Is It Okay To Wake Your Partner Up With Oral Sex?

Question

How Would You Feel If This Happened To You?

nightdrot · Accepted Answer

Been there, done that!! Love it and I cannot imagine why a guy would not want it.

My girlfriend and I have lived together for 12 years. She wears pajamas and I sleep in the nude - unless it is really cold outside - and so every now and then I get rewarded for being a man by waking up to feel her lips around my manhood or her tongue drenching my balls. Best start to my day!!!

As I mentioned, my girlfriend sleeps in pajamas but every now and then - especially if we had a, ahem, good night the night before - she might sleep naked. A few times I have returned her morning favor by spreading her legs and putting my tongue on that warm wet hot pussy.

The logistics are a little harder, but she has never complained.

Frankly, every man and woman is a bit different and you have to know your partner and you have to take account of the context. (If your partner has been sick, for example, maybe it is not a good idea.) However, in general, I can't see why anyone would object to that feeling.

From personal experience, it is HOT!! It is one of the fastest ways that my girlfriend can reduce this alpha male to a simpering helpless sex slave.

looneymalooney · Accepted Answer

given (young) men have a visible hard on certain mornings, you can definitely get a clear hint about when you can do that.
brain is already in an aroused state, so you can pick it from there and the transition to sex and your partner being involved and naturally jumping into it, will be a lot smoother.

no hard on, then you might be waking someone up from their deep and much needed sleep after a hard day's work. Men, against popular belief, are not ALWAYS horny. we have our moments of rather doing something else. At least I know that's how I am.

DeeDeeDeVour · Accepted Answer

The only time I can easily take his entire penis in my mouth is when it's flaccid because he's still asleep or sleepy. I can feel it "grow" inside my mouth and I back off when his dick is already too fat for my jaws to handle. Then, I just watch in fascination as his package grows to fully erect mode.

Meanwhile, I absolutely love an eye-opening cunnilingus in the mornings.

CreativeMumble · Accepted Answer

I think it's important to talk about it beforehand if the other person is okay with it, to begin with.

I've tried to be woken up with oral and I wasn't really happy with it because I didn't have a choice whether I wanted sex or not... And I wasn't done sleeping.

horsenrhinounicorn · Answer

Ask your partner if he would like to be woken up that way. It’s only ok if you have his consent.

Ranty_Saurus_Rex · Answer

Only if they have mentioned prior that they would enjoy it or if they were even feeling horny lately. Consent is very important to me. I don’t consider it a sexy surprise. For me or doing it to my partner. Honestly I would get pissed off that my sleep as well as coochie are being violated.

coolbreeze · Answer

It would feel good unless the person is having a bad dream and wakes up scared nervous. lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂

MissKittyz · Answer

Definetely okay with me. I'd loooove to wake up that way 😍😍😍 just like I'd love waking up my partner that way too. Would be a very sexy surprise both ways.

baconninjadc · Answer

Yes please and thank you. If I'm the one doing the waking but I think I better know my partner pretty well and I better know that that's something she's appreciative of.

BreakingSound · Answer

I’m fine with it, but I think it’s a fantastic idea to talk to your partner about how they feel about it before you try to do it.

wingattebaby16 · Answer

yessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss. I do it often... he usually wakes up just as the Moment arrives

Dobbiboy · Answer

I prefer to do the waking, though being woken up that way is very nice too! That said both parties need to be happy with the idea. Unless you like fighting...

Red_Arrow · Answer

Ask your partner in advance. Different people think differently!

Purpleronnie · Answer

I can’t see many guys objecting to this , myself included

lightbulb27 · Answer

I really appreciate sleep, always have. that doesn't sound good. unless timing was perfect...

PinkMichae · Answer

It's nice and I know he enjoys it.

eddrico · Answer

If i'm completely speep It woud scare the shit out of me, if i'm half asleep and aware that girl is with me, it Would be realy nice

Apple1996 · Answer

Yesss! I love waking him up by sucking his dick!😝😝

SpeedVoid · Answer

This is something I have wanted to experience. Floated the idea by the wife a few days ago. Now I'll play the waiting game 😛

Bratsondanielle · Answer

Most guys just love to be woken up this way I think

BuckWild · Answer

That would be balls awesome. Literally. Oh my God I would so love to have this problem. Are you asking because your partner is getting sick of you waking them up in the morning with your tongue? If so, then your partner may have some kind of mental illness. I would re-evaluate the relationship.