He licked me for a good while but I didn't cum?

I had no problem cumming with my previous partner, often took only a couple minutes, but when he was new it was kind of the same. My new guy is trying his best, but I still haven't orgasmed with him. As far as I know he's not doing anything wrong. Is it just anxiety on my part? Will it improve over time?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • He may just have no idea what he is doing. Try guiding him, showing him where it feels best for him to lick you. Encourage him to play, explore, suck, and nibble.

    If he still can't figure it out... maybe he just isn't very good. 😂

    • I don't think it's because of him. Rather me being anxious and not relaxed enough.

    • That could be it, are you feeling relaxed?

    • Not really

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  • Listen just teach him how you like it done and relax and enjoy it your to tense worrying about it your gonna cum for him or not just dreath it will happen

Most Helpful Girl

  • My guess is you don't feel comfortable enough with him which is inhibited your ability to orgasm. Over time i think it will change

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  • Sounds like you are in your head and preventing yourself from truly enjoying it

  • Because he ugly..

    • Cause she dikey.. Gosh.. Why do you gotta make us guys insecure.. xDD..

    • Tbh there is probably just no connection between you. He doesn't have any feelings for you and the other way around for you. There is no chemistry. You are probably wrong for eachother I think if you ask me. Why would they want to be with someone like that.

  • Probably a lack of experience on his part, and anxiety and anxiety ver thinking it on your part.. From what I understand, and correct me If I'm wrong, but I believe the female orgasm has a huge mental component..

  • Are you physically attracted to him?

    • I am

    • Hmmm, is he doing something that's off-putting in the moment?

    • No, I don't think it's his fault.

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  • If it is really just anxiety, then you'll eventually get over it.

  • It could be that or just ur mind going in to many places at once.
    God Bless

  • He may not have the skills that past partners had

  • So teach him what you like

  • I love tasting pussy and licking a girl off so I've never had a problem of a girl not liking my oral

  • Give him tips on how your want him to do it, bury his face in your pussy wrap your legs around his head