Should I be concerned (kinda graphic)?

[Anonymous]

Disclaimer!!! I don’t want any details if you have any of your own I just want an opinion!!! I’ve been together with my boyfriend for a year. We get along great. The other day we were talking about our sexual experiences. But I guess after a year of dating I finally asked him if he did anything out there with his ex girlfriends. He said one girlfriend they tried everything in the book. Even blood stuff. He said this was a very long time ago. But they both got tested before hand for diseases and were clean. They then tried some of the knife cutting and licking play. Nothing like buckets but some of the tasting the other persons blood etc. He didn’t not like it and only did it once or twice. I hate blood and I am terrified of it lol. I feel sick to my stomach someone would do that. Should this be worrisome behavior? Even to this day? This was probably 13ish plus years ago he did this. But I never heard of anything like this before. Why would someone want to try this behavior. I get it was along time ago. He has been tested multiple times and is clean. But should I be concerned he did it. Does it impact me in anyway. I don't know I hate blood and I get worried lol. I have extreme blood anxiety. But please no personal stories of your own! Lol!! What is your guys and girls opinion on this behavior!

[drsatan]

It wouldn't bother me.
I'm not into blood, but as long as they didn't want to do that kind of thing with me, then I really don't care!

On the other hand, if I was with someone and found out that used to be into shit play... 😳 I would need to go and shower knowing that I had even touched said person and would probably never be able to look at them again!

[Asker]

Lmao I hear you. Should I not be with him anymore. Cause it does bother me but I don't know.

[drsatan]

Depends how much it truly bothers you. If you seem unsure, then it's probably something you can move past. Gotta be worth a try, anyway!

[Asker]

I agree! It was so many years ago. He told me even before his weird blood story he’s been tested multiple times and has been clean. Why do you think it bothers me so much. I appreciate your feedback!!

[drsatan]

It's just a natural disgust the same way most of us are instinctively disgusted by anything to do with feces. Blood is meant to be inside us, and if it's not inside us, something deep inside us knows something has gone wrong somewhere, and for most of us, that's a bit of a sexy fun time mood killer! Good luck trying to move on with things 🙂

[Asker]

Thank you! I agree! So it wouldn’t be crazy or desperate on my part if I still stayed with him! Haha.

[saggittarius039112]

Damn. Id be worried too.. 😅

[Asker]

Lmaooo why

[saggittarius039112]

I wonder the mindset to try those things. Haha. Im open minded just... Hmm..🤔 gotta be a lot of trust id imagine for blood stuff. Lol

[Asker]

Lmaooo. I can’t even imagine why people would wanna try it! A paper cut scares me xD. I mean no one was hurt and no horror stories but yuck. He knows not even try blood stuff with me. 😂😂

[saggittarius039112]

Oh people were hurt. They were bleeding! 😂😂 would make an awesome death metal song tho🤘

[Asker]

Lmaoooo. Thanks for making me giggle. I guess people have different kinks. I believe him when he said he was clean. I’m just glad it was a one or two time thing. If it was constant I would be afraid he was a serial killer. Lmao 😂 🤪

[saggittarius039112]

Hahaha very interesting thought tho. However, If your cool with it. Id say, by all means. Rock on🤘

[Asker]

Would I be crazy or desperate by staying with him?

[saggittarius039112]

Well a year in right? How is the day to day? Any major issues that would deem you to think to leave?

[Asker]

Yes almost a year in a month! It’s pretty good I enjoy being with him! We have arguments from time to time but we always resolve them. He’s my best friend honestly this just set me back and made me nervous I guess

[saggittarius039112]

If thats all then your good. I wouldn't worry about it. Bygones you know?

[boggboss]

They where just crazy kinky not sure why you should be worried about it if he is still clean lol

[0112358]

He's less freaked out by it then you but doesn't seem into it.

I wouldn't be worried.

[winterfox10]

I wouldn't be worried. It sounds like that was just some one-off weird shit he did when he was young.

[Twalli]

He wanted to try something unique. You shouldn't be that worried about I becausec1) He didn't really enjoy it and 2) It happened over a decade ago. If he didn't like it and hasn't done it in over 10 years, he probably won't do it again and definitely not with you.

[Asker]

Yes! I agree! Thank you.