My girlfriends boobs are too small. Should I leave?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend doesn't fill an AA cup bra. Almost completely flat chested. I have never been super picky when it comes to size, but I feel there should at least be something there. I'm attracted to her otherwise, she has a great personality and I feel I'm in love with her but this one thing bothers me. It's this worth leaving her over or is this problem too 'small' to make such a fuss over?

[lucas262]

No one will ever find a man or woman that is 100% right on all sizes and shapes in all the right places. Ever.

If I loved everything else about her,

her boobs are not gonna be a problem.

I'd rather she have everything inside that counts than be a perfect 10 and lack any of what makes her special.

Not to sound like a simp or like im hating on you specifically but people that have shallow standards and toss away good people for an imperfection do not deserve them and afterward won t deserve any one else.

[Love2Jackit]

No u shouldn't leave her over small boobs. That's not a good reason for wanting 2 leave somebody. Another is u knew what size they was. When the 2 of u started seeing each other. I think u want 2 leave her. U are trying 2 come up with a reason. That way u are not making it seem like ur fault. You need 2 think long and hard about the situation. Cause she might be the best thing u ever had. Worst u are trying 2 give her a self image problem. If u want 2 break up. Then do it. Don't make excuses for ur feeling of guilt.

[Elliegirl]

If you really love her you won’t care what size her boobs are. If her little boobs are a dealbreaker for you, leave her so she can find a man who will love and appreciate her and her tiny titties and not even ask if he should leave her over something so trivial! And if you leave her, do not under any circumstances tell her you are leaving because her tits are too small! Telling her you’re gay or cheating would be less devastating than saying her boobs are too small (don’t tell her you’re gay or cheating either).

[AngelAimée]

If you leave her over that then you're a piece of shit.

[Asker]

Yeah that's what I think. Seems like a really silly reason to leave someone over, but a lot of people are saying that if there's a single feature I don't find attractive, that I should leave no questions asked.

[AngelAimée]

If that's the case then I guess those that say that will be forever single.

[Daniela1982]

My boyfriend's dick is so small, should I leave? can be a return answer. You may never find another love so why so picky? Besides, she can always get a boob job but you can't get a dick job.

[BeardedViking33]

Technically... dick enhancement surgery does exist. But he's still dickless anyway... though that's also surgically cured, he's just a ballless asshole

[Asker]

I agree that I may never find another love and that's why I didn't let it stop me in the first place. I would consider a micropenis a valid concern tbf.

[Isten]

Well... you could see her shape way before asking her out or whatnot, so you are in no place to complain over it now. If it bothers you so much, why did you pursue her in the first place?

[Asker]

Because, believe it or not, there's other attractive features aside from boobs and I wasn't going to let a great girl not have a chance just because of that.

[Isten]

Then why are you complaining now?

[Vencam]

I'm with @Isten on this one. I do want to hear why you're complaining only now, but I think you should stick with her if it's only a breasts thing. Hell, you could even pay her for implants if you really love her and care about it (if she's OK with it ofc)

[katiesmuff]

Just thinking that way would make you a real ASS, however assuming your just another useless TROLL your just a useless jerk.

[LVbrando85]

The thing is this, do you feel that you'll be missing out on something for the rest of your life if you stay with her? Or does she brighten up your world so much that you can't imagine life without her? Whatever you answer to this question... will be your decision. But in all honesty I LOVE athletic bodies, small boobs aren't a big deal in my opinion lol. She can always get implants, but that has to be HER decision. Be careful not to make her self-conscious.

[OlderAndWiser]

At what point in the relationship did you discover that she has small boobs?

[Red_Arrow]

Yes. Leave her so she can get with a real man.

[Asker]

So real men like women with small boobs now?

[Red_Arrow]

Real men like women for who they are. But it is also true that many women prefer smaller boobs.

[Red_Arrow]

* Many MEN prefer women having smaller boobs. *

[Asker]

What about almost no boobs. I don't mind small boobs.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Yeah leave her. You need some sort of attraction.

[Asker]

There's plenty of attraction. Just not in the chest region...

[Warmapplecrumble]

Physically you like everything but her chest area?

[Asker]

Yes, exactly. She's beautiful. But it's hard not to notice the lack of boobs.

[Warmapplecrumble]

I think it's best to leave. Imagine if she finds out.. it will create so many arguments and insecurities.

[Asker]

She knows she has very small boobs. So you're saying after all the love and great memories we share, I'm supposed to leave her because of the size of her boobs?

[Warmapplecrumble]

Eventually she'll see you checking women out with big boobs and one day you'll cheat when given the chance. I just don't see a positive to this. It's something you'll have to keep inside your heart and lie to her every time.

[Asker]

Lol I'm never going to cheat. I can appreciate other women without feeling compelled to have sex while in a committed relationship. I don't lie though. I tell her all the time about what other great features I appreciate in her. I'm not 'yes darling, your boobs adequately large'.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Well imagine she doesn't want sex for many days, highly possible. Then a big boob woman with equally good personality and looks comes into your life. Then stuff will happen. Or will cross your mind at least. If you wanna stay with her then stay with her. And convince yourself her flat chest is very sexy.

[Asker]

How am I supposed to convince myself that flat chest is sexy? With every beautiful woman in ads or movies, they always have boobs. How can I do that when I, and any other man, is culturally conditioned to associate boobs with beauty?

[Warmapplecrumble]

Well boobs are sexy on a woman. I won't deny that. I guess you could brainwash yourself but it won't work for long because men are hard wired to find a attractive body sexy and mate with it, meaning better offspring for them.

[Asker]

So you think it's pretty much hopeless?

[Warmapplecrumble]

Well you find her attractive and like her. By that logic you should stay with her. But my experience tells me : A. I would not like to be in that situation and prefer the guy finds all of me attractive. B. Cheating is very likely in today's society, like a ticking time bomb if you've even got one reason. Its like the whole society is now designed for only open relationships. So having all that in mind, what you think?

[Asker]

Well I think you'd have to be delusional to not have preferences. No one's perfect. I'm heavily monogomous so I really don't believe I'd ever cheat no matter what do I don't think that applies to me.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Well then stay with her. But never ever make her feel like her chest is not attractive, and never ever look at another womans chest infront of her or make any point ever in your entire relationship with her.

[prashant9643]

@warapplecrumble you should tell him the ways to improve on his girls size, rather guide him to breakup.

[prashant9643]

@warmapplecrumble does playing with her boobs help her increase size?

[Warmapplecrumble]

@prashant9643 only way to increase size is probably for her to get bigger, but some bigger girls can have flat chest too. And pregnancy will makes breasts bigger for a little while then it will go back to organial size. It's complex. And surgery is not in my opinion a good solution.

[prashant9643]

I think if the guy sucks it and play with it regularly then it increases its size. Am I right dear @warmapplecrumble

[Warmapplecrumble]

@prashant9643 no lol 😂

[katjmj]

She has a chance of growing her boobs when she gets pregnant just saying.

But if it bothers you so much it's better you leave now before investing too much. Although I have to wonder how you're gonna break it off with her. Like what are you gonna say lol

[G3tAClue]

100% douche bag move to complain about small boobs.

[Poppymarie]

This is an extremely shallow reason to leave her

[EmmaMary]

Do her a favour and fuck off, this will allow her to find a real man, and not some fucking pathetic whiny little toerag.

[Asker]

I'm allowed to have preferences

[EmmaMary]

And she's allowed to have a real man who appreciates her for what she is, not for what she's got.

[Asker]

I do appreciate her greatly. Just wish she had boobs. Like, at all.

[ecfresh]

She is your girlfriend so you were attracted to her to begin with. What changed?

[Asker]

I'm very attracted to her. It's just her boobs. Boobs are universally agreed as an attractive feature, but she simply lacks

[cicchis0]

What attracted you to her in the first place? How are you only noticing this now that you have a committed relationship? Is she on the pill?

[modeve]

It is your "after-thought". Didn't you know that she has tiny boobs? Are big boobs your only concern?

[Asker]

Yes it is an afterthought. Well IDC if they're big, but yes, the fact that they're non existent is my only concern.

[sheildagent]

Let her go. If you have to ask if you should stay with her because her boobs aren't ideal then you obviously don't love her.

[DannyFanny]

If you love her it shouldn't matter

[flame111]

U don't love her then u just like her bcos she has great personality

[Asker]

So you like someone for their personality, but you love someone for their boobs? Am I missing something?

[flame111]

Oh boy.. u dont love that girl, you just admire her bcos of her personality

[Prof_Don]

If you don’t find her physically attractive enough to satisfy you, you’re going to end up cheating anyways.

Might as well break up.

[Bandit74]

I don't get why the responses to this are so aggressive. Girls dump guys for superficial things all the time. Do you really think any of the girls insulting you would date a guy with a small dick or a guy who is really short or a a guy with a shitty physique, or guy who is balding?

Probably not.

[Passinggas]

Well guys that obsess over big boobs tend to be poor and sexist (per studies). So, you might be doing her a favor if you split up with her.