Is it wrong to think of your female friends sexually?

[Obtuse]

I mean she's a girl, you're a heterosexual guy, it happens as I see it. For me, it gets especially like that if I go to the beach with my female friends and I see them in their swimsuits.

I never found that urge strong enough to make me fall for them though. Because I can have them for a complete stranger walking on the street. I mean it's interesting that I know them better, but I don't equate friendship + a very primitive sexual attraction as "feelings". To me, "feelings" are a much stronger desire than a mere "hubba bubba" or curiosity.

[Vencam]

I think you're just having a particularly "active" period or just changing/discovering new aspects of your sexual preferences. Either way, it's pretty normal in my view. Just be sure to keep your lust in check as usual (or a bit more) and keep track of changes in your thought processes as you would for any other change you notice in your personality
(To give an example, if you noticed you started being nervous around kids, you may want to see how to deal with it and not let it affect others badly even if you don't understand why it is so)

[Anonymous]

It could mean that subconsciously you probably consider her as a potential partner or she's just *that* hot lol.

I don't think I would mind if one of my guy friends told me they think of me sexually. What wouldn't be okay is if they start acting it out. But hell if he's attractive I might even be down for it.

[BasicBad]

Unpopular opinion: have sex with female friends. It could lead to something great.

[ManOnFire]

I have done the same on more than one occasion.

[drsatan]

I'd have sex with all of my female friends if it could be consequence free, if nothing else, then just put of curiosity to know that side of them.

And I don't think it's wrong, you can think about whatever you want. Feeling guilty over sexual thought is for puritans!
Also, I'm pretty sure most of my female friends have thought the same about me every now and then. Some have outright told me they have had periods like that thinking about me.
It's just human nature.

[Browneye57]

No, that's how guys are wired. Upon seeing ANY woman, they size up in their mind whether she is do-able or not. It's either HELL YES, or HELL NO. And any further interaction is tempered with that.
The girls don't understand the guys. Pretty much at all.
And if you told her 'I would' and she didn't jump your bones, she is NEVER getting the tingles for you. EVER.

[Jacksoscar]

No I think it's pretty common among men. Or maybe I should say it is for me. I pass lady's out and about all the time and have to wonder what they are like in bed. Although less frequently as I have gotten older. But what it truly comes down to is my female freinds are just that female and their just freinds. And just because my mind wonders sometimes I really dont want to sleep with them nor do they need to know my mind wanders every once in a while.

[lightbulb27]

would you mind asking the flip question in another question as well..

Do women think of their male friends sexually?

I'm really not sure. It happens at times, probably natural. I'm not sure natural is good... I don't know at the moment.

[Kaneki05]

Of course not. Everyone who thinks someone is attractive has thoughts about them in sexual sense.
I ain't a crime for you to be attracted to people.
And be attracted to a friend is a nice thing to tell them, since you just said there pretty and any girl getting told there pretty prolly boosts there confidence or makes them happy ethier way normally makes them feel better.

[SLIMZJIMZ]

No it's not wrong at all infact how else can you treasure your girl friend if she isn't liking herself and she may secretly be horny for your man hood and want you that way anyhow.

[Prof_Don]

Almost all guys do this to some degree. I wouldn’t fret too much about it unless you decide to act on these impulses.

If u want to pursue dating or hooking up with your female friends.. there is a lot to consider.

[Anonymous]

There are two possible variations.
First, you are in love with your friend but can’t or don’t want to admit it. Also you are trying to find an excuse for your thoughts or feelings that you are hiding from yourself.
Second, you just a guy who desperately needs a girlfriend, because you are alone and not sexually satisfied.

[Anonymous]

I mean that’s pretty common but I don’t like it too much when guy friends are sexually interested in me. It’s flattering in a way, but I’d like to think that they are friends with me because they care about me and not just because they think they may get a chance to screw me. 😥

[pajamasam]

Nothing wrong with it just be careful to not let it become an obsession, especially if you know you'd rather just be friends with her.

[kim45456]

She surely fuck your ass in her fantasy. So you should not worry. I also love to think about my male colleagues in a sexual way haha.

[Twalli]

I have sexual feelings for a female friend and before I started dating my girlfriend I had sexual feelings about her since she was a friend before I asked her out

[delete_my_number]

Morally? Of course! But it happens all the time on both sides so you're safe. If you want it to go away then you'll have to get a girlfriend

[winterfox10]

Not wrong, but most women probably won't be comfortable with knowing that their male friend was thinking about them that way.

[cetm_]

Hahah every one does it in some point , sexual attraction is part of natural human behavior

[upender]

Both of agree with helthy, honestly, safe, security, privacy policy for free sexual relationship. That's ways No comes any problems from both sides.
This way I agreed for free sexual relationship.

[Itsmeeeee77]

Nothing wrong. Men and women can't be friends. As simple as that. Women can become friends but at some point men will not be.

[gibgabbs]

Well you have to also remember thought encourages potential action. Just remain in control and you're fine

[Kejaco]

I think it's fine to think and look, but the moment you act upon it, then you had better have damn good reasoning to do so, otherwise you are just as sleazy as most fuck boys out there

[notThat1Guy]

That's normal. Your private thoughts are your private thoughts. The manner in which you treat your friend defines your relationship. I believe men and women both do this

[lou3301]

Nope not at all if it makes you feel good and makes you happy forget everyone else and Mike that shit. Just do it!

[updog45]

Deep down we are all animals here to procreate. So very very normal.

[dthomas89]

I guarantee you, there's no such thing as "just friends"

GUARAN FUCKING TEE IT

[Anonymous]

You perv. That is why people say men and women can't be friends. It is because of perverts like you.

[Lunatic1]

Thinking, no. If you go to that next level, it could ruin a lot of friendships.

[kylemazing]

Nope... it’s actually a very fun game to play but if it’s not a problem cuz women should be respected

[TonyTheGuid0]

You shouldn't have female friends in the first place. You friend people of the same sex, and date people the opposite sex. That's how it goes, and that's how I'll always see it.

[JamesRandiDebates]

It's completely normal. Unless you're a homo. Then you'd think that way about all your guy friends.

[lifesucks22319]

It’s wrong boi? It also wrong if u think and mastarbate

[Joe_Barbaro]

Every male on Earth does this, which is one of the 4230982 reasons why men and women can't be friends

[Anonymous]

Go crush some puss bro.

[Anonymous]

Sex is normal. Nothing wrong. She may want to bang you, you never know. Otherwise, chill.

[Anonymous]

Your private sexual thoughts can be anything you want. Probably best not to tell them though.

[Twiggy13]

It is demeaning to sexually objectify someone without their consent

[Anonymous]

It's literally the only reason we have them around.

[Anonymous]

I've had sex with many of my female friends and we're all great friends

[Sixgun77]

It's not wrong, it's natural human behavior.

[AshleyMadison00]

Healthy bae don't become obsessed

[Plitty-Tank]

It seems rather odd to do so.

[Gedaria]

Sometimes it it can be difficult not to..

[Anonymous]

No, that’s just normal thoughts.

[Mb1008]

No ofc not. What can go wrong if you tell her...

[BuckWild]

Free.

[Laozi]

Nope.

[BodyShop]

Normal bro.

[ahmdsalem]

It is wrong to not

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you’re a normal human male.

[CT_CD]

Not wrong

[hash24]

No not at all

[zapana]

Yes, it is

[crusttyxbox99]

Not at all