Guys, Would you end your relationship with your partner if you found out she sent nudes and sexted to strangers many years ago?

Question

Her response will be that it’s in  the past and you are her future.

EmbraceThePain · Accepted Answer

If it’s just that then that’s perfectly fine.

Although, I do want to say, that response from her is so bullshit, generic, and not too truthful. Everyone says stuff like that “Oh, I choose you now after everyone else” or “you’re the future and the other is the past.” It’s just to make you feel good. It’s like when you figure out a man or woman has been with a lot of people and the say that they’re with you now because they chose you over everyone else so you don’t have to worry about their sexual past. Well, of course I’m with her now, but can easily have been another man. I know I’m just a number and it’s all random, but she’s trying to make me feel better and alleviate my worries about her past. She’s trying to make me feel special, even though it’s not necessarily genuine or true

Twalli · Accepted Answer

No. She's not the same person. If I get another girlfriend, she may not be a virgin. I won't break up with a girl because she slept with a stranger. All of my girlfriend's exes are strangers, I haven't met any of them. An aquantace is a roommate of ine of her exes, but I have never seen any of her exes.

Red_Arrow · Answer

If it was before me, then there is no reason for me to be concerned.

ecfresh · Answer

Of course not. I have sent nudes to strangers and sexted in my past so that would be very hypocritical.

cicchis0 · Answer

No, she's right. Why would I care about that? I did all sorts of dumb shit when I was younger.

Dargil · Answer

Before I was in a committed relationship with her? Of course not.

oldguystillhasit · Answer

It doesn't matter what she did in the past. If she does it now it would matter.

Ripper_E · Answer

While in a relationship? I wouldn't be happy about it regardless, but if it's while we're together then it's cheating.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

I frankly could care less about past things. So, no.

worldscolide · Answer

It depends. If she is doing it while we are together... Yeah we are done. If she did it before i was in her life, i could care less. I have a ZERO tolerance for cheating in any form though.