He licked me for a good while but I didn't cum?

Question

I had no problem cumming with my previous partner, often took only a couple minutes, but when he was new it was kind of the same. My new guy is trying his best, but I still haven't orgasmed with him. As far as I know he's not doing anything wrong. Is it just anxiety on my part? Will it improve over time?

Answer 1

DiversityHire

Xper 7

He may just have no idea what he is doing. Try guiding him, showing him where it feels best for him to lick you. Encourage him to play, explore, suck, and nibble.

If he still can't figure it out... maybe he just isn't very good. 😂

Asker

11 mo
I don't think it's because of him. Rather me being anxious and not relaxed enough.
DiversityHire

11 mo
That could be it, are you feeling relaxed?
Asker

11 mo
Not really
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DiversityHire

11 mo
Well that certainly doesn't help. Any thoughts as to why you can't unwind?

Answer 2

Asker

I don't think it's because of him. Rather me being anxious and not relaxed enough.

Answer 3

DiversityHire

That could be it, are you feeling relaxed?

Answer 4

Asker

Not really

Answer 5

DiversityHire

Well that certainly doesn't help. Any thoughts as to why you can't unwind?

Answer 6

bklynbadboy1 | 4.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Listen just teach him how you like it done and relax and enjoy it your to tense worrying about it your gonna cum for him or not just dreath it will happen

Answer 7

Davey2019 | 264 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

My guess is you don't feel comfortable enough with him which is inhibited your ability to orgasm. Over time i think it will change

Answer 8

boggboss | 5.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Sounds like you are in your head and preventing yourself from truly enjoying it

Answer 9

worldscolide | 3.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Probably a lack of experience on his part, and anxiety and anxiety ver thinking it on your part.. From what I understand, and correct me If I'm wrong, but I believe the female orgasm has a huge mental component..

Answer 10

Twalli | 12.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

If it is really just anxiety, then you'll eventually get over it.

Answer 11

Anonymous

Give him tips on how your want him to do it, bury his face in your pussy wrap your legs around his head

Answer 12

daddybones6969

Xper 1

I love tasting pussy and licking a girl off so I've never had a problem of a girl not liking my oral

Answer 13

Nigjt | 2.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

It could be that or just ur mind going in to many places at once.
God Bless

Answer 14

BodyShop

Xper 3

Are you physically attracted to him?

Asker

11 mo
I am
BodyShop

11 mo
Hmmm, is he doing something that's off-putting in the moment?
Asker

11 mo
No, I don't think it's his fault.
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BodyShop

11 mo
You're probably not in the moment or relaxed with him.

Answer 15

BodyShop

Hmmm, is he doing something that's off-putting in the moment?

Answer 16

Asker

No, I don't think it's his fault.

Answer 17

BodyShop

You're probably not in the moment or relaxed with him.

Answer 18

andy530 | 4.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

He may not have the skills that past partners had

Answer 19

Jmmmfi4 | 3.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

So teach him what you like

Answer 20

BestUserName100

Yoda

Because he ugly..

BestUserName100

11 mo
Cause she dikey.. Gosh.. Why do you gotta make us guys insecure.. xDD..
BestUserName100

11 mo
Tbh there is probably just no connection between you. He doesn't have any feelings for you and the other way around for you. There is no chemistry. You are probably wrong for eachother I think if you ask me. Why would they want to be with someone like that.

Answer 21

BestUserName100

Cause she dikey.. Gosh.. Why do you gotta make us guys insecure.. xDD..

Answer 22

BestUserName100

Tbh there is probably just no connection between you. He doesn't have any feelings for you and the other way around for you. There is no chemistry. You are probably wrong for eachother I think if you ask me. Why would they want to be with someone like that.

He licked me for a good while but I didn't cum?

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