ya doing, if nothing changes for some time, break contact with him

  • Do you think he became too attached?

    • That’s what I’m trying to figure out but when I try to talk to him about it, he will not contact me for a couple weeks.

    • Hmmm... Maybe he is leading you on or just using you to look after his kid? Lol

    • He’s only asked me to once in a year.

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