Why Do You Like Fat, Thick, Chunky Girls?

Question

It seems like lots of guys find girls that have extra wight sexy. Why? Is it because it makes sex more comfy?

Loppete · Accepted Answer

To me, the extra fat on the lady on the left is a turnoff. It's just doesn't look healthy, therefore isn't attractive AT ALL. I prefer girls slightly thinner than the girl on the right, but I don't like twigs. THAT SAID! Some girls look amazing skinny! Like a twig! And they would look horrible if they gained weight, and some girls would lose a few features if they lost too much weight. So for me, I'm partial to a thin-but curvy body, but attractive girls who take care of themselves are attractive. But if your fat? Like, actually fat fat, that's just... Not attractive... I'm calling out us guys just as much when I make that last statement as I am the girls. (yes I'm aware some people find fat people attractive and I don't understand it, so we keep living our own seperste lives I guess...)

msc545 · Accepted Answer

Um, no offense, but they aren't sexy. They look unhealthy.

Obtuse · Answer

I tend to prefer slim ones although what I find is that chunkier ones are more appealing to me if they're shorter. It might be more about the overall size and volume. I'm not the strongest guy so it helps me if the girl is small enough, either as a result of shorter height or slimmer build to be able to carry her effortlessly and such up the stairs in bridal position. It's just a personal preference but I find it feels more "natural" to me.

The_Sword · Answer

I think there are a lot of stereotypes in people's heads, and their experience with these stereotypes can lead into finding certain body types, more attractive. In my personal experience, most skinny women I've been with, have been much less down to earth, and tended to be more narccistic, and awful partners. The bigger women that I've been with, have tended to have much better developed personalities: it feels like beauty standards have changed a bit over my time in the sexual arena, but it used to be that women who wanted to be skinny, were trying to maximize the male attention they got, as it would give them more power over their partners, whereas larger women, would actually have to create real intimacy and participate more within the relationship dynamic, and be less prone to treating men like disposable objects eager to enjoy the social status granted by having a skinny 'trophy' girlfriend. Maybe as the beauty standards are more diverse now, this dichotomy between skinny and larger women is outdated. Another potential outcome of this dichotomy, was that more than half the skinny women I've been with, were very bad at sex, and some them thought they didn't have to be an active participant at all: their lives were all about outward appearances, and they were totally clueless and incapable of any actual sex mechanics: maybe this is cause they are always starving and generally have weaker legs. Larger women are obviously not all "good at sex", but some of best lovers were even quite large, and they knew how to work their hips etc. For these reasons, I am more attracted to larger women, but don't get me wrong, I've had very good times with some short skinny women also, which also created their own interesting physical dynamics to explore: as long as the person is willing to let you play with whatever you both are capable of enjoying together, the most important aspect is eagerness to participate, which again, in my generalised experience, has been represented in higher numbers by larger women. I don't use these stereotypes to dictate who I like as a partner, I just know I have a generalised preference: but it's not a preference that I could ever let govern my decision or choice of love interest. Life is too complex to compromise who you share it with, for a mere sex object.

akihon · Answer

It's because often they are better people in the first place, when they say they love you they are saying it because they actually do love you, that's an honesty that's very sexy.

They take more time to actually give a crap about people because often they've been hurt more in life, they are more genuine people and have less ulterior motives than Uber attractive women.

Ogrey95 · Answer

More than just comfy sex. They are also a good source of hugs and warmth plus the perfect place to fall asleep on lazy movie days in bed

wingattebaby16 · Answer

as long as they dont have fat rolls and back boobs, full figured women are sexy

CherryRoseChampange · Answer

The girl in the green and mint striped two piece is cute. I'd definitely be into her, but I guess it depends on the person. Their health and how they wear their weight matters to me the most.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Not me!

egarcia1360 · Answer

I don't like it when a girl is definitively overweight — call it fat, chunky, or whatever — but I do enjoy some nice curves. There's more to look at and squeeze that way, while still being aesthetically pleasing. Thick girls tend to have fuller breasts, which are always fun.

GoldenDragon · Answer

I like the way she has curves and the overall soft feel her body will have.

BCA6010 · Answer

Definitely not

Matthew2222 · Answer

There are many reasons.
The most important one is that men are biologically programmed to prefer chunky girls. This is just a natural result of evolution and is why big women were considered desirable for most of human history across most cultures.
Other, more practical reasons, are that chubby girls are much more comfortable to cuddle as you surmised. Love handles are fun to grab and hold onto, which is another plus. I also find that they tend to have better personalities for whatever reason.

JigyW · Answer

Well for me I'm not really into them that way. They are cute, but I have a different preference

blkgold33 · Answer

I personally like when a girl thick cause sometimes it make there butts bigger. I'm not fan of Fat and chunky tho

nella965 · Answer

because different guys like different things. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There are actually some men who secretly LOVE fat women (not thic, but fat). And I think its just something that you thin people need to deal with. You finally accept the fact that life doesn't always revolve around you.