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Older men, do you like sex with very young women or older women better?

What are the pros and cons, esp. for girls age 18-20 ?
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  • I'd prefer both honestly. But lately, the girls I've been with who have been younger than me (6 years younger) don't have too much experience. Older woman have experience and I like that. If the sex is good regardless of age, I will continue to have sex with them.

    • yes older women usually have more experience than we do. i get that as being more appealing!

    • BUT if younger girls are experienced as well, that's appealing too.

  • Not going to lie.
    There is just something about a younger woman !
    How old are the guy you usually hook up with?

    • I dont usually hook up lol just interested in the guys thoughts on pros and cons. What is the something? telll meee Im 18 and have dated and slept with two older men (which should tell you we were dating before we really should have been lol). Ages 36 and 42. Just stopped dating Mr. 42 because he doesn't want another marriage and he was honest from the beginning but I just really liked him. Focusing on finding a serious relationship now, and I'm pretty open on age but prefer men in their 30s and 40s. I could date older if I felt he was really the one for me though. Depends.

    • I just love the younger spirit! So interesting and fun ! But, honestly, there might be something else. I love having a girl to guide through life. When she looks to me for advice, and even security

    • aw i love that so much, very sweet and you're probably young at heart anyway :)

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  • Only women my own age, I won't touch a young woman, why would I make a fool of myself like some of these idiots you see.

    • so you're not attracted to young women? thats not a problem if you're not. every man should go after his own heart :) you're more physically into older women then? What makes them better to you sexually?

    • I'm an older guy it just seems weird. Such an immature thing for an older man to do.

    • Well.. if a man is turned on by a young woman, why is it immature to go after her? Dont mean to bother you. I'm just trying to understand. I am curious if you are actually more attracted to young women but you just won't touch them mainly because you think its weird? Thats very different from actually being more attracted to older women. If it were not considered weird to date an 18 year old and a young girl was interested in you, would you be tempted?

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  • younger women for sure. the pros are more attractive, less experience, higher sex drive. the con is more immature...

    • yes we can be immature lol Im glad less experience isn't a huge negative. I thought it would be im looking for a serious relationship and eventually marriage with a much older man and that used to make me anxious - that he would see less experience as boring. but to my surprise, its not true :)

    • not true at all. it's more exciting for the guy to be her first experience in many ways so i'd say you have nothing to worry about. as long as you're eager to please...

  • Older or younger, I like it :P

  • Emotionally and relationship wise I'd like the younger ones more than the ones around my own age.

    • thats how I feel about older men :) but what about sexually? are you more turned on by older women and like sex better with them then?

    • I'd only be interested in sex with someone that I have a strong emotional connection/attachment with. I think a younger girl likely hasn't been hurt too much yet (hopefully) and can still form strong emotional attachments, can still trust their SO without always being concerned or making wild accusations for no legitimate reason, and they are more likely to have similar interests as I do. Plus they are less likely to have damaged themselves and their eggs/future children from doing drugs and/or alcohol over a period of many years. I want to raise a family when I get an SO, so the possible health of the future kids would be a consideration when choosing a partner. What do you think?

    • oh wow you sound so mature. thats a major reason why older guys are so much better. but it can be a little intimidating for us, so as long as you are very affectionate and caring to warm her up, a lot of young girls would be into that. choose the right girl, of course, because some girls my age have been around a few blocks haha but generally what you say is true I think many of us aren't ready but some are. I would be ready to be his young wife if he supported me following my goals and we were the right fit. I want to find my partner in life earlier and get married pretty early compared to many of my friends. but some are like me and want to be married very young. If I find him soon and get married young, we can enjoy a few years married without kids and then have kids when im around 23-25. thats the dream. one of the reasons you guys should like us more - more time to have babies and no rush :)

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  • When you say 'older men' what do you mean, like older as in older than you (in their 30s say), or like 40s-50s (which would be creepy and weird imo)?

  • Almost all guys, regardless of age, generally want and like sex the most with girls who are 16-24 or 25. Dunno if it's a matter of pro or con, it's simply what we want.

    • okay but there must be things you like and dislike that make you want it? im just curious

    • Yeah, it's that guys are visual in nature and visually-driven and stimulated, and girls in that age range are the most attractive that they'll ever be.

    • yes thats what I've heard curious, would you date an 18 year old or just like them for fun?

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  • Generally younger women.

    • why?

  • At my age 18-20 is a bit young but I am open to any woman of any age with whom I have a connection (and she with me). I do prefer women who are younger but in all honesty every one of my lovers have been within 3 years of my own age.

  • I'm I'm into younger women that are below my age, but over 20 of age is my limit for younger woman

    • why do you like sex with them better?

    • Cause they look better

    • straight to the point haha why dont you want to date younger than 20? Is there something wrong with us 18 year olds? not offended, just curious.

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  • I've always been turned on by younger girls, very horny but can be strange at times

    • why are we strange? lol

    • Strange as in the response from other people, I thinks it hot and huge turn on.

    • ohh yes many people dont like thus coupling I actually lost a friend for dating a much older man for little while I do like to make older women jealous if theyre jerks about it or give dirty looks though. he and i would get dirty looks and id just sit on his lap and start giving him kisses. people are such haters its ridiculous

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  • I prefer younger women, they are more excited and sexually curious

    • oh I can see that, true. thanks :)

    • Any time

  • Depends on how experienced she is, only if she is well experienced

  • Men desire sex with younger women the most.

  • I prefer older, xp outrules teaching.

    • yeah, that has been one insecurity of mine. i love older men but some dont like our lack of experience as very young women. many dont mind but some probably wouldn't want to deal with that lol older women do seem to know how to put it down, they got the moves :D

  • Younger are better

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    • do you?

    • U want me lije

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  • Younger is definitely better... like eating a ripe fruit versus eating rotting fruit.

    Firmer, tighter, sexier, more curious and enthusiastic, etc.

  • Yeah I do , it’s definitely better than older

    • how? im trying to get into guys minds but you won't let me in lol

    • Seeing the world again through younger eyes is nice too and reliving experiences through them. I guess also with a young woman they are usually in good shape and a turn on to see so that also makes the sex better. . I guess the con of dating a really young woman is the differences in goals and achievements in life, the maturity difference and the constant stares you get with the age difference

    • thank you for explaining! :) are you open to seriously dating young girls or just having fun with them? and how old are you, if you dont mind me asking?

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