Do u like to control or ur obey partners orders in bed?

Do u like to control or ur obey partners orders in bed?
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  • I'm a natural dominant who is used to being in control, so I don't know how to be anything else - it wouldn't be enjoyable or comfortable to me to be submissive; it would be alien.

  • I like to control most the time and let some time of controlling for my partner, what do you prefer?

    • I love be slave

Most Helpful Girl

  • I prefer to obey. Unless my partner wants me to take control which is still kind of like obeying them.

    • Hello

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  • Obey. I work really hard in an industry where I have to be that goddamn alpha male everyday. I'd really like to just come home sometime and be forced to lick my ladies boots. And other parts of my lady. :)

  • I am somewhat submissive and easy going.
    I let her have her way because I know I will get off no matter what.

    • What is your preference, @Pallavi37 ?

    • I like to be submissive

    • But can change depending on mood

  • Don't really have a chain of command.

  • I'm a totally dominant person but in cases I also obey to my partner choice, it makes things more pleasant and memorable.

  • "Orders" in a voluntary relationship? Requests? sometimes.

  • I like being in total control in the bedroom. There is nothing hotter than a woman doing everything that I tell her to do.

  • I like telling her what to do, and she obeys. 🙂

  • Obey.

  • I'm a submissive personality.

    • Wanna try sometimes?

    • Yess

  • Either way

  • I like to take turns

    • What if ur partner is always dominating?

    • If its not in her nature to switch, and we're already dating, then I guess I'd be her good boy and submit to her 🙃 I'd still prefer dating another switch though coz I like the variety, but I could also date a domme I suppose. If we were dating non-exclusively then I could always date abother girl who is submissive, that way I can have it both ways depending which girl I'm hanging with.

  • I'm definitely into femdom, it's the best fetish. People's perception of it irl is really skewed by the porn, which is laughable and awful.

    • U like fetish?

    • Yeah. I've had a couple of domme gfs, and they were really cool.

  • Both honestly

  • Outside the bedroom I am in control, but when it comes to intimacy the girl can be in control as much as she wants.

  • Both depends on mood

  • I am the dominant.

    • Good

    • The one who is expert should take control in his/her hands no matter man or woman. Besides I am turned on when my partner is submissive and she let me dictate my terms on her. But being dominant doesn't mean you forget your partner's needs. It means you are incharge who has to satisfy despite being wild

  • I like when she treats me as her sex slave hehe

  • I don't believe in obedience or supremacy of anyone. In bed both should be free to do whatever they wish.

  • I like both. Usually I'd rather obey and be totally submissive though

  • We take turns. 😎

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