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Do you find facials degrading?

I can’t stand facials as it makes my face dirty that’s why it’s degrading for me and getting cum in your eyes hurts like a bitch, guys shouldn’t assume that all women are into it. Pornstars were paid to get anything done to them, I also don’t like fisting, deepthroat, facefucking and anal. Not into that, guys who are respectful should know that all these things are not realistic. Also not all guys are into that, it’s very mean to assume all guys are into the same thing. I will give him a blowjob but no deepthroating.
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My ex kept forcing me to please his sexual desires and I can tell he’s still looks pissed off when he didn’t get what he wanted, serves him right since he’s a jerk.
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Also squirting on a woman’s face just to see her reaction without discussing it beforehand is a dick move
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  • As someone who does enjoy giving them greatly, I would hate to give a facial to someone who finds it degrading.
    To me there's a lot to enjoy about it, I like to be watched, I find the most attractive part of anyone to be their face, I enjoy the anticipation, it may sound silly but I find a girl wearing my semen incredibly attractive, I like how it's always different, sometimes there's laughter, sometimes shock, sometimes genuine lust and joy for it.
    I know that it's not something a woman would be in the mood for all the time, and that my sperm is not magical and in reality is just gross white slime. But in reality, a woman's vagina isn't attractive nor does it taste like something I would choose to put near my mouth 90% of the time, but when you're both horny, you want to keep up the illusion that you are both perfect sexual creatures and in that moment, nothing tastes better than her body, because its from her!

    You feel the way you feel about it, you aren't wrong for feeling how you do and you should never do something that have such negative feelings about.
    Still, I feel its a shame you feel so strongly negatively about it, much in the same way I feel its a shame when someone feels as negative about any kind of sexual activity. But I wouldn't want them to do anything that makes them feel so uncomfortable either.

  • It's fine if you don't like those things, but don't disparage others who do.

    There are women who enjoy each of those things. I have not personally been with anyone who enjoyed fisting but I know there are plenty of women who do. I have however been with women who enjoyed and wanted all the other things you mentioned. My current partner is a big fan of anal sex and she asks for it a lot.

    None of those things are "disrespectful" in and of themselves as long as both participants want to do them.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't find them degrading by themselves unless, as you mentioned it's done without your consent or as a way to degrade you. I'm not a big fan of them myself. That shot into the eyes or nose is hell and it isn't that easy to wash off. I'll allow it if my partner wants to but I never prefer it. And if a guy is being a dick then we aren't going to continue anything sexual anyway.

  • Not really but I'm not a fan either. It took me a year and a half to let my boyfriend do it, I realized it was hypocritical of me because I came many times on his face so now I let him give me facials in the shower but he has to clean me up afterwards

    • Love this reply. That's what I've always said. I get her cum on my face when I go down on her. So what's the big deal?

    • reading this makes me wish you were my girlfriend

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  • I can see that and i'll give a blowjob... I probably swallow 95% of the time and taking a facial 5%... which can be messy but I give them probably due to porn a guy may insist and i'll let him from time to time but not regularly for sure... deepthroating is so unnecessary to get a guy to cum... I like a nice session usually on my knees maybe a little candle and having a very sensous time.

  • I'm not a fan of it at all. I don't want cum on my face or in my hair. Not because I think cum is gross, because anywhere else he wants to cum is fair game

    • You can do opposite

    • DAMNIT!!! I KNOW WHERE I WANT TO CUM !.

  • They aren't my favorite but guys love them. If you learn to take a facial you'll never be hurting for guys to call you. ;)

  • I think guys think it is way cool cause that is what they see in porn that they watch. It should be decided ahead of time during oral on where you want him to cum. On the face to me is demeaning. The guy should always return the favor

  • Nope I love a facial ❤❤ but I agree it hurts so bad when it gets in my eyes. I've full on started crying once and that was embarrassing

  • Only you can define what you think is degrading sexually. Some people will find literal humiliation sexy, while some people will thing performing oral is shameful. You decide those things for yourself.

    • Think* not thing.

  • Yeah, facials are not my jam and I do not intentionally enable them to happen. Same goes for slapping my face, its the quickest way to get some teeth.

  • If I’m in the right mood, I kinda like facials. If I want it, I don’t find it degrading. Just don’t get cum in my eyes. That really hurts!

    • Agreed!!

  • Yes, totally degrading, it's mostly done by guys who have a self-important sense of sexual entitlement - and the girls who accept that must somehow like being treated disrespectfully !

  • I agree with everything you've said. None of that stuff seems like fun and it only became popular in pornography relatively recently, as producers tried to distinguish themselves by offering the most extreme sex in an increasingly crowded market. I really think it's stupid when a guy is having sex with a girl in a film and then stops so he can jerk off to finish. The only justification I can think of is that it is a power thing, which would make me think that he is extremely insecure.

  • My wife enjoys facials, says it makes her skin feel nice?

  • Yes, and that's why I like them

    • ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Hey, if my partner consents to it, then I don't really see why there's a problem

  • Personally, I really like everything you listed, but I know I’m in the minority 😂

    • How old were you when you got fisted first?

    • Somehow I missed that part, I’ve never been fisted

    • Thats a relief =P

  • Personally I like them

  • No just a bitch to clean up. Per the last update, someone does that and he’s getting uppercut to the nuts.

  • There are only 3 places to finish. Warm, wet vagina, eager, willing mouth and open air (handjob). Everything else is life imitating porn.

  • I do think facials are mildly degrading, which is sort of the point. It's a mild and not painful (assuming it isn't in your open eye) act of Dom/sub right at the moment of his orgasm.

  • Facials are only appealing visually to watch in porn.

    In real life I like to cum on titties, ass or tummy. Gals have said warm nut on her nipples feels amazing.

  • Yes that stuff is disgusting and i would never want do that with a girl
    i like keeping it for real

  • No I dont see it as degrading, if anything I see it as an intimate experience to share. I'd let her squirt on my face in a heartbeat, so I'm all about equal opportunities lol

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