How do I give a BJ?

[Anonymous]

so I think I’m going to give someone a blow job for the first time ever. How do I do it. I know it sounds silly but can I have a step by step. Do I use my hands first or just put it straight in my mouth

[abc3643]

A big reason that the male orgasm happens (best) from head is when there is a very steady rhythm stimulating the tip. "Deep throating" is not such a big deal because all that does is simulate the experience of being in the warm wet snug vagina. During intercourse, it is the tip being touched and stimulated that causes excitement and orgasm.

Keep in mind, all the best BJs are also a bit of a hand job as well so don't be afraid to give your mouth a break.

And don't forget the balls! They get lonely and are STARVING for female attention. So, sometimes use your fingers or hand such as cupping or teasing testicles or the penis.

Google "Fellucia Blow" and STUDY those videos. Those women are experts at fellatio and genuinely love it. The sensuous BJ really is best both for the guy and for the woman. Watch and notice how easily they do it yet aren't choking or getting sick. And watch how they switch between mouth and fingers.

Also, look into videos for:

A) lingam massage (tantric massage for the male genitalia)
B) yoni massage (tantric massage for the female genitalia - he should return the favor).

That said, consider studying good hand-job videos. All you then have to do is imagine doing what the woman is doing with her hands and fingers, but instead replace with lips, tongue, and mouth.
I'd upload a video, but it is not safe for G@G. PM if you want the links to two such videos.

[Asker]

Thank you so much for your reply. When I’m using my hand. What should I do with it and how firmly should I hold

[abc3643]

Pretend it's a banana. You'll be fine. First, he'll just be HAPPY you are even doing this. Second, erections are pretty tough, so no worries. If you do something wrong, you'll know before you do any damage - and you won't do any damage...

[Nigjt]

Well work on the head of his Dick with ur mouth an lip's tounge an play with his ball's with ur hands an at the same time open ur legs up an let him play with ur pussey or put his hand on ur pussey an then he will do the rest.
God Bless

[Anonymous]

Start with kissing and licking the head and slowly work your way down the penis. Make sure you have a lot of drool and spit on the penis. Use your tongue and make sure you don't bite or scrape the penis with your teeth. Slowly put more of the penis in your mouth, slowly going deeper each time. Hold the penis tightly at the base with your hand, this will help to make the penis even harder as you suck it.

[Anonymous]

Don't try too hard. Attitude is key, show him first that you really wanna do it and let him guide you where it feels good. I don't know but sometimes it seems like innocence plays a role here. I've known guys who take pride in being the first or only guy you've done stuff with so maybe being a newbie could work to your advantage.

It's fun too when you learn about each other's body together.

[ZekeLaFreq]

You oughta look up a how-to, lots online.

[blueguy07]

You want to play with it first then it would get hard as you see it suck the head first then stroke it slowly... and gently and as you see it get hard suck it slowly so where you feel it getting hard

[andy530]

Watch some porn and you’ll figure it out real fast

[jazminmarierios]

1 kiss him get him in the mood
2 get on your knees and look up at him
3 take his pants or shorts off and behind to touch it with your hands.
4 start slowly taking every inch of his cock down your throat..
5 lick his balls and shaft
6 tell him to cum for u
7 suck the tip and stroke

[bllllbllll]

you are amazing <3

[guywithdog]

Ladies ! It's tutorial time 😅

[Anonymous]

I need the same advice for licking the kitty... LOL

[Anonymous]

Watch some amateur porn videos