Do you believe self love is the greatest middle finger of all time?

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NineBreaker · Accepted Answer

I think it depends on how it manifests. Like anything else there are good and bad qualities/quantities.

For example, if it's in the form of malignant narcissism, then that's bad.

Personally, I think the best way for it to manifest is as self-respect mainly, and kindness towards one's self.

Shiver · Accepted Answer

Self love is supposed to be a goal regardless, not a reaction. If your main reason for self love is because you want to stick it to someone or something, it ironically becomes the exact opposite.
Indifference is a better middle finger anyway. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

MistiGal · Accepted Answer

Of course you need to love yourself! Problems exist when you constantly seek approval from others rather than from it coming from yourself. If you love the way you are, look, present yourself, you dont need anyone else to reassure you. And if one loves thyself, others will too...

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

Only to those that try to hate or take away your self confidence. Otherwise, you need to love yourself before others can love you. ♥️

MzAsh · Answer

Absolutely

HOAAH · Answer

God's love for me is the greatest love of all

Skyrim5346 · Answer

Yeah I think that is true but you could improve your odds by practicing self love with one hand and put your other middle finger in your own ass at the same time

G3tAClue · Answer

Loving yourself means you can love others better

R_ūshī · Answer

Unhuh... True that

Lynx122 · Answer

It can be but self love shouldn't be a reaction to something you should strive to love yourself no matter what. So I think loving yourself just because someone pissed you off is the wrong idea. But it definitely makes it a lot easier to deal with people and conflicts etc.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

no self love means no confidence, so no

pigoat · Answer

Only to people who dislike you and what you are doing

Browneye57 · Answer

No. If you don't love yourself no one else will love you. You have to be good with #1 FIRST.

GennySanders · Answer

Just like I always think of myself & will stay that way too ' I am my own source of happiness & kindness ⚡💯🤩

Shiv__007 · Answer

Yup, period

Creepazoid · Answer

Nah biggest middle finger is when I'm trying to turn left on green and pedestrian is taking their sweet ass time to walk on the cross walk... just happened!

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Is this supposed to be a double entendre?

LEADFOOTboi · Answer

People who don't want you and... Don't love you, hate it when you love yourself... Although I can't relate much cuz... Everyone loves me... Loving yourself makes haters mad