Is blowjob a must in a relationship?

[Tamera952]

You’re already coming at this with preconceived notions and rules and weird hangups. ... nobody’s going to “force“ you to swallow that’s ridiculous unless they’re raping you.
You Have way too many do’s and don’ts from the start…
You need to like get over yourself, get on over to pornhub to watch some gay blow job compilations — get some tips — have a bottle of wine and get into the fucking swing of things!
You don’t understand that boys=dicks, dicks=happy, happy=blowjobs.
Blow jobs are not a big deal— it’s more about pleasuring your partner and having your partner enjoy it and boys LOVE LOVE LOVE blow jobs. If you want any semblance of a sexual relationship with the opposite sex you better get on board.
There is no guy alive on the planet that would rather Negotiate and deal with the female drama to stick his dick into some freaking idiot girls Twat, when he just simply have a blowjob. Guys with his blowjob over hectic girls Twat hundred percent of the time guarantee

[chrissykerdock]

blowjobs are a must in a relationship... I hate to say it so is swallowing... your only hurting his feelings by not swallowing... it's not really that bad you have to give it a chance and in no time you'll enjoy him cumming in your mouth... if you don't like the taste just deep in your mouth when he's about to cum... the trick is learn when his cock really expands that means he's going to cum... all you have to do is deep while he cums and you won't taste a thing.

[0112358]

Probably with some exceptions.

I want a partner who is sexually enthusiastic and likes variety. I have spoken to some women who are like that but, for instance, have past trauma around oral sex in particular and don’t want that one act. I can skip blowjobs in that case.

most people (I suspect men and women) who don’t like oral, it’s the first in a large list of things they don’t like/want to do. It’s just the most vanilla thing they don’t want. In that case... knowing what I know now I’d see it as a dealbreaker.

When I was your age I would have been fine with handjobs and future sex but I’ve learned more since then.

[AngovisNL]

It Shouldn't be a 'must', and if it is then Goodluck to him finding a girl based of blowjob skills lmao

[pierre7i]

Even though oral sex was depicted in ancient Egyptian & ancient Roman drawings & art work, it has become an almost everyday part of sex nowadays
because of internet porn -- but to me personally it is not real sex and though I sometimes enjoy receiving it as part of foreplay (and I love giving oral to girls I'm being sexual with) it is something that is pleasurable but not particularly special

Now real sex, true sexual lovemaking which includes penis-vagina penetration, that is definitely a much more beautifully pleasurable (and important) part of a relationship 🍆🍊

[drsatan]

Sexual compatibility is what's essential!
If neither of you enjoy giving or receiving oral sex, then it's not needed.
If one of you really likes oral sex or anal sex or kinky rough sex and the other doesn't, then it simply won't work out between the two of you.
It's the same as if you were in a relationship with someone who is emotionally closed off and something you really need is a person who is emotionally open.
Neither is wrong or right, but they aren't compatible with each other.
there's plenty of people out there, there's no need to settle for a relationship that doesn't give you the things that are important to you, emotional or sexual.

[Twalli]

Semen is actually extremely healthy. I am not saying you should swallow, but it has a lot of nutrients in it. I read a story about a single mom, fitness trainer, who drinks a smoothie with her neighbor's semen in it every day. It may only be a teaspoon, but she says it gives her a bit more energy than otherwise. Nothing I say can force yo to swallow, but it's healthier to do so. It isn't like you can't drink something else after to wash out the taste. Think of it like medicine. The taste isn't ideal, but it is good for you.

[Lliam]

Is cunnilingus a must? Not necessarily, I suppose. But oral is certainly a beautiful gift to give someone.
Swallowing is definitely not a must. It's hot when a woman does, especially if she loves it, but if she doesn't like it, she shouldn't be obliged to. If she give blowjobs, she is a treasure. A blowjob isn't a blowjob unless she keeps the guy between her lips when he cums. But she is allowed to let it run out of her mouth or spit. No prob.

[Dargil]

It ranks high on the "hopeful" list. This may be funny but it is the absolute truth.

Flowers for Men

I do not get any satisfaction from her swallowing. But I admit that I get a feeling of satisfaction when she spits it in her palm and shows me, proudly, how well she did.

[HeyMikie]

Blowjobs are a gift. No one should be forcing you to swallow anything. That having been said, if you were to want to try swallowing, there are some things that can improve the taste. Pineapple and strawberries are best. 3 or 4 cups of mint tea a day can also help as can cutting back on meat. There are various drink mixes and capsules that one can buy that claim to make cum taste better. I've never tried them but the idea seems sound.

[zeekitten26]

I personally love giving blowjobs and I honestly love having him cum in my mouth. There is something about it thats very sexy and oh my, the way he looks at me when I do it turns me on immensely. And my boyfriend keeps his downstairs area pretty clean, he even tastes amazing. So no complaints from me.

[hamadazopry]

BJ is really important now it becomes essential in most of sexual practice, however to swallow is not a must but u should try it for one time, maybe u will like it

[pajamasam]

For me it's a requirement. But not like every day. Once in a while is fine. As long as she is willing to try I can appreciate it. Plus I intend to go down on her too. Keep it all nice and fair.

[berserk945]

No it's not a must, but I really would like for her to try it once, and I'd love it if she do it for special occasions if she really doesn't like it. For swallowing i again like her to try to at least once if she hates it then I'm fine with her spitting it out

[TadCurious]

It's not a must-do for some people. But if you're willing to try it what are you going to do when your partner cums?

[Anonymous]

Depends on the guy honestly.. it shouldn't be forced upon though. If he truly cares, he'll let it be free will and respect you if not, forget it. Trust me don't go there with him if he acts like an asshole. My boyfriend doesn't mind if I give him blowjobs or not and I have a medical condition too so there's days we do other things and he's so sweet and understanding about it.

[purplepoppy]

In a relationship nothing unwanted should be a must.

[i1T2daty]

For me the must is giving head, not necessarily giving it

[potatoiswhoiam]

I wouldn't say it's a must. It all depends on both partners preferences. Nothing should be forced and the relationship is at its healthiest when both partners can find the perfect middle ground in everything they do together

[goaded]

No, it's not. You're there to please each other, not to make someone do something they don't want to.

[ND4SPD31]

I’m perfectly fine with not getting them. If that’s something she wanted to do then I wouldn’t stop her but long as I was still able to please her and have sex with her, I’m good.

[Deezyrazzy]

haven't met a guy who hasn't asked for it... infact they kinda adamant on it

[alltafgradur]

No absolutely not, I for example don't like it all that much, but pussy licking I really enjoy to give

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If i had a Girlfriend , i don't want her to give me oral sex
if it makes her uncomfortable , i want her to be comfortable
with things we do.

[gibgabbs]

I dont like them. I'll eat pussy though and I dont expect return favours.

[ivbnlknfru]

As much as most men enjoy it, its not a requirement. You should just be sure that he is ok with you not liking it. If he has a problem with it than you need to move on...

[Lucky_guy999]

My girlfriend hated the taste and it’s not that important for me to cum in her mouth. I prefer cumming inside her anyway, most men probably do. I find it a tiny bit embarrassing cumming in her mouth as it makes her gag

[Anonymous]

If there's any "must" or "force", this person doesn't really care for you and is a bad relationship.

[theCobbler]

No, not at all! A relationship built on Sex is destined to fail... and if he /she makes such demands, should have already been, Gone!

[nailu]

idc about bj. Eating you and drinking your juices, now that’s a requirement

[colinthenewfie]

Tell him to start eating some pineapples. There's no reason that cum should be that bitter

[DECENTDEVIL]

No its not must but you got an different experience by that & it also give protine to your body by cum

[ArmyGuy91]

Yes its the start to something great after the blowjob. I enjoy a good blowjob and I would return the favor

[updog45]

Nah, blow jobs are great. But its not a must, I never get off from them anyways.

[Mcluven]

He doesn't have to cum in your mouth. Let him cum on your body or face.

[Romeocuck]

no. but for him to get down and lick you is very much so

[ZSean]

Nope not needed for me didn't care if my ex did or not.

Lol she was also bad at it

[Anonymous]

You don't have to swallow. Just find someone who thinks of it as an lead in to the actual part of sex.

[Anonymous]

Liked, yes, but not a must. Nothing should be a "must" in a relationship except mutual love for one another and boundaries set that both agree on.

[Anonymous]

Don't worry about it, just make him go down on you.

[Max1109]

It is not necessary to swallow it first tell him that I will not swallow it and then proceed

[Anonymous]

I don't like it either. I am willing to do it if he likes but I don't want him to cum inside my mouth, let alone swallow...

[eagle1951]

i was married 37 years, she never gave me one BJ. and I was ok with it , because i Loved Her

[BrianTG78]

Ya it is. Tit for tat

[Nachowedgie]

Of you hate it the most are you sure you should be dating guys?

[Anonymous]

I can tell you from a very recent experience that it is certainly not.

[BillieJean1070]

Nothing is a must... I do it show love.

[Dchrls78104]

A must, you said? For me, a deal-breaker!

[COMMODOREII]

If i go down on her i expect her to go down on me.

[Anonymous]

Is vaginal oral expected or required?

[navyP]

Not for me receive but definitely for me. to give

[FatherJack]

Never liked them , so in my view , NOT a must !!

[es20490446e]

The first thing I ask on dates is if they swallow.

[mcPhedrin]

Yes cause I am gonna lick her pussy and asshole.

[flyingbird101]

Yes, cuz you he's hoe and he's a hoemaker

[Jerre]

No, not at all. I much prefer fucking.

[Anonymous]

If you're boring it's not a must, but I do it.

[Chitown10]

Not mandatory for me but they are enjoyable

[Anonymous]

Sex without head is like a sandwich without bread.

[Cannuck22]

So you like your Pussy locked

[Slim57]

Yeah because I like giving and receiving

[Samantha_17]

I don't do it. I would rather have anal :)

[dthomas89]

Nope

[Jmmmfi4]

Any guy who says it's not is lying