My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me he said he has no interest... What should I do?

[Anonymous]

Please don't say "break up"

[MrOracle]

Since it seems that he's unlikely to change his mind, you either accept this and stop trying to have sex with him, or you break up. You might not like those choices, but they're the choices you've got. Your chances of getting him to change his mind are probably very low, so don't hold out much hope for that option.

[BrexitAteMyLobster]

If you want a sex life then either he has to be prepared to work on that, and take meaningful steps, or you need to break up. There's no point denying that the latter may be necessary.

[SarahsSummer]

find out why, explain your needs and go from there. A successful relationship can only be if both parties communicate their needs and attempt to provide them for their mates

[mynameisRIS]

Figure out exactly why he doesn't want to have sex then you can make a decision. There has to be an actual reason other than he's not interested

[drsatan]

If you can't get it from him, are you allowed to get it from someone else?

[Asker]

Noo way I also don't want to have it with someone else I only want it with my boyfriend

[drsatan]

Ask him why he has no interest in sex with you and what you can do to change that. If he gives you nothing, then you have to decide between sex and your relationship. Personally, I think everyone deserves a relationship that fulfilling to them in all the ways they need it to be.

[Asker]

I think he doesn't like it but I want him to give me at least one chance we have been together for a 4 years

[SpeedVoid]

Can I ask if you two have ever had sex, I am assuming you have? I might have an insight...

[Asker]

No we haven't

[Moondrop]

Try again tomorrow 🤣

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Talk to him and try to see the reason for that.
Maybe he's stressed and/or depressed.

[Asker]

I think he just doesn't like it

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Then it's a big problem for your compatibility

[BestUserName100]

Find someone else and risk you guys's relationship falling apart.

[Asker]

Never

[BestUserName100]

Wow.. Lucky guy...

[reptocarl]

Break up

[Alexandrubaschet08]

TEASE HIM in the morning when he have an erection. Ask how and when he want to have sex.

[chriscdi]

if sex is important in your relationship then of course

[Asker]

Actually it's not that important but I want my future with him and I don't want us to be like that

[chriscdi]

personally I don't know why someone would have a relationship with someone if they aren't willing to physically show love to their partner but ig try taking it as far as you can

[winterfox10]

Has he explained why? How long has he been turning you down?

[oncpl]

Have a detailed discussion with him. He might be having some psychological issue. Tell him openly that sex plays vital role in happy relationship.

[clampfan101]

Try to find out what would make him interested.

[Asker]

I'm trying every way but I still couldn't find...

[COMMODOREII]

Why doesn't he have any interest? Was it this way when you first met?

[Asker]

Yes...

[COMMODOREII]

That would have been a red flag for for sure

[navyP]

Get a new boyfriend

[Nigjt]

Ask him why then try to fix it.
God Bless

[andy530]

Go to a couples therapist, get a friends with benefits, masturbate, sext, talk to him more, these are my ideas

[nailu]

Just have to have sexwith somebody else

[JamesBlackDragon]

Accepted there's more to life than sex

[james14563]

Message me I can entertain u :) ... try spicing things up

[Asker]

No..

[mrwhite333]

Drop his ass, that's not going to correct itself. If you want sex you need a new boyfriend

[ihavebeenhi]

Bang his best friend