Older men, do you like sex with very young women or older women better?

Question

What are the pros and cons, esp. for girls age 18-20 ?

Answer 1

Xper 5

I'd prefer both honestly. But lately, the girls I've been with who have been younger than me (6 years younger) don't have too much experience. Older woman have experience and I like that. If the sex is good regardless of age, I will continue to have sex with them.

Asker

11 mo
yes older women usually have more experience than we do. i get that as being more appealing!
Mexicvn

11 mo
BUT if younger girls are experienced as well, that's appealing too.

Answer 2

Asker

yes older women usually have more experience than we do. i get that as being more appealing!

Answer 3

Mexicvn

BUT if younger girls are experienced as well, that's appealing too.

Answer 4

Grkgod12

Xper 6

Not going to lie.
There is just something about a younger woman !
How old are the guy you usually hook up with?

Asker

11 mo
I dont usually hook up lol just interested in the guys thoughts on pros and cons. What is the something? telll meee

Im 18 and have dated and slept with two older men (which should tell you we were dating before we really should have been lol). Ages 36 and 42. Just stopped dating Mr. 42 because he doesn't want another marriage and he was honest from the beginning but I just really liked him. Focusing on finding a serious relationship now, and I'm pretty open on age but prefer men in their 30s and 40s. I could date older if I felt he was really the one for me though. Depends.
Grkgod12

11 mo
I just love the younger spirit! So interesting and fun !
But, honestly, there might be something else.
I love having a girl to guide through life. When she looks to me for advice, and even security
Asker

11 mo
aw i love that so much, very sweet
and you're probably young at heart anyway :)
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Grkgod12

11 mo
Tell me more about yourself?:)
Asker

11 mo
lol what do you want to know?
Grkgod12

11 mo
Anything!
What music do you listen to? What do you like to do for fun in your spare time?
What are you wearing right now as we speak?💕

Answer 5

Asker

I dont usually hook up lol just interested in the guys thoughts on pros and cons. What is the something? telll meee

Im 18 and have dated and slept with two older men (which should tell you we were dating before we really should have been lol). Ages 36 and 42. Just stopped dating Mr. 42 because he doesn't want another marriage and he was honest from the beginning but I just really liked him. Focusing on finding a serious relationship now, and I'm pretty open on age but prefer men in their 30s and 40s. I could date older if I felt he was really the one for me though. Depends.

Answer 6

Grkgod12

I just love the younger spirit! So interesting and fun !
But, honestly, there might be something else.
I love having a girl to guide through life. When she looks to me for advice, and even security

Answer 7

Asker

aw i love that so much, very sweet
and you're probably young at heart anyway :)

Answer 8

Grkgod12

Tell me more about yourself?:)

Answer 9

Asker

lol what do you want to know?

Answer 10

Grkgod12

Anything!
What music do you listen to? What do you like to do for fun in your spare time?
What are you wearing right now as we speak?💕

Answer 11

wisefool

Xper 5

younger women for sure. the pros are more attractive, less experience, higher sex drive. the con is more immature...

Asker

11 mo
yes we can be immature lol
Im glad less experience isn't a huge negative. I thought it would be
im looking for a serious relationship and eventually marriage with a much older man and that used to make me anxious - that he would see less experience as boring. but to my surprise, its not true :)
wisefool

11 mo
not true at all. it's more exciting for the guy to be her first experience in many ways so i'd say you have nothing to worry about. as long as you're eager to please...

Answer 12

Asker

yes we can be immature lol
Im glad less experience isn't a huge negative. I thought it would be
im looking for a serious relationship and eventually marriage with a much older man and that used to make me anxious - that he would see less experience as boring. but to my surprise, its not true :)

Answer 13

wisefool

not true at all. it's more exciting for the guy to be her first experience in many ways so i'd say you have nothing to worry about. as long as you're eager to please...

Answer 14

HeyMikie | 1.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

At my age 18-20 is a bit young but I am open to any woman of any age with whom I have a connection (and she with me). I do prefer women who are younger but in all honesty every one of my lovers have been within 3 years of my own age.

Answer 15

Thatsamazing

Guru

Almost all guys, regardless of age, generally want and like sex the most with girls who are 16-24 or 25. Dunno if it's a matter of pro or con, it's simply what we want.

Asker

11 mo
okay but there must be things you like and dislike that make you want it? im just curious
Thatsamazing

11 mo
Yeah, it's that guys are visual in nature and visually-driven and stimulated, and girls in that age range are the most attractive that they'll ever be.
Asker

11 mo
yes thats what I've heard
curious, would you date an 18 year old or just like them for fun?
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Thatsamazing

11 mo
I don't think the term "date" has any relevance. I'm attracted to girls who are 18, and girls who are not 18. If that's what you mean.

Answer 16

Asker

okay but there must be things you like and dislike that make you want it? im just curious

Answer 17

Thatsamazing

Yeah, it's that guys are visual in nature and visually-driven and stimulated, and girls in that age range are the most attractive that they'll ever be.

Answer 18

Asker

yes thats what I've heard
curious, would you date an 18 year old or just like them for fun?

Answer 19

Thatsamazing

I don't think the term "date" has any relevance. I'm attracted to girls who are 18, and girls who are not 18. If that's what you mean.

Answer 20

MackToday | 1.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Only women my own age, I won't touch a young woman, why would I make a fool of myself like some of these idiots you see.

Asker

11 mo
so you're not attracted to young women? thats not a problem if you're not. every man should go after his own heart :)

you're more physically into older women then? What makes them better to you sexually?
MackToday

11 mo
I'm an older guy it just seems weird. Such an immature thing for an older man to do.
Asker

11 mo
Well.. if a man is turned on by a young woman, why is it immature to go after her? Dont mean to bother you. I'm just trying to understand.

I am curious if you are actually more attracted to young women but you just won't touch them mainly because you think its weird? Thats very different from actually being more attracted to older women. If it were not considered weird to date an 18 year old and a young girl was interested in you, would you be tempted?
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MackToday

11 mo
I'm attracted to them but it's not the same now. I don't see eye to eye with them like when I was younger. Now they're just pretty young girls maybe fun to talk to or something. I've held long conversations with young women but it just wouldn't do on a relationship level. I need a woman with experience and substance young girls are child like in a lot of ways. I'd take a woman my age or even a few years older but I'd never bother with a young woman like that for a relationship, it would just be so weird on so many levels.
Asker

11 mo
I get that. I think many young girls do have substance but I think I understand you. I think either path is fine personally, as long as she is of age. I know some people think its weird that i love older men. but it actually makes a ton of sense. if im a very young girl who wants a mature guy for a serious relationship and I want to get married young then focusing on other very young boys is the silliest thing i could do lol
MackToday

11 mo
If you focus on young men they your children's father will be around long enough to see them grow up. Not always so with older men.

Answer 21

Asker

so you're not attracted to young women? thats not a problem if you're not. every man should go after his own heart :)

you're more physically into older women then? What makes them better to you sexually?

Answer 22

MackToday

I'm an older guy it just seems weird. Such an immature thing for an older man to do.

Answer 23

Asker

Well.. if a man is turned on by a young woman, why is it immature to go after her? Dont mean to bother you. I'm just trying to understand.

I am curious if you are actually more attracted to young women but you just won't touch them mainly because you think its weird? Thats very different from actually being more attracted to older women. If it were not considered weird to date an 18 year old and a young girl was interested in you, would you be tempted?

Answer 24

MackToday

I'm attracted to them but it's not the same now. I don't see eye to eye with them like when I was younger. Now they're just pretty young girls maybe fun to talk to or something. I've held long conversations with young women but it just wouldn't do on a relationship level. I need a woman with experience and substance young girls are child like in a lot of ways. I'd take a woman my age or even a few years older but I'd never bother with a young woman like that for a relationship, it would just be so weird on so many levels.

Answer 25

Asker

I get that. I think many young girls do have substance but I think I understand you. I think either path is fine personally, as long as she is of age. I know some people think its weird that i love older men. but it actually makes a ton of sense. if im a very young girl who wants a mature guy for a serious relationship and I want to get married young then focusing on other very young boys is the silliest thing i could do lol

Answer 26

MackToday

If you focus on young men they your children's father will be around long enough to see them grow up. Not always so with older men.

Answer 27

AynonOMouse

Master

Emotionally and relationship wise I'd like the younger ones more than the ones around my own age.

Asker

11 mo
thats how I feel about older men :)

but what about sexually? are you more turned on by older women and like sex better with them then?
AynonOMouse

11 mo
I'd only be interested in sex with someone that I have a strong emotional connection/attachment with.

I think a younger girl likely hasn't been hurt too much yet (hopefully) and can still form strong emotional attachments, can still trust their SO without always being concerned or making wild accusations for no legitimate reason, and they are more likely to have similar interests as I do. Plus they are less likely to have damaged themselves and their eggs/future children from doing drugs and/or alcohol over a period of many years. I want to raise a family when I get an SO, so the possible health of the future kids would be a consideration when choosing a partner. What do you think?
Asker

11 mo
oh wow you sound so mature. thats a major reason why older guys are so much better. but it can be a little intimidating for us, so as long as you are very affectionate and caring to warm her up, a lot of young girls would be into that. choose the right girl, of course, because some girls my age have been around a few blocks haha but generally what you say is true I think

many of us aren't ready but some are. I would be ready to be his young wife if he supported me following my goals and we were the right fit. I want to find my partner in life earlier and get married pretty early compared to many of my friends. but some are like me and want to be married very young. If I find him soon and get married young, we can enjoy a few years married without kids and then have kids when im around 23-25. thats the dream. one of the reasons you guys should like us more - more time to have babies and no rush :)
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AynonOMouse

11 mo
Yeah, I think it would be ideal to be together at least a couple years before having kids. Like date a while, then live together for a year or so before having a kid. The pregnancy takes a while before birth even if you are lucky enough to get pregnant within a few months of trying, so like 3 years minimum after meeting for the first time realistically.

I like being very affectionate. If the girl was a little physically clingy and always wanted to hold hands in public, and when at home almost always wanted to be hugging of somehow connected, and cuddled at night while sleeping, I'd like that. I'd like it if she initiated the affection sometimes too so it would seem like she is more interested and attached. Do you ever like initiating affection?
Asker

11 mo
Im verrry affectionate but mostly once its clear that he's pursuing me. Once I know he's into me, I am very open and affectionate. This can be asking for trouble with older guys though, because I love PDA hehe I want his hands all over me like he can't let go. I've gotten a lot of dirty looks because of this unfortunately, but its okay. I try to stay focused on him and enjoy hugging and kissing like we are in our own little world. Love holding hands, cuddling, everything sweet. Being connected is way better than hooking up to me. got a lot of love to give! lol
AynonOMouse

11 mo
I only like hugs and holding hands when in public. I don't like kissing in front of other people. If other people seeing it didn't approve I'd actually be a little glad because sometimes I like to do stuff that bothers other people right in front of them and rub it in their face. :P

And yeah, I only do serious relations. None of that hook up BS.

Are you very tall or short?
Asker

11 mo
yes some people need to be annoyed lol I have done that before with my ex who was early 40s and older women would give dirty looks or make comments. id just start kissing him and sitting on his lap or put his arms around me and talking to him like we were the only people in the world. the only way to handle haters!

and lol I'm only slightly below average height in us. 5'2''
how tall are you silly?
AynonOMouse

11 mo
I'm 6' tall. How old are you?
Asker

10 mo
Sorry, missed your question
Im 18
Currently talking to another guy in his 40s but the rona is cramping my dating style lol

Have you dated young girls before?
AynonOMouse

10 mo
"rona?" What's that?
No, I haven't dated any young girls, but the ones I have been friends with or have worked with I seem to get along well with them pretty often. You can add me if you want to talk more by the way.

Answer 28

Asker

thats how I feel about older men :)

but what about sexually? are you more turned on by older women and like sex better with them then?

Answer 29

AynonOMouse

I'd only be interested in sex with someone that I have a strong emotional connection/attachment with.

I think a younger girl likely hasn't been hurt too much yet (hopefully) and can still form strong emotional attachments, can still trust their SO without always being concerned or making wild accusations for no legitimate reason, and they are more likely to have similar interests as I do. Plus they are less likely to have damaged themselves and their eggs/future children from doing drugs and/or alcohol over a period of many years. I want to raise a family when I get an SO, so the possible health of the future kids would be a consideration when choosing a partner. What do you think?

Answer 30

Asker

oh wow you sound so mature. thats a major reason why older guys are so much better. but it can be a little intimidating for us, so as long as you are very affectionate and caring to warm her up, a lot of young girls would be into that. choose the right girl, of course, because some girls my age have been around a few blocks haha but generally what you say is true I think

many of us aren't ready but some are. I would be ready to be his young wife if he supported me following my goals and we were the right fit. I want to find my partner in life earlier and get married pretty early compared to many of my friends. but some are like me and want to be married very young. If I find him soon and get married young, we can enjoy a few years married without kids and then have kids when im around 23-25. thats the dream. one of the reasons you guys should like us more - more time to have babies and no rush :)

Answer 31

AynonOMouse

Yeah, I think it would be ideal to be together at least a couple years before having kids. Like date a while, then live together for a year or so before having a kid. The pregnancy takes a while before birth even if you are lucky enough to get pregnant within a few months of trying, so like 3 years minimum after meeting for the first time realistically.

I like being very affectionate. If the girl was a little physically clingy and always wanted to hold hands in public, and when at home almost always wanted to be hugging of somehow connected, and cuddled at night while sleeping, I'd like that. I'd like it if she initiated the affection sometimes too so it would seem like she is more interested and attached. Do you ever like initiating affection?

Answer 32

Asker

Im verrry affectionate but mostly once its clear that he's pursuing me. Once I know he's into me, I am very open and affectionate. This can be asking for trouble with older guys though, because I love PDA hehe I want his hands all over me like he can't let go. I've gotten a lot of dirty looks because of this unfortunately, but its okay. I try to stay focused on him and enjoy hugging and kissing like we are in our own little world. Love holding hands, cuddling, everything sweet. Being connected is way better than hooking up to me. got a lot of love to give! lol

Answer 33

AynonOMouse

I only like hugs and holding hands when in public. I don't like kissing in front of other people. If other people seeing it didn't approve I'd actually be a little glad because sometimes I like to do stuff that bothers other people right in front of them and rub it in their face. :P

And yeah, I only do serious relations. None of that hook up BS.

Are you very tall or short?

Answer 34

Asker

yes some people need to be annoyed lol I have done that before with my ex who was early 40s and older women would give dirty looks or make comments. id just start kissing him and sitting on his lap or put his arms around me and talking to him like we were the only people in the world. the only way to handle haters!

and lol I'm only slightly below average height in us. 5'2''
how tall are you silly?

Answer 35

AynonOMouse

I'm 6' tall. How old are you?

Answer 36

Asker

Sorry, missed your question
Im 18
Currently talking to another guy in his 40s but the rona is cramping my dating style lol

Have you dated young girls before?

Answer 37

AynonOMouse

"rona?" What's that?
No, I haven't dated any young girls, but the ones I have been friends with or have worked with I seem to get along well with them pretty often. You can add me if you want to talk more by the way.

Answer 38

oldermale | 2.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

I've always been turned on by younger girls, very horny but can be strange at times

Asker

11 mo
why are we strange? lol
oldermale

11 mo
Strange as in the response from other people, I thinks it hot and huge turn on.
Asker

11 mo
ohh yes many people dont like thus coupling

I actually lost a friend for dating a much older man for little while
I do like to make older women jealous if theyre jerks about it or give dirty looks though. he and i would get dirty looks and id just sit on his lap and start giving him kisses. people are such haters its ridiculous
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oldermale

11 mo
As long as your happy and not being pressured into it then screw what the prudish people think.
Asker

11 mo
I agree :)

Answer 39

Asker

why are we strange? lol

Answer 40

oldermale

Strange as in the response from other people, I thinks it hot and huge turn on.

Answer 41

Asker

ohh yes many people dont like thus coupling

I actually lost a friend for dating a much older man for little while
I do like to make older women jealous if theyre jerks about it or give dirty looks though. he and i would get dirty looks and id just sit on his lap and start giving him kisses. people are such haters its ridiculous

Answer 42

oldermale

As long as your happy and not being pressured into it then screw what the prudish people think.

Answer 43

Asker

I agree :)

Answer 44

tim7610 | 51 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 3

I'm I'm into younger women that are below my age, but over 20 of age is my limit for younger woman

Asker

11 mo
why do you like sex with them better?
tim7610

11 mo
Cause they look better
Asker

11 mo
straight to the point haha

why dont you want to date younger than 20? Is there something wrong with us 18 year olds? not offended, just curious.
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tim7610

11 mo
I dont mind 18 or 19 but a lot of 18 or 19 still look like they are in high school.
Asker

11 mo
well some of us still are in high school lol but true, if you're not attracted to the look of very young girls then I get that too

Answer 45

Asker

why do you like sex with them better?

Answer 46

tim7610

Cause they look better

Answer 47

Asker

straight to the point haha

why dont you want to date younger than 20? Is there something wrong with us 18 year olds? not offended, just curious.

Answer 48

tim7610

I dont mind 18 or 19 but a lot of 18 or 19 still look like they are in high school.

Answer 49

Asker

well some of us still are in high school lol but true, if you're not attracted to the look of very young girls then I get that too

Answer 50

andy530 | 4.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I prefer younger women, they are more excited and sexually curious

Asker

11 mo
oh I can see that, true. thanks :)
andy530

11 mo
Any time

Answer 51

Asker

oh I can see that, true. thanks :)

Answer 52

andy530

Any time

Answer 53

Anonymous

Younger is definitely better... like eating a ripe fruit versus eating rotting fruit.

Firmer, tighter, sexier, more curious and enthusiastic, etc.

Answer 54

xyz94 | 132 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

When you say 'older men' what do you mean, like older as in older than you (in their 30s say), or like 40s-50s (which would be creepy and weird imo)?

Answer 55

es20490446e | 5.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Older or younger, I like it :P

Answer 56

DiversityHire

Xper 7

Generally younger women.

Asker

11 mo
why?

Answer 57

Anonymous

Yeah I do , it’s definitely better than older

Asker

11 mo
how? im trying to get into guys minds but you won't let me in lol
Opinion Owner

11 mo
Seeing the world again through younger eyes is nice too and reliving experiences through them. I guess also with a young woman they are usually in good shape and a turn on to see so that also makes the sex better. . I guess the con of dating a really young woman is the differences in goals and achievements in life, the maturity difference and the constant stares you get with the age difference
Asker

11 mo
thank you for explaining! :)

are you open to seriously dating young girls or just having fun with them? and how old are you, if you dont mind me asking?
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Opinion Owner

11 mo
Yeah but not that age anymore except for fun maybe because I’m 53 now, most women that young are not interested in me like that

Answer 58

Asker

how? im trying to get into guys minds but you won't let me in lol

Answer 59

Opinion Owner

Seeing the world again through younger eyes is nice too and reliving experiences through them. I guess also with a young woman they are usually in good shape and a turn on to see so that also makes the sex better. . I guess the con of dating a really young woman is the differences in goals and achievements in life, the maturity difference and the constant stares you get with the age difference

Answer 60

Asker

thank you for explaining! :)

are you open to seriously dating young girls or just having fun with them? and how old are you, if you dont mind me asking?

Answer 61

Opinion Owner

Yeah but not that age anymore except for fun maybe because I’m 53 now, most women that young are not interested in me like that

Answer 62

Plitty-Tank

Yoda

Men desire sex with younger women the most.

Answer 63

fett253 | 1.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

I prefer older, xp outrules teaching.

Asker

11 mo
yeah, that has been one insecurity of mine. i love older men but some dont like our lack of experience as very young women. many dont mind but some probably wouldn't want to deal with that lol

older women do seem to know how to put it down, they got the moves :D

Answer 64

Asker

yeah, that has been one insecurity of mine. i love older men but some dont like our lack of experience as very young women. many dont mind but some probably wouldn't want to deal with that lol

older women do seem to know how to put it down, they got the moves :D

Answer 65

samysyed | 520 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

Younger are better

Answer 66

BALDY7979

Xper 1

Like 18

Asker

11 mo
do you?
BALDY7979

11 mo
U want me lije
BALDY7979

11 mo
Like

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Asker

do you?

Answer 68

BALDY7979

U want me lije

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BALDY7979

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