Girls, what do you think about having an abortion without any medical reason?
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AlienParasite | 434 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Yoda
11 mo
Well, I would do it for example in case of rape, and I don't consider that a medical reason. If other people would have the kid of their abuser or not I don't feel it's my bussiness. What I mean is that think a woman can have an abortion without medical reasons regardless on if other different people would have abortion in those circumstances.
Of course there should be some limits to avoid people to abuse abortion and use it as a contraceptive method. One women choosing an abortion in a certain period of her life due to personal reasons, just once, I can accept it whether I understand her reasons or not. A woman choosing abortion several times... she should consider learn to use contraceptives adequately or tubal ligation.
So you care about these kids in cages? Those in foster care that lose their life to negligence? You can about homeless and abuse children? Children of color?
@Simplismilez A life is a life imagine your mother doing that to you. Golden rule is doing what you would want other's to do for you. And lives are too precious because you can't be raised up from the dead like a zombie.
Sheyhoney | 471 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Explorer
11 mo
It’s not her body it’s the child’s body, absolutely no killing whatsoever. It’s a life and it may be inconvenient to you, but that doesn’t mean “kill it!”. Why is that a person is proclaimed dead as soon as the heart starts beating but a baby isn’t “alive” when their heart starts beating? just because they are “not conscious” does that give you the right to kill it. Just like disabled people left at vegetable state have rights, so do these unborn children. why is it that a single cell on Mars is declared a life form, but the intricately put together cells at conception aren’t? Life is sacrifice in itself and sometimes you have to not be a coward and stand up for what’s right, regardless of religious beliefs.
Well said @Sheyhoney. The truth will definitely hurt some people here. When you have sex you know the possibility of pregnancy is there so take responsibility for your actions🙌
@ITGirl95 Having an abortion is taking responsibility for your actions. If your birth control method has failed and the morning after has failed, the final choice is abortion. Do not punish yourself WITH a child if you do not want to be a parent. Your idea will probably be, then don't have sex. Also absurd. This is all down to the old saw about making a bed and lying in it. We have got to stop this draconian idea of pregnancy being a punishment for sex, therefore, don't have sex and don't get pregnant. My body is mine. It is not owned by an embryo growing in it. And certainly not by a differentiating mass of cells in the first few weeks after impregnation. No want chooses an abortion lightly. 90 percent of women who use abortion were using birth control. Fifty percent of them are married women. This isn't done lightly. It's no happy birth control method. It's unfortunate, but necessary.
i definitely get where you're are coming from but what about those rare cases such as rape like i just wouldn't know what to tell the kid we they ask "who's my dad?" kinda questions... I don't know pls dont hate on me im just asking.
@panther0008 Nope. I was a very married mother until my ex wouldn't stop hitting me. And my son was planned AND wanted and I still love and like him. he's turning out a good egg at nearly 25. An embryo cannot exist without the mother's body. When the day comes that they can and people can adopt "embryos," I suppose it'll be a different situation And there is no guarantee that your baby, given up for adoption will 1. ever BE adopted 2. be adopted into a good family 3. have as good a life as yours or better opportunities. People who are anti abortion do not think of anything past the baby being born. They don't think of the hundreds of thousands of dollars it costs to get an infant through college or trade school so they might find what they like to do and have good opportunities. In fact, they don't even think of how long that child might languish in foster care; flopping from family to family, school to school. Being displaced forever. Fifty percent of children in foster care end up in prison. What does that say about being brought up by a mother and father who want and love you? But having posiive connections: family, friends, education, life experiences is what it's all about. You can guarantee NOTHING for a child that you give up. I chose to have a child when I could afford it, when I had the emotional maturity for it, the foxus and my family welcomed it. It takes a village. If I did NOT have that support, an abortion might have been a logical choice. You cannot judge someone unless you are in their shoes. It is horrible that someone can refer to their mother as someone who should not have "opened her legs." How incredibly judgmental and heartless. I feel sad for you.
Unless it is able to survive on it's own, it is nothing more than a parasite. Since it isn't able to live outside the womb, it isn't fully human. Why have more unwanted kids in the world... I really love the pro life people, protect the unborn, yet are ok with the death penalty or putting homeless, unwanted kids in cages.
Get it sister and all you haters out there just here to kill off more lives how about YOU shut up. You obviously don't know how precious a life is. What if your mother's did that to you hmm? Oh wait! You'd be dead without having the chance to live instead of given to and orphanage in the least where you'll be given a fighting chance! I don't care the reason behind it there's always adoption centers available and the pain won't last forever and you can even take medicine to not feel a thing while doing child birth and after. So either way it's very inconsiderate. #SaveOurChildren
@SuzuBrooke to answer tour question: i’d be 100% ok if my mother aborted me. It’s her body and it’s her choice. And taking some painkillers isn't the fucking solution for the pain during and after childbirth lol wtf you know NOTHING about this subject. It’s either that you have gotten no idea how hard life can be or it’s that you’re just blatantly ignorant. And CELLS, are not “children”. If you care about children so much then fucking go help the ones who are struggling out there for a grain of rice, fucking go do some charity shit and save poorass kids in asia instead of sitting here policing people bodies and worrying and clumps of cells
@gaygod_19 Also, I wasn't even talking to you. I've have been raped before by MY COUSIN and I'm 15 so shut the hell up, and quit acting like you know my life.
Wow, look at the downvotes. See women are all on that feminist bs, telling let women have a voice, let them choose etc. but the moment a woman voicing her opinion and it's something you don't like.. you want to shut her down and tell her to "shut up"? Really?
@BlueScorpio yea well feminism is about people doing whatever they want with their body. If u dont wanna get an abortion then cool but dont force others to do the same thing
@BlueScorpio I was trying to tell her to shut up about thinking she knows my life. Not that she can't have an abortion that's her choice. She is free to her rights and words out there. But she shouldn't act like she knows people's lives. And cells "form" into babies so basically they are pre existent lives. And where the f did feminism come from. The only feminists are the ones that bring it up in completely unrelated topics thinking it's that when it could really be something else that have no proof of it being feminism. This is not about feminism this is about abortion completely different story. It has no place in this discussion. No matter how many wrongs you put to a right it will never be right.
So if your in coma for 10 years... and they are sure you won't ever wake up again... they can't pull the plug? Because it is murder? Even when your family says they would like the doctor to pull the plug...
And also. The animals on your plate also wanted to live. But we kill them as well. It's technically also the pigs body. And the cows body, but we also rape the cows, steal their milk and kill them and their baby if we don't want them.
I have heard loads of stories about some peoe working with staff from an abortion clinics.
There are loads of reasons why mist people come for a abortion.
I'll list some why some get an abortion.
1. They come from a very religious background (mainly Muslims 1st generation immigrants (50% of kids are non European that go to school rn 🙂)) they don't believe in contraception or pregnancy prevention is against their religion and because of their partner and family they can't use contraception and they don't want children or already have 4/5 kids. They might feel stuck and cant5 get out the relationship because of religious reasons, or they love the person and will do anything in secret to prevent getting pregnant.
2. They don't jave the right financial or social situation to have kids. The kid would suffer under that
3. underage/young people find themselves too young and still want to enjoy life
4. Rape or a toxic relationship
5. Birth control failure
Personally I'm not against abortion. If a child isn't wanted they'll suffer growing up. I wish my mother choose an abortion, i was unwanted and she was too young. My whole childhood was filled with neglect and no support. I was my own parent.
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BlueScorpio | 66 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Xper 5
4 mo
Irresponsibility for ones actions. If you can lay down and have sex, then you can raise a child. There's no excuses anymore for getting carelessly pregnant. Everyone knows the risks of pregnancy when having sex, if you're not emotionally ready or financially secure to raise kid then you definitely shouldn't be having sex. Also anytime I mention this, the topic of rape automatically gets thrown up as a counter argument when it's really just an excuse. Most abortions happening today are not rape victims, they are women/men who are getting carelessly pregnant and just don't want the responsibility of raising a child.
What about rape? Technically its not medically necessary to abort a rapists fetus but no one should have to have a kid that was forced into them.
Abortion is an issue sharply divided by worldview. If you believe in souls and religious nonsense, abortion is murdering a person. If you're more scientifically and objectively minded, you're more likely to see abortion as disposing of something that had the potential to become a person.
Don't reply to me if you're going to conflate late term, partial birth abortions with what normal abortion is.
I would abort. I'm gay so it would have to have been a hell of an accident in my case lol, but either way at that age it is very dangerous to be pregnant in your 40s. Even if I wanted to have a child the high risk of deadly complications or birth defects would make it very unwise to go through with it.
meetkitty123 | 840 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Yoda
5 mo
I wouldn't do it for any reason whatsoever. When it comes to abortion I am not an individual who would judge a woman per se. If she was a close friend I I would try to advise herHowever mepersonally have an abortion? No not me not for anything not even rape or down syndrome. I know down syndrome is one of my biggest fears I don't believe I could ever manage such a child however I could never take its life either. As far as the rape child pregnancy no I would never terminate due to that either and this is something I have experience with. I'm glad I kept my baby she's beautiful she's gorgeous She's 12 now she's one of the love of my life. Keeping her was one of the best decisions I've ever made in my life.
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Smoke-n-Growls | 337 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Yoda
5 mo
Fine.
Having a child is a massive responsibility. There's more than just finances - it's time, energy, commitment, mental and emotional strain.
For some, it's worth it. For others, it isn't.
Your edit says your mom had an abortion at 46. It's vital to note that women above 35 have a sharply increasing risk for problematic births.
Birth defects, developmental issues, health problems for the child - all of these increase in risk sharply above 35.
I'd say your mom did the right thing for the unborn child. In all likelihood, it would have been born with many issues. And even if not, there are social issues that would impact the kid growing up with parents much older than it - losing them early on in its life, having to care for aging parents from an earlier time, etc.
I'd say she made a logical, sensible decision. Both for her and for the unborn child.
I'd say it's a woman's (and maybe also her partners if she talked it out with them) choice to do so. I can understand medical issues not being the only reason why a woman would want to get an abortion. Financial issues, not being ready, perhaps she was abused and didn't want to get pregnant etc
I don't think I'd do it but it honestly depends. Like if I got pregnant from rape, I'd most likely not be willing to have the child.
It's a very hard thing to go through I can imagine. So it's honestly not something people just get. I understand the point of view that fetuses also deserve to live and grow up. But at the same time you never know what a person's situation is like.
There are numerous good reasons why someone should have an abortion that aren't related to medical necessity. There's already far too many children looking to be adopted, why add to that? Sure, people would adopt a baby in an instant, but that just takes up a potential home that could go to an already developed child in need. Rather than potentially subject a child to an uncertain life of poverty, cruelty, and other terrible things, it's better to get an abortion (especially if the pregnancy was from a rape).
It honestly depends on the situation. I’m only 21 and not ready mentally or financially to have a baby. If I were to accidentally get pregnant, there’s a chance I would abort it. Just because there are still other things I need to do in life before I am ready to have a baby. And I don’t want to give said baby up for adoption bc most of the time they end up in Foster care and horrible situations. I know there are some people who will not agree with me. But at the end of the day it’s my body. If I were stable, I would not abort it. I plan on having kids later on, just not at this moment if it happened accidentally.
If I got pregnant, I would get an abortion. There is nothing wrong with needing one whether it be for medical or personal reasons. Bodily autonomy is a human right and nobody has a right to use your body against your will, even a fetus. If we can’t take organs from people who are already dead without their consent, organs that would save or improve multiple lives, why can’t women have that same level of autonomy? I do not want children. I especially do not want to experience pregnancy. I will express my human right to get an abortion if I ever need to. If abortion because illegal, I will find other ways if I need to. I’m sure people will read this and disagree with me and get offended. This is my opinion and my life and I will 100% do what I need to do.
Yup, I feel the same sentiment. In fact, if I got pregnant and couldn't get an abortion, I'd probably just kill myself so I wouldn't have to deal with the guilt of giving up a baby to adoption nor would I have to give birth (which is one of my absolute worst fears).
While I hope you never have to go through that I do understand your feelings. I’d try and trigger a miscarriage if I couldn’t get an abortion and hope it worked and didn’t harm me
Except for one thing, if a man tied you up and forced you to give birth whether you consented or not, you'd be having his baby. You forgot about that possibility.
People also don't have the right to misuse sex just so they can abort babies. Part of being sexually mature is being responsible for any offspring that may result due to a pregnancy. How else can a person get pregnant other than sex unless you get pregnant from a sperm bank?
Kiera_Japanese What possibility am I forgetting? Are you condoning holding someone hostage like that? Easy solution for me: I would NEVER have sex with a man who did not support my right to choose what to do with MY BODY. I have an IUD so the possibility of me getting pregnant is low but it could still happen and I WILL express my human right to an abortion if need be. If you believe that sex is ONLY for reproduction and you only have sex to reproduce, that is your right as it is your own body and life. But I like sex. I love my boyfriend and I love having sex with him. Sex is not just for reproduction and people have a right to have sex even if they do not want children. I never want children, so what, I should never ever in my life have sex? That isn’t realistic for anyone who isn’t a monk. Mind your business and your body and I will mind mine.
Kier_Japanese Nobody can force me unless they literally hold me hostage and that will result in him going to jail and the baby would go into the foster care system as I would definitely not want it after going through that kind of trauma. It is my body that the fetus is growing inside. And if he wants to fake being pro-choice, that will only hurt him in the end as I would still have an abortion regardless of what the man says so it would be in his best interest to sleep with someone who has similar beliefs. I will do what I need to do for myself and it doesn’t matter what anyone else says. You or anyone else cannot change my mind. Maybe I will want children in 5 years or so. That doesn’t change the fact that I do not want them now and would still get an abortion. Also, I will NEVER be pro-life because I will never believe it is okay to take away a persons bodily autonomy. I have never held pro-life beliefs and never will. You can argue with me if you want but you won’t change my mind so you’re wasting your time 🤷🏼♀️
You must be a very sick person for your mind to even go there. Why is that the part you are most focusing on in my comment? You act like you would want something like that to happen.
You can't comdemn incest if you support abortion. The incest couple could say that it is their body too and shouldn't be forced to live by modern sex rules. It is also their choice who to have sex with if they consent as you say you have the choice what to do with their body. They have the same choice to do what they want with theirs.
Say you had a son against your will. Would you force circumcision on him. Hmmm hmmm I bet you would now. Wouldn't you?
You don't know the future so you don't know what you will think in the future. You may not be in your right mind either. I can't stand when people claim to know what the future holds. You can say you don't think you will but you can't be 100% sure.
Excuse me? IF I ever end up with a child and they are a boy, I would NEVER force circumcision on him. That is a very bold accusation to make about a stranger on the internet. Also, yes, I am selfish. I am focused on myself and where my career and life are headed and I don’t want a pregnancy to get in the way. That is my business and is a good example as to why I should not have a child at this time. Also, while I don’t agree with incest, as long as they are grown up and consenting adults, it’s really none of my goddam business what they do. I would hope they at least would not have children so as not to pass on any genetic deformities.
No. I'm focused on your arrogance to think people can't have things done against their will. Like your baby's right to live. I bet evwn if your baby somehow made it to 3rd trimester, you'd abort the baby too if you had the means too. Even if 1 day from birth.
True. We agree. You don't condemn incest even if you disagree as it is their body. It would defeat your pro choice position if you condemned it for that reason.
You are ridiculous. I am not one, but even if I was, literally who cares? And you are right I don’t know the future, neither do you. Maybe you will be pro-choice in the future? What does it matter anyway? And yes of course there is always a possibility that a crazy person can make you do something you don’t want to do. That is true for any any type of situation but I don’t see why that is relevant here?
I have no desire to ever be pregnant so no I don’t really see myself hypothetically suing a man for child support over a child I didn’t want.
I would not do a late term abortion unless there was a medical reason it needed to be done. I would get an abortion long before that point came along.
I don’t understand why you are so hell bent on knowing what I would do in every hypothetical scenario you can come up with? I don’t know what I would feel or do in every single possible hypothetical situation your brain can come up with. What I do know is that at this time, I do not want children and I am actively working to prevent pregnancy and would look into every possible avenue to ending my pregnancy if I happened to become pregnant which is unlikely because I am currently on one of the most accurate forms of birth control.
MissRomantic | 76 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Xper 5
5 mo
I just wanted to say, it’s easier to not feel bad about an abortion when you can’t see the growing life inside you. Think about it. If you saw a baby at your doorstep, would you want to leave him/her to let her die? In reality, abortion involves the limb by limb removal of a baby from a woman’s uterus. So I’d say it’s equivalent to murder. A life, whether unborn or developing is still a life. All of us started as a zygote. Can we say that because we’re already born, that our lives matter more than someone who is still a zygote? That wouldn’t be fair would it? We all started as zygotes. We know that that a zygote contains the ingredients that we do that make us people, but they are not fully grown. That is the only thing that distinguishes is born people from them. So I believe, personal convenience is not a good reason to stop a life from being born.
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whitlee34 | 105 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Xper 5
10 mo
No way. I have been in those shoes and that's not even an option. No? Wtf came up with this? Why didn't we hang that my? Adoption is an amazing experience. I promise it was worth it bc now I some really special people that keep in touch every so often. They couldn't have kids bc cancer at a young age. If you would see the before and after she don't even look the same. I was able to do the best thing for my child even if I have love him from a distance. I wish instead of abortions they would set them up with adoption. A lot of people can't have kids
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SexyPetite | 93 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Xper 5
11 mo
I wouldn't have one even if it was determined that it would mean my own life if there were the slightest chance they could save my baby. I know the farther of my child would do a great job pf raising our baby. HOWEVER EVERY FEMALE WHO BECOMES PREGNANT. SHOULD HAVE THE OPTION TO DO WHATEVER SHE PLEASES WITH HER BODY. IF YOU DONT BELIEVE IN ABORTION. THEN DONT BECOME A DOCTOR WHO PREFORMS ABORTION. YOU CAN ALSO (FOR THOSE WHO CHOOSE TO ADVOCATE FOR PRO LIFE) YOU CAN KEEP YOUR OPINIONS TO YOURSELF
I don't agree with it, but everyone is entitled to do what it's best for them.
I personally think, if you can open yourself to do it then you are to think of questions like what if? And accept your consequences and have the baby, health or not. If it was done from a rape or someone forced themselves on to you and concieve a child, then its very understandable!! to terminate the pregnancy... no judgment there at all its a personal choice.
Pregnancy at the age of 46 is considered a more at risk or higher risk pregnancy. There is more chance of complications at that age. Also there is a greater chance of menopause kicking in after baby born. Whatev I or any other person personally feels about abortion, it is the person's individual choice. Without knowing the full reasons someone came to that decision, it is noone else's place to judge.
Yes they probably were. People are sometimes misinformed. Think the older women get, the less sex drive they have or once they hit menopause their sex drive goes away. And that isn't always the case. It's usually the opposite. Your sex driver goes into overdrive. Well, mine did. Your mom's probably did too
No. The way people view dating and relationships. The casual attitude about casual sex and cheating. And the way social media is interfering, ruining relationships, no thanks
In my own personal opinion, I would never abort a baby. My reasoning being, that baby's whole future is determined by one decision.. imagine all the things he/she could do... what impacts he/she could have. I know that rape is horrible, but why must the baby be persecuted? If it is too much for the mother to handle, thousands of parents out there are unable to have kids and would love to give a child a wonderful life.
I just graduated three days ago, in my class there is a girl with Down Syndrome, a man with Cerebral Palsy and a girl with Osteogenesis Imperfecta. All three living amazing lives. The man with Cerebral palsy making such wonderful friends, in fact, he's popular, despite having it so severe. You can see the joy in his eyes. This is the same for the other two girls. Yes life is harder, but they still deserve a chance in experiencing life like these three people in my school have.
46 is old to be having a baby. She would be a high risk pregnancy immediately and there would most likely be complications. Overall though; her body her choice. Have you been in this situation before? I'm sure it wasn't an easy decision. I personally don't think I could have one - however if I knew I wouldn't be able to care for it properly I would begin to weigh the options I have.
I'm all for women's rights, but I do not believe in abortion as a form of birth control. Like "oh shit no condoms? Oh well I'll just get an abortion if I get pregnant" no. U made the choice to have sex, unprotected, so u can pay the consequences. If u dont want a kid, give it up for adoption. Now certain circumstances are different such as rape, incest, Financial hardships, disabilities or danger for the mother while carrying. Abortion should only ever be used as a last resort. That's just my opinion
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sheikalana | 1.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Guru
5 mo
I think any grown women should be able to do whatever they want with their bodies. I personally wouldn't do an abortion because I think I'm not capable of going through it physically and emotionally however, I don't know what I would do if I got pregnant at 46 years old.
I mean as long as you have a very good reason thats not medical for doing it then do it, just dont abuse it, cuz when its time and you actually do want a baby it might be a lower chance of concieving due to the amount of damage in abortion to your uterus and ovaries.
Although you may not be physically, mentally or emotionally even financially for a kid their is always a way that will make things better and supportive for you rather than risking a medical disease/condition or even death. If it was me regardless of any situation i would've kept it cuz its a blessing no matter what
Keep it because that's a miracle, there is like a 1 in a mill chance that you can get pregnant at that age with no complications cuz at that age your menstrual cycle starts to fade and u get menopause
Apple1996 | 5.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Master
11 mo
I almost aborted my son, I was in a pretty bad spot but decided to keep him. I mean I made it work out good for him but had to give up my entire life to raise him. I could see why not everyone would want to do that so I totally support abortions even if they are for no reason
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Anonymous
8 mo
I had an abortion once. I was living alone, kicked out of my house in my uncle's old flat at 19. A tinder hookup got me pregnant when we were drunk.. his excuse for the zero protection was 'raw is better' and 'condoms are uncomfortable'. Obviously he ghosted me on tinder for getting pregnant. So I had no money, no space, i worked constantly, no parents and no dad. The guy backed out so why couldn't I? Because if he left the kid he was a shitty person, if i left the kid, I was a murderer. I had to make that gut-wretching decision. It was the hatrdest thing I've ever had to do
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Anonymous
3 mo
I think it is up to the mother to decide. I see enough girls one the news who just throw their baby of the balcony if they dont want it, in that case I think it is just better to get it removed earlier. Don't they say mother knows best? If you are pro life you decide for yourself that you want to keep the baby or give it away or whatever. If you are pro choice make the choice for yourself, think about it, talk about it and decide.
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Opinion Owner
3 mo
And another thing is that condoms sometimes fail to do the job. Sometimes they break and not all of us are lucky because they also take the bc pill. But not everyone is that lucky..
Nothing wrong with it. Whatever the reason, you should definitely not have a baby if you’re not ready/don’t want to. Of course, it’s best to use contraception to avoid this problem in the first place. However, we all make mistakes in our lives and there is absolutely no reason why you should spend the next two decades living a life you didn’t want.
Yes I would. I’ve never had an abortion and I use protection but protection isn’t 100% effective. If it were to happen and I wasn’t in a loving relationship/well off financially/morally prepared to be a mother I would do it. Having an unwanted and unplanned child when you’re not ready to provide financially or emotionally is a stupid decision.
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Felicityoyo | 64 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Xper 5
8 mo
Abortion is hard. Mentally, emotionally and physically. It's a hard thing to ho through. Its painful. But in the end it should always be your choice and there are plenty of good reasons to end a pregnancy that are not medical. From financial reasons to simply not being ready or not wanting to be pregnant. Any reason is a good one and it's no one elses business.
It used to be illegal. Look at what was happening back then that got Rowe v wade passed in the Supreme court. Rape and poverty were rampant, marital rape was not even recognized as a punishable crime back then and women were treated like second class citizens. The 40s and 50s were not like the Brady bunch and happy days, some women were trying to sell their children to anyone that could feed them just so they didn't have to watch them starve to death in their arms. Women would get raped and knowing they couldn't afford the cost of delivery would get back alley abortions. Legal, safe abortion has saved lives and prevented untold misery. If we go back to making it illegal and shaming sex and contraceptives, poverty will go up.
"Empowerment of women and not making them the beasts of child bearing is the only cure for poverty. It's worked everywhere its been tried.' --Hitchens
It depends on the situation. If it's a rape product or an asshole's product and i am alone, i surely wouldn't go through it. Even if i am alone, if it's a guy i loved, ya i will. But still that wouldn't be fair to the baby to grow up without a father
Well I would never go without birth control. If it happens, it depends on the person again. I would only have sex with a guy I love and has a future with. So if that occurs and if the guy will stay by me and will do it together, I won't abort
Well a pregnancy after the age of 40, comes with risks like chromosomal disorders. But still I am not sure. It would depend on if I am healthy to go through it, if i have lot of kids and one more would seem troublesome, etc.
Well obviously she should have been careful. But if it happened, I am sure she was just looking what's good for her and those around her. Maybe she didn't have the energy to go through it
I think that having abortions, especially if there is no medical reasoning, should be illegal. I think that it is sad when women kill the very thing that they have created. I think that it is irresponsible. I think like abortion is never a solution. A baby is a blessing and it starts with conception, abortion is murder.
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EyeAmNiceGirl | 173 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
Xper 6
10 mo
Killing a baby is not a good answer to a "problem," be it a real problem that you didn't create (e. g., rape) or an imagined problem (e, g., thinking you can't afford the cost) or you just think a baby will be an inconvenience to your narcissist existence.
I think it depends on the situation. I wouldn't say it's the best thing to do, but for instance if the woman was raped, then I think it's understandable. It's really complicated, because there's the woman's life and there's the baby's life. Both matter and it's not an easy decision to make.
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Anonymous8 moI had an abortion once. I was living alone, kicked out of my house in my uncle's old flat at 19. A tinder hookup got me pregnant when we were drunk.. his excuse for the zero protection was 'raw is better' and 'condoms are uncomfortable'. Obviously he ghosted me on tinder for getting pregnant. So I had no money, no space, i worked constantly, no parents and no dad. The guy backed out so why couldn't I? Because if he left the kid he was a shitty person, if i left the kid, I was a murderer. I had to make that gut-wretching decision. It was the hatrdest thing I've ever had to do2|00|0
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