Which kinks have you discovered about yourselves?
Were any of them surprising to you?
And how did you discover them?
So far I found out I like being dominated (not that surprising).
I apparently do like being choked, which came as a shock.
And, believe me, I did not know this was a thing, apparently, it turned me on when my ex held my tongue between his fingers while we had sex and other stuff.
All this with my most recent ex and I did not get to discover enough with him before we broke up, but that's how it goes.
I just have to hope I can find someone else.
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