I left boyfriend on read during sexting? lol?

Question

I’ve done it twice now and everytime he has ignored me the next day when I text him. So this question goes to all men: why the fuck are you so sensitive?

Updates:

11 mo

My post is attracting all the virgins and singles. Can’t offer advice if you’ve never had a relationship or are not in once. ✌🏻

Answer 1

TonyBologna25

Yoda

I don’t think the problem is sensitive men, but rather you being rude. If someone making efforts to get angles and take sexual pictures for you, and in response you leave them on read, that’s rude. They’re exposing their most intimate parts with you and you don’t even have the decency to say you have to go? Kind of just common decency.

Your attitude is fucking annoying and masculine. You don’t like the responses you’re getting, so you automatically presume them they are virgins or losers. The problem is clearly everyone else in the world, and not you... right? Are you actually 30?

Answer 2

R4vedave | 1.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Mostly because you're being an ass. If you're uninterested in the conversation, then say so. Just leaving the conversation like that is incredibly childish and rude, especially if you're in a relationship. Definitely not surprised he's cold the next day after something like that.

Asker

11 mo
You are the only ass

Answer 3

Asker

You are the only ass

Answer 4

Anonymous

this isn’t about being sensitive this is about you being damn rude to them I too would ignore you as well and if it kept happening it would be bye bye out my life never to come back and don’t let the door hit you on the way out

Asker

11 mo
You do sound like a doormat hun

Answer 5

Asker

You do sound like a doormat hun

Answer 6

Ms_Facesitter | 195 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

Probably that you bring him to the edge and then... deny it.

Asker

11 mo
But is it reason enough to give someone the silent treatment over.. probably not
Ms_Facesitter

11 mo
Of course it isn't, it's childish.
Asker

11 mo
It probably means I should break up with him then
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Twalli

11 mo
That would be good fo him, he deserves someone who cares more about him.
Asker

11 mo
Are you saying I don’t care about him because I didn’t soothe his ego? lol you must be one of them sensitives too
Ms_Facesitter

11 mo
break up over such a little thing is stupid. Just talk about the problem. And you probably shouldn't agree to sexting if you're not going to follow through, and he shouldn't avoid contact if he's pissed off
Twalli

11 mo
Teasing up to the cusp is annoying
Ms_Facesitter

11 mo
@Twalli yeah it's all very weird
Asker

11 mo
Still didn’t answer my original question
Ms_Facesitter

11 mo
I have

Answer 7

Asker

But is it reason enough to give someone the silent treatment over.. probably not

Answer 8

Ms_Facesitter

Of course it isn't, it's childish.

Answer 9

Asker

It probably means I should break up with him then

Answer 10

Twalli

That would be good fo him, he deserves someone who cares more about him.

Answer 11

Asker

Are you saying I don’t care about him because I didn’t soothe his ego? lol you must be one of them sensitives too

Answer 12

Ms_Facesitter

break up over such a little thing is stupid. Just talk about the problem. And you probably shouldn't agree to sexting if you're not going to follow through, and he shouldn't avoid contact if he's pissed off

Answer 13

Twalli

Teasing up to the cusp is annoying

Answer 14

Ms_Facesitter

@Twalli yeah it's all very weird

Answer 15

Asker

Still didn’t answer my original question

Answer 16

Ms_Facesitter

I have

Answer 17

Thatsamazing

Guru

So... okay let me understand if I grasp the level of stupid present in this post-- you decide to be a cunt, for no discernible reason, then get annoyed when he does the same thing to you the following day? and are somehow, on top of that, confused about something?

This question goes to you: why the fuck are you so dumb?

Asker

11 mo
Who said I was annoyed? I’m laughing at how sensitive males get about their genitals
Thatsamazing

11 mo
Lol okay sis
cetm_

11 mo
So it's for the asker it wasn't an ironic question looking for hate comments? Definitely a toxic person that likes to see world burning but not getting burn lol

Answer 18

Asker

Who said I was annoyed? I’m laughing at how sensitive males get about their genitals

Answer 19

Thatsamazing

Lol okay sis

Answer 20

cetm_

So it's for the asker it wasn't an ironic question looking for hate comments? Definitely a toxic person that likes to see world burning but not getting burn lol

Answer 21

Juxtapose | 2.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

You blatantly disrespected him by leaving without an explanation during an intimate act.

Do not have any empathy for him? Do you not realize that people don't like being disrespected?

"But he ignored me the next day."

Yeah, because he thinks you don't give a shit about him. Instead of showing you care about him by contemplating his perspective, you're making fun of him.

Now instead of personally attacking me or insulting men as a whole, why don't you come at me with a argument in good faith?

Answer 22

TienShenhan | 500 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

It's hard to believe that a woman in her 30's is asking why her immaturity is earning her the cold shoulder. What are you going to do in less than a decade when you can no longer attract people to be a cunt to? Sext with your old photos and hope they don't ghost you? Then you'll be on here going "why are men so mean?"

Answer 23

Jean-Marie_Céline | 1.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

It's not rude, I do the same with my fiancée and did the same with my ex girlfriends.
I don't like sexting so I either left them on read or purposefully ruined it in a funny way.
.

Asker

11 mo
Yes! And do they have a sook about it the way my boyfriend is?
Jean-Marie_Céline

11 mo
My ex got offended and didn't talk to me for a day or so, like your boyfriend.
My fiancée took it in stride at first but she later took her revenge on me.
Asker

11 mo
Revenge?
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Jean-Marie_Céline

11 mo
Yes. Since apparently she was really close to climax during our sexting and I ruined it all by sending her a completely inappropriate image, so she saw fit to ruin my own climax during real sex.

Answer 24

Asker

Yes! And do they have a sook about it the way my boyfriend is?

Answer 25

Jean-Marie_Céline

My ex got offended and didn't talk to me for a day or so, like your boyfriend.
My fiancée took it in stride at first but she later took her revenge on me.

Answer 26

Asker

Revenge?

Answer 27

Jean-Marie_Céline

Yes. Since apparently she was really close to climax during our sexting and I ruined it all by sending her a completely inappropriate image, so she saw fit to ruin my own climax during real sex.

Answer 28

SomeGuyCalledTom | 1.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

"All men" do not reflect the actions of one guy.

Also why is it "sensitive" when he does it back to you, but when you do it to him it's fine? Goddamn..

Answer 29

Truthatanycost | 3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

You are the one asking the question about why he's ignoring you, therefore you must be the sensitive one. Why are you so sensitive about him ignoring you the next day?

Asker

11 mo
No I’m trying to understand. It’s the fact that it’s related to sex that makes me curious.
Truthatanycost

11 mo
It's likely he'd have reacted the same way, if you left him on read in a normal (non sexual) conversation.
Asker

11 mo
No he hasn’t and that’s why I’m asking the question
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Truthatanycost

11 mo
Then it's the ego. Most men have been brainwashed into measuring their value through sex, and women have also been brainwashed in the same way.

Answer 30

Asker

No I’m trying to understand. It’s the fact that it’s related to sex that makes me curious.

Answer 31

Truthatanycost

It's likely he'd have reacted the same way, if you left him on read in a normal (non sexual) conversation.

Answer 32

Asker

No he hasn’t and that’s why I’m asking the question

Answer 33

Truthatanycost

Then it's the ego. Most men have been brainwashed into measuring their value through sex, and women have also been brainwashed in the same way.

Answer 34

MannMitAntworten | 2.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Seems like an odd point to leave him on read... at any rate, my girlfriend and I do not sext. Perhaps occasional innuendo but we prefer to engage in the act then text about it.

Answer 35

myd_nudie | 51 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 3

When you need to go somewhere and when you starts an engine of a vehicle, it's need to be driven not needed to be pushed!!!

You better understand feelings from both side.

Answer 36

YHL6965 | 2.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I mean you disrespected the guy, ignored him and did not even bother to tell him you were going. You disrespected him, don't expect him to not take it badly. I would expect more maturity for your age to be honest.

Answer 37

AngovisNL | 58 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 3

This honestly has nothing to do with being a man. About 99% of the world dislikes being left on read

Asker

11 mo
We had sexted for a good 15 minutes and I was getting bored
AngovisNL

11 mo
Then you just tell him that you're done, or tired, or got something to do. It ain't that hard lol
Asker

11 mo
I did the first time and he kept texting me sexy messages

Answer 38

Asker

We had sexted for a good 15 minutes and I was getting bored

Answer 39

AngovisNL

Then you just tell him that you're done, or tired, or got something to do. It ain't that hard lol

Answer 40

Asker

I did the first time and he kept texting me sexy messages

Answer 41

MackToday | 1.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

If you believe men are sensitive then you should surly adapt to that belief and approach them with that in mind.

Asker

11 mo
I know they are sensitive because I’m witnessing it first hand.
MackToday

11 mo
Then you know how to act around them best to text differently so you have more success.
Asker

11 mo
I don’t believe in tip toeing around
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MackToday

11 mo
Hmm so you feel you can defy nature and the universe it's self I see. Should be an interesting experience for you.
Asker

11 mo
Defy nature? Huh?
MackToday

11 mo
You said that men are sensitive.
Asker

11 mo
You don’t make sense but surr
Asker

11 mo
Sure*
MackToday

11 mo
Of course it makes sense. If men are sensitive that's how they are, nature made them that way and if you do not approach them with that in mind you will have problems.
Asker

11 mo
So you’re confirming that they are sensitive creature?
MackToday

11 mo
I am confirming that you think so.

Answer 42

Asker

I know they are sensitive because I’m witnessing it first hand.

Answer 43

MackToday

Then you know how to act around them best to text differently so you have more success.

Answer 44

Asker

I don’t believe in tip toeing around

Answer 45

MackToday

Hmm so you feel you can defy nature and the universe it's self I see. Should be an interesting experience for you.

Answer 46

Asker

Defy nature? Huh?

Answer 47

MackToday

You said that men are sensitive.

Answer 48

Asker

You don’t make sense but surr

Answer 49

Asker

Sure*

Answer 50

MackToday

Of course it makes sense. If men are sensitive that's how they are, nature made them that way and if you do not approach them with that in mind you will have problems.

Answer 51

Asker

So you’re confirming that they are sensitive creature?

Answer 52

MackToday

I am confirming that you think so.

Answer 53

Hyper2

Xper 5

If he ever left you on read , you'll act the same way so calm down.

Asker

11 mo
You’d be glad to know he hasn’t and wouldn’t because I’m not needy like him
Hyper2

11 mo
"Sure"

Nice trolling by the way
Asker

11 mo
I’m dead serious.
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Hyper2

11 mo
If you are serious, you look so bad in this situation. Lol
Asker

11 mo
And you think I care about how I look to you internet stranger?
Hyper2

11 mo
You don't have to care what I think. But it doesn't change the fact that you're being demeaning to your partner and think it's cool. Lol
Asker

11 mo
I’m not being demeaning is what I’m trying to tell you. I’m calling out the sensitive ego of the male species.
Hyper2

11 mo
You also called him needy.

Fyi being upset because someone left you on read , isn't a gender specific issue. 99% of all humans would be upset.
Asker

11 mo
I’m calling him all the adjectives that he is.
I also think he’s being dramatic because it happened during sexting, making him sensitive.
Hyper2

11 mo
So you wanted advice? Learn to communicate you obviously lack in that department.
Asker

11 mo
And I’m sure you lack in a lot of departments

Answer 54

Asker

You’d be glad to know he hasn’t and wouldn’t because I’m not needy like him

Answer 55

Hyper2

"Sure"

Nice trolling by the way

Answer 56

Asker

I’m dead serious.

Answer 57

Hyper2

If you are serious, you look so bad in this situation. Lol

Answer 58

Asker

And you think I care about how I look to you internet stranger?

Answer 59

Hyper2

You don't have to care what I think. But it doesn't change the fact that you're being demeaning to your partner and think it's cool. Lol

Answer 60

Asker

I’m not being demeaning is what I’m trying to tell you. I’m calling out the sensitive ego of the male species.

Answer 61

Hyper2

You also called him needy.

Fyi being upset because someone left you on read , isn't a gender specific issue. 99% of all humans would be upset.

Answer 62

Asker

I’m calling him all the adjectives that he is.
I also think he’s being dramatic because it happened during sexting, making him sensitive.

Answer 63

Hyper2

So you wanted advice? Learn to communicate you obviously lack in that department.

Answer 64

Asker

And I’m sure you lack in a lot of departments

Answer 65

Anonymous

I've had women vanish a few times mid sexting. A couple got interrupted, which happens in real life, and the rest of times she came hard and basically knocked herself out.

Answer 66

boggboss | 5.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Lol he is sensitive because your being a dick head I don't get it

Asker

11 mo
I hurt his ego
boggboss

11 mo
Probebly sure

Answer 67

Asker

I hurt his ego

Answer 68

boggboss

Probebly sure

Answer 69

es20490446e | 5.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Not all men, but the men that would date such a beach.

When the girl does that I delete her number right away without reply.

Answer 70

DrippingHoney

Yoda

I think it's more about you getting him all hot and leaving him hanging rather than him being sensitive.

Asker

11 mo
That’s what it is I think

Answer 71

Asker

That’s what it is I think

Answer 72

Secret6620 | 8.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Girlllllllllllll you spreading that honey and not letting them lick the jar. I can understand the frustration but I understand where you're coming from. Lol Savage 😉👏✌️

Answer 73

arun934 | 796 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

I'm not sensitive, try sexting with me. I promise you'll cum without masturbating.

Asker

11 mo
Not sure my sensitive boyfriend would like that very much
arun934

11 mo
I will tell you, how to overcome. But can't say here. I think your know my ID.

Answer 74

Asker

Not sure my sensitive boyfriend would like that very much

Answer 75

arun934

I will tell you, how to overcome. But can't say here. I think your know my ID.

Answer 76

coolhandroo | 321 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

Its kinda like answering the phone during sex. If you're not into me enough to stay awake or such a then I can jerk off without you

Answer 77

Twalli | 12.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

If you don't respond all the time, why do you expect him to?

Answer 78

Yads_Is_Back

Guru

LMAO

They are only sensitive when it involves their second head, and in this case, it does 😂

teaguru90

11 mo
Im not sensitive like that haha
Asker

11 mo
@teaguru90 That’s exactly what a sensitive guy would say
teaguru90

11 mo
Oh my god 😲😲😲
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Yads_Is_Back

11 mo
@Asker LMFAO okay this made my day
Asker

11 mo
Hahahha!

Answer 79

teaguru90

Im not sensitive like that haha

Answer 80

Asker

@teaguru90 That’s exactly what a sensitive guy would say

Answer 81

teaguru90

Oh my god 😲😲😲

Answer 82

Yads_Is_Back

@Asker LMFAO okay this made my day

Answer 83

Asker

Hahahha!

Answer 84

ConfinedSoul | 122 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

Don't get so sensitive then when he gets off inside you and leaving you without getting you off.

Asker

11 mo
That has not happened, but thanks for your concern about our sex life!
ConfinedSoul

11 mo
It might start happening now.
Asker

11 mo
Are you God?
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ConfinedSoul

11 mo
No, why?
Asker

11 mo
Because you’re predicting shit
ConfinedSoul

11 mo
Lol, you're getting sensitive already? Too soon.
Asker

11 mo
No I’m calling you out on your delusion.

Answer 85

Asker

That has not happened, but thanks for your concern about our sex life!

Answer 86

ConfinedSoul

It might start happening now.

Answer 87

Asker

Are you God?

Answer 88

ConfinedSoul

No, why?

Answer 89

Asker

Because you’re predicting shit

Answer 90

ConfinedSoul

Lol, you're getting sensitive already? Too soon.

Answer 91

Asker

No I’m calling you out on your delusion.

Answer 92

Slim57 | 4.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Yeah you'd be an ex real quick, and what's sadder is you're in your 30s acting like you're in middle school, no-one likes women like you.

Asker

11 mo
Hahahahaha! An ex because I left him on read! Hahahahha! So many sensitive little boys everywhere
Slim57

11 mo
No, because you're very obviously, childish.
Asker

11 mo
Hahahaha

Answer 93

Asker

Hahahahaha! An ex because I left him on read! Hahahahha! So many sensitive little boys everywhere

Answer 94

Slim57

No, because you're very obviously, childish.

Answer 95

Asker

Hahahaha

Answer 96

OlderAndWiser | 17.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Sounds like you are as sensitive as the guys you date.

Answer 97

FýrdracaDócincel | 1.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Because how dare he get you back, right?

The fucking audacity.

Answer 98

BulletproofNY

Xper 6

The poor guy has ready to have some distant action and you left him by himself, come on, that’s annoying !

Answer 99

Potatocream | 1.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

its just rude lol stop playing games with people that love you ffs

Asker

11 mo
What’s rude about it?
Potatocream

11 mo
you're in the middle of an intimate act and you just leave and ignore him... if its boring for you then tell him and dont sext but dont do shit like that its just rude to leave him like that, relationships arnt about whats best for you but sometimes you're gonna have to make some sacrifices and deal with being bored a few more mins and then tell him hoe you feel about sextimg
Asker

11 mo
And you think he is innocent for ignoring my text the next day?
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Potatocream

11 mo
well you hurt him so what do you expect lol do you expect him to just swallow his pride for you and be your little bitch the next day or what lol
Asker

11 mo
Are you saying it’s about pride and ego
Potatocream

11 mo
I mean ofc it is gonna impact someones pride and ego so why do you purposefully go out and do it knowing that that is going to happen
Asker

11 mo
It was not purposeful. I decided that I had shit to do.
Potatocream

11 mo
well you purposefully left and decided that other things were more important lol

Answer 100

Asker

What’s rude about it?

Answer 101

Potatocream

you're in the middle of an intimate act and you just leave and ignore him... if its boring for you then tell him and dont sext but dont do shit like that its just rude to leave him like that, relationships arnt about whats best for you but sometimes you're gonna have to make some sacrifices and deal with being bored a few more mins and then tell him hoe you feel about sextimg

Answer 102

Asker

And you think he is innocent for ignoring my text the next day?

Answer 103

Potatocream

well you hurt him so what do you expect lol do you expect him to just swallow his pride for you and be your little bitch the next day or what lol

Answer 104

Asker

Are you saying it’s about pride and ego

Answer 105

Potatocream

I mean ofc it is gonna impact someones pride and ego so why do you purposefully go out and do it knowing that that is going to happen

Answer 106

Asker

It was not purposeful. I decided that I had shit to do.

Answer 107

Potatocream

well you purposefully left and decided that other things were more important lol

Answer 108

Anonymous

I can't believe he texts you back at all lol

Answer 109

Chris1690

Xper 4

Your leaving him high and dry

Answer 110

nailu | 1.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

I won’t get upset; try again the next day

Answer 111

teaguru90 | 66 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 2

I'm not I find it funny

Asker

11 mo
My boyfriend found it anything but funny
teaguru90

11 mo
He needs to lighten up in that area then

Answer 112

Asker

My boyfriend found it anything but funny

Answer 113

teaguru90

He needs to lighten up in that area then

Answer 114

Shamalien | 2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Why r u such a bitch? See, everyone has questions

Asker

11 mo
Sensitive *cough*

Answer 115

Asker

Sensitive *cough*

Answer 116

KrakenAttackin | 2.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Your boyfriend needs to find a new woman.

Answer 117

blueguy07

Xper 4

What is the question

Asker

11 mo
Why is the male species sensitive about their private parts?
blueguy07

11 mo
I'm not sensitive
blueguy07

11 mo
He is not sure if himself

Answer 118

Asker

Why is the male species sensitive about their private parts?

Answer 119

blueguy07

I'm not sensitive

Answer 120

blueguy07

He is not sure if himself

Answer 121

Anonymous

Why are you stirring up drama and so proud of it?

Answer 122

disgustingweebtrash | 5.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

lmfao

I left boyfriend on read during sexting? lol?

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