Which kinks have you discovered about yourselves?

So throughout your sexual lives, which kinds of kinks did you discover about yourselves?

Were any of them surprising to you?
And how did you discover them?

So far I found out I like being dominated (not that surprising).
I apparently do like being choked, which came as a shock.

And, believe me, I did not know this was a thing, apparently, it turned me on when my ex held my tongue between his fingers while we had sex and other stuff.

All this with my most recent ex and I did not get to discover enough with him before we broke up, but that's how it goes.
I just have to hope I can find someone else.
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  • *One thing is body hair on a girl. Wispy underarm hair is OK and I have found it actually to be a plus... it looks "earthy" intimate and natural to me. I think pubic hair looks feminine, modest and mature and it looks best cropped and edged for underwear. My first sexual encounters were fairly lush in both places (Italian girls) and I guess it set the tone.
    *Another is, simply, attractive girls peeing. Not toilet, desperation, accidents in clothes or any kind of "water sports). Just standing, squatting, reclining and macro closeup. I know this goes back pre-teens, just thinking it was secret and naughty.
    *I have long had an attraction for prominent, perky nipples. I don't know where it came from but when I see something like this, me heart jumps.

    Which kinks have you discovered about yourselves?
  • When I first started having sex I thought I was gonna be submissive until I had sex with someone who was totally submissive, then I had my first experience of taking control and I loved it and would never change it lol I love being the rough dominant I guess

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  • One thing I've started to like is peeing. Not on each other or drinking it (gross) but I love being watched when I pee. I have also held a guys dick when he peed and it was pretty fun.

    • Were you able to aim the stream accurately into the toilet? Or were you guys outside?

    • @TadCurious once in the toilet and the rest outside. I aimed pretty good except when he was almost done. We dribbled a bit. Lol

    • Yeah the finishing up part is the trickiest for dribble prevention. But you did great and what an awesome bonding experience!

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  • Yes!! I love choking. I didn't realise until a guy did it to me as well.

    • I love this as well. Well more so doing the choking, my ex loved it which got me into it

    • Nice one!

    • Yeah it became a big turn on for both of us. I really liked the control it gave

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  • I found out about two kinks I have. The first one was Ballbusting, I like when a woman causes me testicular pain, or even when a they threaten to. The second and in my opinion more odd one is Small penis humiliation, pretty self explanatory, I like when girls tell me I have a small penis. I found out about the ballbusting one when two of my female friends decided it would be fun to repeatedly punch me in the balls.

  • I'm into holding girls feet, kissing and licking them. Plus I like sniffing girls urine hole and kissing/licking it passionately

  • My kink is vanilla, missionary sex with minimal movement. Knowing Jesus is watching with an approving smile makes me cum so hard

  • I'm a simple masochist. I'm a shy person, so I typically avoid people in general, but a freind of mine was at a huge party and invited me to go. As I got there, there was a game of t or d. I join, and instantly get a dare to get smacked by every girl in the room hard... I'll just say I didn't groan.

  • I disciv that I like being dominant and submissive, that I find it hot if a girl thinks or says I have a small penis. More recently the idea of being cheated on with a guy with a much bigger dick and most recently I find premature ejaculation hot and do it a lot as well to girls dissatisfaction

  • So for me I thought I was into vanilla sex until one time with a friend where we had sex at a party with everyone in the other room. Just the public risk and also how much she wanted to be controlled was amazing. So yeah, public sex, and rough sex where the girl is more submissive.

  • I have a kink for women’s farts. Every time I see a woman I find attractive, I fantasize about smelling her farts.