Do you find facials degrading?

- As someone who does enjoy giving them greatly, I would hate to give a facial to someone who finds it degrading.
To me there's a lot to enjoy about it, I like to be watched, I find the most attractive part of anyone to be their face, I enjoy the anticipation, it may sound silly but I find a girl wearing my semen incredibly attractive, I like how it's always different, sometimes there's laughter, sometimes shock, sometimes genuine lust and joy for it.
I know that it's not something a woman would be in the mood for all the time, and that my sperm is not magical and in reality is just gross white slime. But in reality, a woman's vagina isn't attractive nor does it taste like something I would choose to put near my mouth 90% of the time, but when you're both horny, you want to keep up the illusion that you are both perfect sexual creatures and in that moment, nothing tastes better than her body, because its from her!
You feel the way you feel about it, you aren't wrong for feeling how you do and you should never do something that have such negative feelings about.
Still, I feel its a shame you feel so strongly negatively about it, much in the same way I feel its a shame when someone feels as negative about any kind of sexual activity. But I wouldn't want them to do anything that makes them feel so uncomfortable either.2|02|1Is this still revelant? - Anonymous11 moIt's fine if you don't like those things, but don't disparage others who do.
There are women who enjoy each of those things. I have not personally been with anyone who enjoyed fisting but I know there are plenty of women who do. I have however been with women who enjoyed and wanted all the other things you mentioned. My current partner is a big fan of anal sex and she asks for it a lot.
None of those things are "disrespectful" in and of themselves as long as both participants want to do them.1|10|0Is this still revelant?
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- I don't find them degrading by themselves unless, as you mentioned it's done without your consent or as a way to degrade you. I'm not a big fan of them myself. That shot into the eyes or nose is hell and it isn't that easy to wash off. I'll allow it if my partner wants to but I never prefer it. And if a guy is being a dick then we aren't going to continue anything sexual anyway.0|00|0Is this still revelant?
- Anonymous11 moNot really but I'm not a fan either. It took me a year and a half to let my boyfriend do it, I realized it was hypocritical of me because I came many times on his face so now I let him give me facials in the shower but he has to clean me up afterwards2|41|2Is this still revelant?
Love this reply. That's what I've always said. I get her cum on my face when I go down on her. So what's the big deal?
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1347- I'm not a fan of it at all. I don't want cum on my face or in my hair. Not because I think cum is gross, because anywhere else he wants to cum is fair game2|70|1
- I agree with everything you've said. None of that stuff seems like fun and it only became popular in pornography relatively recently, as producers tried to distinguish themselves by offering the most extreme sex in an increasingly crowded market. I really think it's stupid when a guy is having sex with a girl in a film and then stops so he can jerk off to finish. The only justification I can think of is that it is a power thing, which would make me think that he is extremely insecure.1|10|0
- Anonymous11 moAny man that does that has been brain washed into not understanding how previous his sperm is. To shoot something powerful enough to join with an egg to create a new life is simply ludicrous. Most of us have been fooled into wasting our life force for a dopamine hit. I will never be fooled again. I suggest you guys out there wake up!1|10|0
- I think guys think it is way cool cause that is what they see in porn that they watch. It should be decided ahead of time during oral on where you want him to cum. On the face to me is demeaning. The guy should always return the favor0|00|0
- I can see that and i'll give a blowjob... I probably swallow 95% of the time and taking a facial 5%... which can be messy but I give them probably due to porn a guy may insist and i'll let him from time to time but not regularly for sure... deepthroating is so unnecessary to get a guy to cum... I like a nice session usually on my knees maybe a little candle and having a very sensous time.0|10|0
- Yeah your right about the respect thing. It should be wanted by her and discussed before hand. Once again her choice. And girls if he does , and other stuff like that. Well you need to question how much respect does he have for you? Not any if he would do that to you against your wishes. And he does that he will ultimately cheat on you cause clearly he don't respect any women. They are objects to him. drop that fool , get a man.1|00|0
- Yes, totally degrading, it's mostly done by guys who have a self-important sense of sexual entitlement - and the girls who accept that must somehow like being treated disrespectfully !2|11|3
- Facials are only appealing visually to watch in porn.
In real life I like to cum on titties, ass or tummy. Gals have said warm nut on her nipples feels amazing.0|00|0 - Yeah, facials are not my jam and I do not intentionally enable them to happen. Same goes for slapping my face, its the quickest way to get some teeth.0|00|0
- If I’m in the right mood, I kinda like facials. If I want it, I don’t find it degrading. Just don’t get cum in my eyes. That really hurts!0|00|0
- They are a bit degrading, but that's what makes them so damn hot. It's a kink, and one that not everyone shares. It helps to make sure you and your partner are on the same page, communication is an must.
👍0|00|0 - No just a bitch to clean up. Per the last update, someone does that and he’s getting uppercut to the nuts.0|00|0
- Anonymous11 moUnless she does it herself. That's always the hottest. I don't see the allure in spending an hour on foreplay, different positions and everything just to jerk it myself at the end.
Wherever she wants it, she can put it.0|00|0 - There are only 3 places to finish. Warm, wet vagina, eager, willing mouth and open air (handjob). Everything else is life imitating porn.0|00|0
- I do think facials are mildly degrading, which is sort of the point. It's a mild and not painful (assuming it isn't in your open eye) act of Dom/sub right at the moment of his orgasm.1|01|0
- Nope I love a facial ❤❤ but I agree it hurts so bad when it gets in my eyes. I've full on started crying once and that was embarrassing0|51|0
- They aren't my favorite but guys love them. If you learn to take a facial you'll never be hurting for guys to call you. ;)0|51|1
- Anonymous11 moI don't know about "degrading", but it's not a turn on for me at all. I've only done it once to a woman, and it was a total accident (orgasm came on too fast) lol.0|00|0
- Only you can define what you think is degrading sexually. Some people will find literal humiliation sexy, while some people will thing performing oral is shameful. You decide those things for yourself.1|00|0
- Again my dear, it should not be by force, it's a kind of preference n should be respected by each one, however facial is not degrading.. some other women ask for it based on their own demand.0|00|0
- If you're not comfortable with something sexual that's fine. Not ALL sex is right for EVERYONE. But it is important to be openminded.
Your boyfriend should ALWAYS treat you with respect and honor your wishes.1|00|0 - Anonymous11 moI'm kinda surprised girls allow this sort of thing. Doesn't look pleasant. But if you wanna please your guy...0|00|0
- Anonymous11 moDegrading, not particularly. But then again I'm just not a fan of it and skip those parts in porn if they ever come up. I personally find it stupid.1|00|0
- Yes I do. I do not see any reason for them. An accidental squirt in the face during a bj can be funny and even hot, but a deliberate facial is demeaning. You can blame the porn industry for that one.1|00|0
- Personally, I really like everything you listed, but I know I’m in the minority 😂0|41|0
- Yes that stuff is disgusting and i would never want do that with a girl
i like keeping it for real1|00|0 - It’s fine I’ll cum on your boobies or tummy then. Or inside0|00|0
- yeah I just prefer to keep it simple and creampie them LOL0|00|0
- I feel the same way. I don't get why they do it. It just doesn't make sense.2|00|1
- No I dont see it as degrading, if anything I see it as an intimate experience to share. I'd let her squirt on my face in a heartbeat, so I'm all about equal opportunities lol0|00|1
- It's very rude to cum on your face without asking. Some girls dont like it and you have to respect that.1|00|0
- Yes, to a degree. However, if the woman wants them, I'll give them to her.0|00|0
- My wife enjoys facials, says it makes her skin feel nice?0|11|0
- I'm not a fan of them , a bit degrading of you ask me2|00|0
- I've never been on the receiving end, but I don't see how they could be degrading0|01|1
- Anonymous11 moYes, to me it is. In this society, it is. Maybe in some other context, it could be more respectful.1|40|1
- I wana try everything once. After that I won't have to do facials or any weird things0|00|0
- i think it depends on the girl, ask her where she would like it0|00|0
- yes, it's degrading and looks disgusting. Don't do it if you don't like it1|00|0
- Anonymous11 moI’m not into that, the only thing I’m into is bjs with cum swallow but deep throat is not necessary0|00|0
- I dont think it's degrading generally speaking. But if someone doesn't like it , that's okay.1|00|0
- I have too much respect for women to do any of those things1|00|0
- Anonymous11 moThe only time she gets a facial from me is when she asks.0|00|0
- All that matters is what you think.1|10|0
I was so unlucky to meet a guy who pressured me into doing sex acts I hate the most when he didn’t get what he wanted he broke up with me it’s good he broke up with me
If it's good that he broke up with you, why didn't you just break up with him first?
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- The realm of the porn addict. You chose poorly.0|00|0
- I find it the opposite1|01|1
Well some women love it but not all, squirting on a woman’s face without discussing about it is a dick move.
- Where have you been all my life? 😍0|00|0
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So you don’t mind going down on her? You might get cum on your face. I wouldn’t want my partner to go down on me as it’s kinda degrading for him
- Anonymous11 moI kinda like facials0|62|0
Thats fun! Im sure he enjoyed it too. Did you know it was coming? Have you gotten one since?
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- Anonymous11 moNo, I find them very hot.0|30|0
- Anonymous11 moI prefer mouth.0|00|0
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